Nguva yekuve pamwe chete
Hazvina matambudziko emari, kana maonero ehama, kana kurambidzwa kwechitendero kunobata chisarudzo chekuguma kwechato sechokuita nevana vese. Maererano nehuwandu, 71% yevamwe vagari venyika havasati varambana nemhaka yemwana.
Asi, usingazvibvumi kuti ufunge nezvekusununguka kubva muhutano hwekuroorana, nokuti uchikura vana vanojairika, pindura mubvunzo mubvunzo: ndeye chete vana vanokonzera here? Kutaurirwa kuchengetwa kwemwana kanowanzova chifukidzo chakanaka chakanzwisisika uye chinokonzerwa nevakadzikadzi chepanyama-kutya kuchinja, kutya kwekusurukirwa, kutya urombo, kutya kutarisa zvakaipa mumaziso evamwe. Usati watarisana nehama, zvakakosha kutarisana nekutya uku, nokuti zvakakwana zvachose.
Kutya kusurukirwa. Pasinei nemafungiro akasimbiswa anoti "hapana munhu anoda kusimudza mhumhi yemumwe" uye kuti "Handifaniri chero munhu ane trailer," vakadzi vakaroorana nevana vanowana shamwari itsva yave nyore uye iri nyore kupfuura ivo vasina vana uye vasina kumbobatsirana. Uye izvi zvinonzwisisika: ivo vagara vane ruzivo rwekuvaka hukama shure kwavo uye vanoziva zviri nani zvatinotarisira kubva kumudzimai; kunzwisisa pfungwa dzevanhu (kusanganisira varume vakaroorana) uye vanogona kunyarara vachitaura simba rewakaroorana nenzira yakarurama.
Mukuwedzera, muchato nemukadzi ari kutova nevana, varume vanonyatsoongororwa sechimwe chivimbo chekugona kwake kuzvitora. Kana akangova nemwana mumwe, hazvizove dambudziko kwaari kuti arambe achidaro.
Imba yakadzokororwa, sekutonga, inogara yakasimba kupfuura yekutanga. Mushure mezvose, kubatana uku hakuna kuwirirana nerudo rwepenzi kana kufarira kwevechidiki, hazvirevi chido kana kuti chido chokubvisa kubatsirwa kwevabereki, asi yakavakwa maererano nehutano husingadi uye yakagadzirwa neshamwari uye rubatsiro rwekugadzirisa nzira yekuchengetedza mhuri yakasimba uye yakabatanidzwa. Izvi chaizvoizvo zvakaenzana, hukama hwekuroorana. Zvakakosha chete kuchengeta pause mushure mekurambana, zvakanaka-pamusoro pegore.
Kutya kudzvinyirirwa kwemari. Kazhinji chikonzero chechokwadi chechikonzero ndechekurambana.
Mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, kuchengetedza mhuri kunotungamirira kumatambudziko makuru kumwana kupfuura kurambana.
1 Mhirizhonga mudzimba, mumuviri kana mutsika.
2 Kunwa doro, kupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka, kubhejera kweumwe wevabereki,
3 Kutaura kwechokwadi hukama hwehupenyu hwomumwe wevabereki,
Kune zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekuchengetedza mhuri:
Chido chekare chakapfuura, asi pakati pako pane kuremekedza nekuwirirana.
Chisarudzo chokuva mubereki chakanga chaziva, iwe mose maida mwana.
Iwe unowanzofarira, chinowanzokonzera.
Une chido chakakwana uye simba rokushanda iwe pachako uye hukama hwako.
Iwe wakagadzirira kuzvishandura iwe pachako uye chiratidzo chako chemamiriro acho ezvinhu. Mhuri mbiri dzinotungamirira kuparara.
Kunyatsorongedza zvinotsigira uye hupenyu hwehupenyu zvakasiyana, iwe unoona kuti kune humwe hutano uye iwe haugoni kurarama nazvo.
Iwe unonzwisisa zvakajeka kuti hupenyu hwako husina wawakaroorana huchashanduka huri nani - zvose iwe nevana.
Kuchengetedzwa kwemhuri ndeyekuvimba kwemari kune wawakaroorana naye. Maiwe, mhinduro yemubvunzo wezvemari kana pane kurambana kunowira pasi pamafudzi emukadzi. Kunyangwe alimony haimbowanzobatsiri pakukura kwakanaka kwomwana.
Kune rumwe rutivi, pane kushandiswa kuduku, kana bedzi nokuti hapana kutenderwa "nyama yemurume" mumutambo wezuva nezuva. Panguva imwecheteyo, mukadzi wacho anogona kuronga bhajeti pachake, pasina kuudza mari yacho.
Kutya kupiwa mhosva kune vamwe ndekuchengetedza mhuri yakasimba uye yakabatanidzwa. Maonero evanambuya pamusuo vanofanira kuva vekufarira, kunyanya sezvo maonero e "amai vasina kuroora" uye "nherera" vari kukumanikidzwa kunze kwekuziva kwevanhu.
Kutya kudzivisa mwana. Kukura mwana wakanyatsogadziridzwa mumhuri isina kukwana haisi basa rakanaka, asi rinobvira. Uye mamiriro makuru eizvi ndeyekurasa pfungwa ipi neipi pamusoro pemhosva yako uye kuti mwana anokura nemukadzi ane rudo uye, anokosha, anofara uye akanyarara, angave asina kufara. Zvakanaka, mushure mekusangana nemurume wake nenzira inofadza, mukadzi anogona kugadzira kukurukurirana pakati pomwana nababa vake. Kana zvisina kudaro, baba vemafudzi vanogona kuwanikwa vachitora nzvimbo kunze kwehukama hutsva: basa romurume mukuru muhupenyu hwomwana anogona kutamba hama yakwegura, sekuru, shamwari yemhuri, nezvimwewo.
Tora danho
Mune zvimwe zviitiko, ndiko kurambana kunova danho rakanaka, rakagadzirirwa nekuda kwechecheche.
Urarame nevabereki vose, avo vanogara vachizvidza, nokuti mwana wacho akazara nezvinetso. Mazita avo haasi akafupika: kubva usiku kusava nehutano hwemuti nehope dzinotyisa, kutaura, mumuviri uye mupfungwa.
Vana vechidiki vaduku vezera remakore uye kunyanya "vana vasingafungi" vana vane hanya zvikuru-vanozonzwa kupesana kwehukama pakati pevabereki. Zviri pachena kuti izvi zvicharatidzika mumurairo wemwana, kukurukurirana nevamwe uye kunyange muhupenyu hwemwana. Zvichida kunyange kubuda kwematambudziko chaiwo ehutano - saka mwana anoziva kuti anotambura nemamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, achizvicherechedza.
Munhu anenge aine mufaro wake "muzita romwana" anogona kuva pasina: vana vako havakwanisi kuikwanisa, kunyange mushure mokukura. Asi kuti aite kuti anzwe aine pfungwa yekugara aine mhosva ndeyechokwadi. Kunyanya kana tikasimbisa kuti nekuda kwake chete, vabereki vasingafari, vanomanikidzwa kugara pamwe chete.
Kuvhiringidzika, kutya, kuvhiringidzika, zvakajairika kumhuri umo vanhu vakaroorana vanotambura, zvichabatsira mwana. Kuunganidza zvisina kupera muchisimba, maitiro ekuratidzira, kunoita kuti mwana asashamwaridzana, akavharwa. Ndezvevana vanobva kumhuri dzakadaro, avo vakachengeteka chete muchitarisiko, uye vanoti: "Mhuri haisi isina zvakaipa."
Dzimwe nguva zviri nani kuti mwana aone baba vake kamwechete pavhiki - asi anobatsira uye ane hanya, pane kungofungisisa zuva rega rega chiso chebaba vake, chinovigwa muTV kana pakombiyuta.
Muenzaniso wekuita zvepabonde, izvo mwana anowana kubva paukama hwevabereki, zvinogona kunge zvakanyanya kuendeswa kune hupenyu hwehupenyu hwako. Kutsigira uye kutonhora, kutonga mumhuri "yakazara", zvinotungamirira kukuti kubva kumwana anokura asina munhu mukuru, asingakwanisi kunzwa manzwiro chaiwo, kana kuti akaoma uye asina chokwadi kune anorasika.