Maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, kune dzimwe nzira dzepasi rose dzinobatsira kuchengeta kwemakore akawanda, hukama hwekuda. Vakadzi vari nyore kwazvo kuchengetedza chido, saka, pamwe nekukwanisa, mari iyi yakakodzera varume. Vanobatsira mune zviitiko zvose, uye havafanire kushungurudzwa, nokuti hafu yechipiri inogona kukufungidzira iwe wekusatendeseka. Uyezve, kana iyo inoshandiswa nguva dzose, kubwinya kwekunzwa kunogona kurasikirwa.
Ukama hwakanaka uye hune ushamwari nemurume wake hunogona kuponeswa chete kana murume nemudzimai vanoedza rudo rwemumwe nomumwe neruremekedzo. Uye kana pasina manzwiro akadaro, saka hakuna kunyange iyo nzira yepasi rose inobatsira kuratidza chido. Ngatitarise mazano.
1. Iwe unofanirwa kudzidza kuti ungataura sei kukurudzirana kune umwe neumwe kuitira kuti ivo vasiri kungorumbidzwa chete, mashoko aya ane ushamwari anofanira kunzi kunyatsotendeseka uye nomwoyo wakachena. Mushure mezvose, pane zvimwe chimwe chiri muhafu yako, chii chaunoyemura? Kana iwe unogona kufarira maziso ake (maziso), makumbo? Kana iwe uine mwoyo uchikurira, apo iwe unofarira uchibuda muine mavara akanaka, anoshamisa, saka taurira mudiwa wako nezvazvo. Murume anokwanisa kurumbidzwa nguva dzose nekuda kwehukama hwake, nekuda kwake, tsitsi, kubudirira mubasa rake. Zvimwe kurumbidza mudiwa wako, nokuti akafanirwa nemashoko aya, hapana kana kumbobvumirwa. Uye aya mazwi anofadza anogona kuita chishamiso, hafu yako inofara, ichinyarara, asi iwe hauna kuzvida?
2. Inofadza kwazvo kuzadzisa chikumbiro chevadiwa vavo. Kana iwe ukakumbirwa kubhadhara, teerera kana kupfeka, saka jasi raanokumbira harifaniri kurambwa, tora hama dzako noruremekedzo. Uye kana akazadzisa chikumbiro chako, ramba uchimurumbidza nokuda kwayo.
3. Edza kushamisika. Wakamborarama pamwechete kwemakore uye uchiziva zvose pamusoro peumwe? Ko manheru ako anoenda nenzira imwecheteyo here? Uye iwe unoita kuti mudiwa wako ave nerudo rwema candlelight dinner. Kana iwe waunofarira wakabva kubasa wakaneta, tsvina yekunhuhwirira uye kunakidza kushambidza, kuvhara makenduru, tenderera mimhanzi yaanoda. Fara mudiwa wako neainoda ice cream kana kunakidza kunonaka. Kana ukatenga chipo chiduku, achakwanisa kufara zvose, uye kuti usakanganiswa nechisarudzo chechipo, unoda kubvunza zvisati zvaitika uye kuzviisa pane zvaunoda, kugadzirira kushamiswa kune waunoda.
4. Hapana munhu asina kukanganisa, kana mumwe wako, kana iwe. Dzidza kukanganwira, kupa mumwe nomumwe mukana wekugadzirisa, usakanganwa kuti mune dzimwe nguva mhirizhonga, semurairo, zvose zviri zviviri zvinokonzera mhosva.
Zvinokosha, zvakawandisa nguva yakasununguka yekushandisa nemumwe. Vangani vangoroorana mushure memazana emakore ekugara pamwe chete vanogona kutengesa manheru nebhola newaini, kana neshamwari neshamwari manheru nehafu yavo? Zvichida havasi vazhinji, kunyange zvazvo vanachiremba vepfungwa vachiti kunyange shamwari dzinokosha, asi panzvimbo yekutanga dzinofanira kuva munhu wepedyo nemhuri. Dzimwe nguva unogona kupa chibayiro manheru manheru neshamwari uye uchienda manheru anodikanwa. Mushure mezvose, neizvi hausi kungopa chete, asiwo kupa mudiwa wako kunzwisisa kuti muupenyu hwako chinhu chakakosha ndeyeiye.
Nyorai mumwe nomumwe rudo rwemashoko, zvichida zano iri, uye rakaneta, uye rakapiwa mabhuku ose matsva-ane fangled, asi anoshanda. Zvinyorwa zviduku, kuvimbiswa, kurumbidzwa uye zvikumbiro zvakanaka, nokuti zvinonakidza. Varume vanotenda kuwana tsamba yorudo kana tsamba, yakanaka kwazvo, munogona kutenda. Iva nechokwadi chekuinyorera zvakakodzera, shandura shoko, nokuda kwemashoko akadaro "Ndinoshushikana kwazvo rudo rwangu, ndinotarisira kukuona," zita rako nerudo ...!
Izvo zvakagara zvichiratidzwa kuti avo vakaroorana avo vanowanzoonekwa pamwe chete vane hukama hwakasimba mumhuri. Kupemberera mazororo, edza kuenda pamwe chete kuti unoshanyira michato yehama dziri kure, izvi zvose zvinokubvumira kuti uyeuke rudo rwako. Kuonekwa pamwe chete panzvimbo yavose, iwe unogona kutaura nechivimbo kuti uri murume nemudzimai. Zvakakosha kuti mukadzi azvinzwe ari vaviri.
Munhu wose anoda rudo pasinei nezera uye zvepabonde. Hapana munhu anoda kupedza upenyu hwavo ari oga, vanhu vose vanoda kupisa, munhu wose anoda kutarisirwa. Kunyanya kunetseka ndiko kutarisirwa kwomunhu waunoda. Kuzvipingamupinyi zvemhuri hazviparadze hupenyu hwemhuri, unofunga kufunga nezvehukama hwehukama hwaunoda kune imwe nguva, iwe hauzombogoni kuziva kuti misodzi yekurasika ndeyei.
Mukupedzisa, tinogona kutaura kuti hukama huchave huri pakukwirira kwayo, kana iwe uchigara uchitarisira. Ichakubatsira kupa hupenyu hutsva hutsva hwechido kunyange chinhu chinowanzoshambadza, chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti inoratidza kuratidza kwako, kuremekedzwa uye rudo. Tinotarisira kuti nyaya yedu ichakubatsira iwe nekukutaurira kuti ugare sei ushamwari hwakanaka nemurume wako.