Amai ndeimwe yenguva huru yeupenyu hwemukadzi wese. Kuve amai kwakanaka, asi nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, pamberi pemukadzi wese, anobvunza mubvunzo wokuti "kupera" mumwana kana ...?
Nokufamba kwenguva, mukadzi wese anopindura mubvunzo uyu. Vamwe vakadzi vanosarudza basa, uye kunyange mwana asati ava nemwedzi yakawanda vanobhadhara nanny kana kumutengesa kune vanamwari vemazuva, panguva imwe chete ivo vanozodzokera kubasa uye nekuedza kaviri vanotanga kuita mari vachizvitsigira pachavo nekushaya mari.
Vamwe, zvisinei, vanoenda kune chirevo uye vanozvipira zvizere kumwana, kazhinji vachikanganwa pamusoro pavo, uye kazhinji vanotanga kuonekwa kwavo. Inofanira kunzwisiswa kuti mwana, kunyange akaduku, anoda nguva yake, iyo yaanogona kupedza yoga, pasinei nokuti inoshamisa sei inogona kurira, nokuti vana, avo vabereki vakanyanyisa zvikuru uye vanovaisa pakati pehupenyu hwavo, kazhinji vanokura vasina kuzvimirira.
Pane imwe nzira yechitatu - ava ndivo vakadzi vasingaiti chete kuti vave vakadzi vakanaka, asi vanozvidya ivo panguva imwechete mune imwe nzvimbo, sekutonga, havana zvakawanda, asi zvinosvika, zvinonyanya kukosha - musapinda mune izvi zviviri kutanga.
Mhedziso yekutadza pamberi pemwana mushure mokunge kana kuti mushure mokumuka mumamai ose, kunyange iye akazvipira zvakakwana kwaari. Pasina maturo haana kugamuchira, haana kugamuchira, akabhadhara nguva shoma, nezvimwewo. saka kubva pamanzwiro ekutadza pamberi pemwana hakuna munhu akazvidzivirira uye dzimwe nguva iyi waini haisi yepamusoro.
Mhedziso yekutadza ndiwo rudzi rwechiratidzo chokuti chimwe chinhu chakaipa, chinotungamirira chiito (kumisa mamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo, kururamisa kana kutanga kutora nenzira yakasiyana zvakasiyana). Kana munhu achigadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu aanofunga kuti akaipa, ipapo mhosva yacho inopera. Kana mamiriro acho akasiyana, ipapo mhosva yacho inova chirwere. Mhedziso yekutadza inokura uye inoshanduka kuva denda, kushanda pasina kwekudya, izvo zvinotungamirira pasina chinhu chinovaka.
Mhedziso yechirwere yemhosva inotora matanho uye inoderedza pfungwa yekufara kweamai.
Iyi manzwiro anomuka mushure mekusununguka uye kazhinji inoputirwa nehama, nekuzvidza amai vachangobva kuitwa kuti vasaita zvakanaka nemitoro yavo yemwana.
Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechokuziva kunzwa uku uye kutanga kurwisana nayo, nokuti inonyanganisa ukama pakati pevabereki nevana. Kukunda manzwiro ekupa mhosva pamberi pomwana, zvakakwana kungozvibvuma iwe pachako mukusakwana kwako uye kunyanya kukoshesa kubvuma. Nhamo, vana vakanaka havazipo uye ichi ichokwadi, asi iwe unogona kuva amai, mai vakanaka. Unofanira kuzvibvumira kubvuma chikanganiso. Iwe unofanirwa kudzidza kudzidza kukanganwira kwete vamwe chete, asi iwe pachako kutanga. Vose amai vane nguva apo inoputsa. Kana izvi zvatoitika, iwe unoda kuwana simba rekukumbira ruregerero kumwana.
Yeuka kuti mwana haafaniri kupedza nguva yakawanda, basa guru pano nderokuti iwe unopedza sei naye nguva ino. Hazvina mhosva kana iri maawa mashomanana kana maminetsi mashomanana, zvose zvine chokuita nehutano. Kana iwe uri amai vari kushanda, saka unoda kutsanangurira kumwana kuti iwe wakabatikana uye uchakwanisa kumupa nguva gare gare. Saka iwe uchadzidzisa mwana kuti angatarisa sei nguva zvakanaka, uye izvi zvichava zvakakosha kwaari munguva yemberi. Dzidzo dzakaratidza kuti vana vakakurira mumhuri umo amai vakashanda uye havana kupa vana nguva yakawanda, asi nguva yakapiwa kuvana yaiva yakakodzera uye yakakwana, inenge isina kushayikwa nevana uye yakakura zvizere.