Kuberekwa kwevana, sechinhu chinonyanya kukosha uye chinonyanya kukosha, kwakapiwa kunyatsotarisirwa nguva dzose pasi rese. Kukosha kwaro kwakagara kuchizivikanwa, zviuru zvemabasa emakanzvi kubva kumativi akasiyana - kubva kune vanoongorora zvepfungwa kusvika kuvatambi - vanozvipira kwazviri. Zvechokwadi, nheyo yacho yakawanda uye ine zvisingagumi, semasikirwo. Mushure mezvose, kunyanya kuti chizvarwa chinotevera chichakura sei, chinotarisawo kuti rudzi ruchaenderera sei kurarama nekuvandudza.
Hakuchina hukuru, unambiguly correct model of kurera uye, zvichida, haazombovi. Zviri pachena kuti munyika dzakasiyana nzira dzakasiyana dzekudzidzisa mune mazana emakore akasiyana-siyana dzakagadzirwa - zvakakwana kuenzanidza mune izvi zvinoreva Sparta neJapan Yekare kuitira kuti vanzwisise kuti zvakasiyana sei. Kufananidza kwakaratidzwa chete mumutungamiri mukuru - tsika. Uye izvi zvinonyanya kukonzerwa nekuti kusvika kumazana emakumi maviri, nheyo huru yevadzidzisi vebasa ravo yakaunza chitendero. Akatongedzawo mhuri, uye saka yakanga iri pano, kubvira pakuberekwa kwomwana, nheyo dzedzidzo dzakaiswa.
Ichokwadi, musiyano mune nzira dzedzidzo rakanga rakarongedzwa nehutano - vakomana nevasikana vakakurira nenzira dzakasiyana, kunyange muMiddle Ages yakaoma. Asi, pasinei nokuti vakomana vasati vava nemakore manomwe vakakurira nevakadzi nevana, vaiziva zvakakwana kuti ndiani aifanira kuva. Mumhuri dzemazuva ano, pamwe chete nemamwe mashoma, kurera vana uyewo inonyanya kumira pamafudzi emadzimai. Nokudaro, zvinoenderana nehupenyu hwake hweunhu, maonero, rudo, kutenda uye mutoro unobva kune rudzi rwevanhu mwanakomana wake kana mwanasikana wake achakura, kubatsirwa kana kukuvadza kuchaunza, ndiani achamutswa nekurerwa naye. Zvakanaka, kana mwana akaberekerwa mumhuri achidikanwa, hukama hwemhuri hwakanaka, uye amai vane rudo uye vane tsitsi: munyaya iyi kune munhu pane mikana yese yekukura munhu anoshamisa. Uye kana iye "aine mukana" kuberekerwa mumhuri apo ukama pakati pevabereki hahu hukuru hwepamusoro. Kuve nehukama hwehukama nevabereki mukurerwa kwevana vavo kunobatsira zvikuru.
Varume vanowanzobatanidzwa muhukama hwemhuri. Zvinosuruvarisa, zvinoshandiswa zvose zvakananga uye zvisina kujeka - mushure mezvose, hukama hwakashata mumhuri haisi chinhu kunze kwekuita kusuruvara, apo matambudziko emhuri, kutarisira, zvinhu, nebasa, uye chikoro, uye kurera kuri kuwira pamusoro pemukadzi. Kana uchida kuita zvose, reka, uwane, unotenga, kubika, kana pasina munhu anobatsira uye iwe unogona kungotarisira iwe pachako. Asi masimba haasi asina kukwana, kuchinja kunouya kuri kuuya, zvose zvinetso uye zvinozotanga kukanganisa. Uye kuti abvise mutumbi kubva pamugumo uyu, kutsamwa kunouya pakununura.
Munhu wose anoziva kuti "kuvenga kunogona kupisa kunyange kupfuura rudo." Zvakaita sokukupa mhepo yechipiri, unonzwa wakasimba, usine utsinye, utsinye, iwe unoita nzira yako, usingaverengi nemumwe munhu. Asi sezvinongoita munhu wose anoziva zvakakwana kuti mamiriro ezvinhu aya ane ngozi kumukadzi pachake uye kaviri kune ngozi kumhuri yake. Kushungurudzika kunongokonzera kukanganisa kusagadzikana, munda weruzivo rwepasi redu unowedzera uye unodzokera kune "munyori" mune nhamba huru kwazvo. Uye, saka, zvinotora simba uye hutsinye zvekurwa zvekare zvakare, kukunda ... Uye nzira iyi yakavharwa. Yakatanga uye yakaderedzwa kusvika kune denderedzwa yematch pachayo, inopedzerwa kune imwe nguva, isingagumi, inopera.
Uye zvakanyanya kupfuura zvose, kuti pamwe naye mune iri denderedzwa, mhirizhonga yemafungiro asina kunaka ari kubuda munyika, kurwisana nguva dzose uye kutsamwa kunomanikidzwa kusingazivi "masimba" - hama dzake, murume, vana. Hazvishamisi here kuti kukakavadzana kwemhuri kwakapera, uye mwana nemwanasikana vanotanga kunyora maitiro echinhu chaamai? Mushure mezvose, nzira huru yekudzidzisa ndiyo muenzaniso unorarama. Pasinei nechishuvo chevabereki, vana vanoziva kana vasingazivi vanotora kubva kwavari muenzaniso wekukurukurirana, hukama, maitiro uye maitiro. Uye saka, kana amai vacho vasinganzwisisi kuti vana vavo vari kuchinja sei kuti vave nani, hapana munhu angagumburwa: uyu ndiwo muenzaniso wake wekuita.
Ndizvo zvinoita kuti hurumende iwedzere kuwedzera, uye, zvinosuruvarisa, izvi hazvishamisi, sekunge kana "chimiro" chitsva chehupenyu. Saka chii chatimirira mune remangwana - sangano revanhu?
Ndinoda kutenda kuti kwete. Nenzira yakanaka, vakadzi vazhinji vanofananidza tsanangudzo iyi vane rudo rwakakwana uye kushivirira kwevana vavo pachavo. Mamiriro acho ari nani kana pane mumwe munhu anomubatsira mune izvi. Mushure mezvose, chero chii chakanga chiri, uye mubereki anofanira kurera vana, uye kwete amai mumwe chete, kunyange kana zvakakosha. Chokutanga, nokuti nzira yekudzidzira inoramba ichienderera mberi, haigoni kubatanidzwa nguva yavo chete. Uye rwechipiri, munhu wose achati mukomana anoda baba - uye semuenzaniso wehupenyu hwehutsika, uye seshamwari, semubatsiri, uye semuridzidzisi. Icho chiri pamafudzi ababa vake kuti mutoro mukuru wakaiswa pamudzidzisi wemwanakomana wake. Mumhuri umo pane chimwe chikonzero kune amai chete, mumwe wehama anogona uye anofanira kutora baba vacho, sezvo mupiro wevarume mukurera mwana uyu hauchazogadzirizve, pasinei nokuti mukadzi anoedza sei.
Zvechokwadi, kumwanasikana, baba vacho vanofanira kunge vari mumiriri wevarume, vatsigiro nekuchengetedzwa, saka hakuna munhu anomusunungura kubva kudzidzisa musikana. Panewo chido chekubvumirana kukuru uye kubatanidzwa. Nokudaro, chero izvo vabereki vari kunze kwemhuri, vanofanira kuuya kumba chete chiedza uye shungu, zvakanaka uye mufaro, kutora nemwoyo wose rudo. Muenzaniso wehukama pakati pevabereki ndicho chinhu chokutanga icho vana vanotora, uye kukuremekedza kukuru, rubatsiro uye kutsigirwa, kunaka-hutsika uye rudo zviri mumhuri zvichaita kuti munhu aenderane nemunhu.