Ino inguva yakaoma zvikuru muupenyu hwemhuri, kuguma kunopa mhuri mhuri yekuedzwa kwe simba rekubatana, kuvimbika, rudo. Uye pano zvakawanda zvinotanga kutanga pane zvose pamusoro pemukadzi, mushure mezvose zvinofungidzirwa kubva pamavambo ekutanga - muchengeti wematende. Kazhinji kazhinji, mhuri dzinenge dzichida kurambana, uko mukadzi anoita zvisinganzwisisiki kana nehasha (anotsamwirwa, nokuda kwechikonzero chero chipi zvacho, achirira alarm). Ukama hwakadaro hwekuroorana hahuna kunyanya kana mwana akarwara akaberekwa, kuitwa kwakagadzirwa kunyange asati aberekwa. Mumhuri umo ukama hwakanaka huripo kubva pakutanga, izvi zvinowanzoitika. Vamwe vakaroorana vanotenda kuti kuzvarwa kwomwana anorwara kunongowedzera hukama hwavo. Asi kazhinji pane izvo zvisingaiti zvinosuruvarisa pane zvinopesana.
Muenzaniso kubva paupenyu.
Ini ndichapa muenzaniso, mune imwe mhuri mhuri mukomana akakurira (makore matatu), uye mhuri yakasarudza kutanga imwezve. Munguva yepamuviri, kusaremara kwemoyo kwakaonekwa mumucheche (ne ultrasound). Mudzimai aive nechivimbo chokuti vaizokwanisa kupona uye nemikana yekurapa kwemazuva ano kukunda izvi, mwana acharapa. Imwe musikana akanaka ane katatu wemwoyo akazvarwa. Munhu wose aifara, vose amai nababa nemukomana, nokuti iye zvino ane hanzvadzi. Vanachiremba vakaudza vabereki kuti mwana haazorarami kwenguva refu, sezvo rusvingo rwemwoyo rusina kutaridzika, zvinokwanisika kuita basa, asi rinodhura. Vabereki havakanganisi, vakatanga kuunganidza mari, vachishandiswa mari yakakosha. Mari yekushanda nokuda kweguta uye vagari vomunharaunda vakaunganidzwa nokukurumidza. Musikana wacho akapiwa chirwere chimwe chete, asi izvi zvakabviswa chimwe chezvitatu zvinotyisa kuhupenyu hwemusikana. Kusvikira kumakore mashanu zvakange zvakakodzera kuti tive nemabasa akawanda. Amai vakanyatsotsungirira matambudziko ose uye zvakaitika pane zvakasiyana nababa vake. Akatanga kufamba-famba (izvo, zvichiitika, zvaakanga aita kare) kakawanda, achisiya zvose zvinotambudza, pamatambudziko akaoma emukadzi ... makore maviri kana matatu akapfuura. Uye kwakauya nguva yakadai kuti yakanga isati yisingakwanisi kuti mukadzi uye aone, kurwisana oga nekuda kwehutano hwemusikana uye kutsungirira antics yemurume wake. Kuroorana kwakaputsika, chikonzero chaicho chekuparara kwebumbiro iri, ndinotenda, yakanga isiri utano hwomusikana, asi kufamba kwababa. Zvichida, chokwadi, zvakanyanya kukanganisa ndokupa chokwadi chokuti musikana akaberekwa ane kukanganisa. Zvimwe zvinetso, zviitiko zvisingatauri uye saka kwete ukama hwakasimba. Uye baba vomusikana havana kumbomira kunyange chokwadi chokuti pamapfudzi asina kuoma emudzimai wake ari kutarisira vana vaviri vaduku.
Mumwe muenzaniso wokufananidza.
Mune imwe mhuri ine hutano hwakanaka, hwakanaka hwehukama hwekuroorana kwaiva nemwana wekutanga ane dambudziko rakakura. Vabereki vakaoma zvikuru kurarama kuburikidza. Murume wacho akareurura kuti aizotsvaira uye akatumira chikonzero chekurambana, haana chokwadi nechisarudzo chake chakanaka. Mudzimai wake aiita saiye asina kuchenjera, akanaka, uye mhosva yake chete iyo mwana akaberekwa akarwara. Mudzimai wake, pane kudaro, akazvibata nokungwarira, kwete kumira pagomo, uye haana kuteerera mwana chete, asiwo kumurume wake. Pasina kupa zvaakawana, akacherechedza, sepakutanga, imba yake pachake. Uye zvaive nekuda kweizvi mufambiro wekuti imba yacho haina kuparadzana, uye hukama pakati pevakaroorana hwakabva hwasvika pakushamwaridzana uye kushamwaridzana. Mushure maizvozvi, vana vaviri vane utano vakaonekwa mumhuri. Uye maererano nevakaroorana, mhuri yavo yakasimba uye ine ushamwari.
Kubva mumienzaniso iyi zviri pachena kuti kana hukama hwemhuri hwakatanga kuratidzwa murudo nekuvimbika, mwana anorwara haana kungoita kuti kuparadzana kwebumbiro, asi kusimbise. Uye muhukama hwakadaro apo zvinhu zvose zvakanga zvisina kunaka kare, kuberekwa kwemwana anorwara kwakakonzera kuparara muukama hwepabonde.
Kana iwe uchida zvinyorwa ...
Maererano nekutsvakurudza mashoko, uye maererano nekucherechedza kubva kune rumwe rutivi, kukanganiswa kwehukama hwemhuri kunopesana nekukura kwepfungwa kwomwana, vose vane utano uye vanorwara. Izvo zvinowanzoita kuti vanhu vaore mwoyo, dzimwe nguva vachida kuongororwa kwezvokurapa (kuiswa muzvipatara zvepfungwa, kana kuongororwa nechepfungwa). Pane mafungiro asina kunaka - kusagadzikana kazhinji pasina chikonzero, utsinye, zvakaoma kufanana nevamwe. Kunyanya kuratidzwa kwakadaro kunoshungurudzwa nevana vane pfungwa dzakagadzirisa. Vasikana vanowanzoshushikana nekutsungirira mhuri, sevakomana, vanonzwa zviri nyore kana mushure mokuputsa pakati pevabereki, vakanaka, hukama hwehukama huchengetedzwa. Pasinei nechiitiko, mushure mokunge musina kubatana, musaedza kutamba pamwana - kutsiva kumurume, kuisa kurambidza kushanya kwake nemwana. Usavhiringidza nehukama hwavo huri nani, ivo vakatotadza, uye iwe unowedzera kuipa, unogona kuva wakaipa kwazvo, huchakanganisa mwana, pfungwa dzake dzekuvandudza uye unhu. Usapfugamira mwana kumativi ako, kudira dope kuna baba vako, kubva pane izvo mwana wacho haazvizvivimbi. Usaratidze zvakaipa zvako pamberi pecheche. Icho chakaipa zvikuru chakasimudzira izvi zvose kuvana vane zvikanganiso. Uyewo, usabvisa urombo hwako, usakurumidza kumhanyira pamwana, kumuranga, kumuisa mumakona, uye izvo zvakanyanya kuipa kana achiita chirango chemuviri (kurohwa, kusunga). Sezvo zvidzidzo zvichiratidza kakawanda, saka, vana vanoshanda zvakanyanya vanovhiringidzika, kureva kuti, vanodziviswa, sezvazviri, pasi petsoka dzavo uye zvakaoma kumira. Zvisinei, kushandiswa kwechirango chepanyama hakugadziri vana vakadaro, kunotungamirira kune mamwe mabasa akawanda, kana kuti ichaiswa mukunzwisisa uye, kana yasvika pane imwe kupisa, ichadurura. Zviri nani kutanga newe iwe mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, se sekudzidzira, taura kune chiremba wepfungwa. Ongorora mararamiro ako, uye kuti inobata sei kwete-saka-asina mhosva, uye saizvozvo akaputsa mwana.
Uyewo, kutarisira zvakanyanya mwana wacho hakuna kunaka kwazvo. Mwana wacho, iye, sepepa yemafuta anotora zvose uye anotora zvaanoita kumamiriro acho ezvinhu. Nekutarisira kwakanyanya, anogona kunge akazvifunga oga, uye atova pane imwe nguva yakwegura nemwana akadaro zvichange zvisiri nyore. Haazobvumiri kukunyengetedza kana chirango chenyama. Achave akadzikisa kugadzirisa zvinhu, achada kuva nemubereki nguva dzose. Zviri nani kukudziridza ukama uko amai vanoedza kunzwisisa mwana, matambudziko ake uye, hongu, haakanganwi nezvevamwe nhengo dzemhuri.
Sezvatinoona, nehukama hwakasununguka mumhuri pamwe nemwana anorwara, havasi nguva dzose vachiramba vachifanana, zvinofadza.