Chiratidzo chekutanga chinowanzowedzera kuwedzerwa kwemazamu (anenge makore gumi nemana). Gore kana kupfuura gare gare, kutanga kwemwedzi kunotanga. Kuberekwa kunopera nekugadzirwa kwemazuva ose, kunonoka kuenda kumwedzi. Munguva yekuyaruka, musikana angangodedzwa nekuchinja mukuonekwa kwake. Mukuwedzera, musikana wechidiki angave anofungidzira nezvehukama nevarume vasingagoni kuwanikwa (somuenzaniso, vaongorori vanozivikanwa), vane mifananidzo yavo isingaoneki seinovhundutsa sezvinoziva kubva kune vakomana nevasikana. Nguva yekuberekwa yevakadzi muhuwandu ndeye makore 28-36.
Kuchinja kwemaonero evanhu vose
Vasikana, kusiyana nevakomana, vanonyanya kuvimba netsika dzetsika dzinoda kuchengetedzwa kweutsvene. Kunyanya, vabereki vari kunyanya kunetseka pamusoro pekutanga kwekutanga kwepabonde mumwanasikana kupfuura mwanakomana. Chikonzero chekutya uku kwakajeka - kumusikana wekare, kutanga kwebonde kunogona kuchinja kuva pamuviri wekutanga. Maererano nekutenda kwakakurumbira, chikamu chakakosha kune dambudziko rekudzivirira kwevechiri kuyaruka kunowanikwa nevanhau, izvo zvinokurudzira kuita zvepabonde, pamwe nekutungamirirwa kwevezera rako.
Zuva rokutanga
Kazhinji, kutanga kwekukoka zuva kunobva kune jaya. Musangano unowanzoitika kuitira kuti shamwari kana vaunodzidza navo vazive nezvazvo. Panguva yemisangano yakadai mazano dzimwe nguva vanoita mitambo yepabonde (kutsvoda, kukumbira). Vabereki vanowanzoratidza kufara kukuru kana kushanyira kuri kumba. Kazhinji ivo vanotya kuti zvinogona kuitika zvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana zvepabonde, saka vanonzwa vakanyarara, vachiziva kuti vechidiki vanoshandisa kondomu.
Chiitiko chepabonde
Mazuva ano, kune vakadzi vakawanda, nguva yehutano hwehutano hunotangira hukama hukama hwakasimba nemumwe munhu waunogara naye. Kusarudzwa kwakawanda kwemazuva ano ekudzivirira kubata pamuviri kwakatungamirira kukuti zvepabonde hazvisanganiswi chete nekuberekwa kwevana. Zvisinei, nekufamba kwenguva, vakadzi vechidiki vazhinji vanoziva kuti rudo uye zvepabonde mukati mehukama hwehukama hunoita kuti unzwe hunyanya hunyoro hwekunyaradza. Vakawanda vevanhu vasina kuroorwa munguva yedu ndeyezera rezera rinopfuura makore 25. Vakadzi vazhinji vezera rino vanoziva nekufambira mberi kwe "maawa" avo, uye vanotya kuti vasati vawane nguva yekuwana mumwe muhupenyu uye vane mwana.
Kuberekwa kwevana
Kuwedzerwa, mhuri dzevechidiki dzinodzoka kuberekwa kwevana kusvika pamakore makumi matatu nemakumi mashanu nemashanu kubva pamakore ekuti mukadzi wacho ari kuita basa. Zvisinei, kana vaviri vakaroorana vachida kubata mwana, anowanzotarisana nezvinetso zvakananga. Maererano nenyanzvi, kusvika ku20% yehutano inobata pamuviri. Kazhinji, mumhuri iyo inotarisana nechinetso chekushaya vana, vanobatana mukati memwoyo yavo vanopomerana mhosva yeizvi. Vanodzivisa kushamwaridzana neshamwari nevana, kana kuti vanotambura nezvinetso zvinotambudza zvepabonde zvinobatanidzwa nekudiwa kwekugadzirisa hupenyu hwepabonde mumazuva anobereka.
Kuberekwa kunogona kutungamirira kuchinjairo muupenyu hwomukadzi hwepabonde. Panguva iyi, vamwe vavo havafariri zvepabonde. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, chido chepabonde chinochengetwa chete pane dzimwe nguva dzechirwere.
Maternity
Mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana, vamwe vakadzi vanoda nguva yekurapa kukuvara kwekuberekwa. Munguva yekuyamwisa, pane kazhinji kunowedzera kuderera kwevakadzi, izvo zvinoita kuti kuita zvepabonde kunetseke. Munguva iyi, vamwe vakaroorana vanosarudza kuchinja kune dzimwe nzira dzepabonde kusvikira hukama hwepabonde hunowanzova hunofadza kune vose vari vaviri. Mukuwedzera, kufarira kwavakadzi kuita zvepabonde kunogona kushandiswa nezvinhu zvakadai sokuneta kana kutarisa pane basa idzva raamai vake. Mumhuri umo mune vana vaduku, uye mukadzi anoshanda uye anoita mabasa mazhinji epamba, ane nguva shoma yekuzvitarisira iye uye zvepabonde nemumwe wake. Nokufamba kwenguva, vana pavanokura, vazhinji vakaroorana vanodzokera kune hupenyu hwehupombwe hunoshingaira. Upenyu hwepabonde hwakazara hunowanzova chivimbo chehupenyu hurefu hwehukama hwepabonde. Inopa mufaro kune vashandi, inobatsira kuwedzera kuzviremekedza, kubvisa kunetseka uye kuderedza kushushikana.
Upenyu Hwokubatana
Maererano neongororo, makore maviri mushure mekuroorana kana kutanga kwehupenyu hwekubatana, varoji vese vari muzera remakore makumi maviri nemakumi matatu vanoita zvepabonde 2-3 kavhiki. Nezera, hutano hwepabonde huri kuderera zvishoma nezvishoma. Zvisinei, pasinei nhamba shomanana dzekuita zvepabonde pakati pevakaroorana, rutivi rwehutano hwepabonde hunovandudza. Chirwere chepabonde munavakadzi chinouya mushure mokunge varume. Anowana huwandu hunopfuura hwemakore makumi matatu nemashanu kusvika kumashanu. Izvi zvinogona kunge zvakakonzerwa nekuti mukadzi anoda nguva yekuti "adzidze" kuti awane kanagasm, uye kuti asvike pamanzwiro ehutano hwehupenyu hwake hwepabonde uye ukama hwake. Kukwezva zvepabonde kwemukadzi hakuna kubatana chete nekurera vana. Uyezve, iyo yakagadziriswa yehutano hwevanhu hwepabonde hairevi kungobereka vana chete, asiwo kufara kwepabonde. Somuenzaniso, basa roga re clitoris ndiro chizvarwa chekufarira zvepabonde. Kunyange neukama hurefu nemumwe wako, mukadzi haawanzoita zvekuita zvepabonde kupfuura murume. Kana izvi zvikaitika, zvino, sekutonga, nenzira yevhudziro yakafukidzirwa: somuenzaniso, kupfeka "zvakasarudzwa" mumapurasitiki eusiku, anopa mudiwa kuti anzwisise kuti kucherechedza kwake hakuzogadziriswa zvishoma nezvishoma kunowedzera kuderera. Zviratidzo zvekuswedera kumwedzi, kunyanya vaginitis (inoratidzwa nekuoma kwemudzimai mucosa, uye dzimwe nguva - maduku madzimai ekubuda ropa) uye kuponda kwemadziro emadzimai kunogona kukonzera kusangana pabonde. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, hormone replacement therapy (HRT) inobvisa kubvisa zviratidzo zvakadaro. Vakaroorana vakawanda vakwegura vanoramba vachifarira ukama hwepedyo. Vakadzi vasingatauri hupenyu hwepabonde mumakore makumi matanhatu nemakumi manomwe uye gare gare, tarisai kuti zvepabonde panguva ino zvinounza mufaro unopfuura pane imwe. Zvisinei, munguva iyi pane zvinetso zvakananga zvinosangana nekudzivirira kukwanisa kwepanyama mumarume - somuenzaniso, kushushikana kwepfungwa, kushandura kuiswa.