Pachivande kune chiedza chose
Zvinokwanisika kuti pakutanga iwe uchatsamwira munhu mumwe chete uyo "akazarurira kunyika yose muchivande" chakavanzika chako. Uye zvakakosha kuzviita? Funga iwe pachako: ungadai wakaita sei mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro? Zvechokwadi zvichava zvakaoma kuti iwe upindure mubvunzo uyu. Pashure pezvose, kana iwe pachako usingakwanisi kuponesa SVOYuTINA, ungatsvaga sei kune mumwe munhu? Hongu, uye nevose, iwe iwe ruzivo rwakakosha zvikuru uye rwakavanzika here? Nenzira, uye munyaya ipi yebhiasamom yebhizimisi yekutsanya kushamisika pakuparadzirwa kwezvese zvakavanzika?
Sezvo mutemo, kuvimba nemunhu chero upi zvake wepachivande, tinogara tichiisa mungozi kuti avo vanenge vari kusarudzwa nesu vachamira. Uye kunyanya, maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, kusununguka kwedu dzimwe nguva kunokonzera chido chedu chisingadi kuti tiite saizvozvo dambudziko redu rinozivikanwa sezvinogona vanhu. Nokudaro, achikumbira shamwari yake "kuchengeta zvinhu zvose zvakavanzika zvakakwana," isu tichiri kunyanya kusazvidzivirira.
Chokutanga pane zvose, zvisati zvaitika
Imwe yenzira dzakanakisisa uye dzakaratidzwa dzekuchengetedza chakavanzika nguva refu dzakanzi iine mutemo wakajeka: "usaudza munhu chero chii zvacho." Asi isu tinofanirawo kuyeuka kuti nokuva nemashoko oga, isu pachedu tinotora mitezo yemigumisiro yese. Dzimwe nguva mutoro unongosarudzwa nesu unoramba usingatsvaki. Kana, zvisinei, ramba uchienderera mberi mune imwe nzira yekukwevera iwe pachako "bhokisi revanze", zvino zvinokwanisika "kuputsa" mutsika uye kuwana kuparara kwekutya.
Chii, shure kwezvose, chinofanira kuitwa kuti uchengetedze mitsipa muhutano hwakanaka uye usati wanyanyisa zvikuru? Pamberi pacho, munhu anofanirwa kufunga nezvekufanirwa kutaura. Uye, nenzira, haufaniri kutakura munhu wepedyo kupfuura nipopadia.
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"Skeleton mumhuri yakavhara"
Pamwe mhuri dzose dzine zvese zvakavanzika, sezvinonzi: "Imwe mhuri ndeyemasango masikati!" Uye sekutonga, ichi chakavanzika kazhinji "chinosvibisa mutambo".
Ndivanaani vaungagovana? Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, zvakanakisisa kugovana zvakavanzika zvemhuri kune avo vanonyatsotarisa. Kunyanya kana ukasarudza kuunza munhu mutsva mumhuri, anofanira kutaura zvakavanzika zvemhuri. Uye kunyange kana zvisinganyatsonzwisisike kuziva izvozvi, zviri nani kana munhu waunoda achiziva pamusoro pazvo kubva kwauri, pane muvakidzani ane shabby. Nenzira, maererano ne "rima" yapfuura, zvino, kune guru guru, ikozvino vashoma vanofungisisa nezvehutsvene hweropa.
"Rudo haruri kurarama pano"
Kubvuma rudo kune nyore kwazvo, kupfuura kubvuma kuti kwapfuura. Kuchengeta chakavanzika chemanzwiro, isu tinomanikidzwa nezvikonzero zvakawanda - kutya kwekuchinja, tsitsi, makaro, tsika nemamwe akawanda.Sezvo mutemo, munhu wose pano anogona kunge ane chikonzero chake.
Ndivanaani vaungagovana? Misc. fungidzira kuti haafaniri kutombofungidzira zvachose. Pamusoro pezinga risingazivi, murume anonzwa "chill" kumunhu wake. Vamwe vane kushivirira kutsungirira matambudziko aya. Asi zvisinei zvazviri, usaisa shamwari pahurukuro iyi - icharamba ichiuya kwaari.
Chimwe chekushandisa chinoshanda pano: kana iwe uine chokwadi chokuti hapana chichaitika kumunhu uyu, unofanira kubvuma kwaari. Zvechokwadi ane kodzero yekuziva! Uye iwe une kodzero yekuremekedza kuvimbika!
"Kushanda nguva"
Uri kuenda kurega kana kuziva nezvekusimudzirwa kuri kuuya, kana uri kushanda nemari yakanaka ne "hack-work" yemuvakwikwidzi yakasimba uye usarara kwemaawa, uchida kugoverana neshamwari yako? Zvechokwadi, zvose zviri pano ndezvaro, hakuna munhu achazvipa!
Kunyange zvakadaro uchapa sei! Muhofisi ipi neipi chete inofunga kuti yakakodzera kuudza zvinhu zvose kuvane masimba. Kunyange uchitaurira mumwe wako kuti azive kubviswa kwacho, iwe unogona kumuita kuti ave nechinangwa chebasa kana akawana imwe nzvimbo, uye iyo firm haina kutambura.
Ndivanaani vaungagovana? Nomunhu anoshanda nekambani yako, asi haapindirani nevamwe vashandi. Achachengeta zvinhu zvose muchivande, zvichange zviri nyore, nokuti haatauri nevaya vanogona kufarira ruzivo urwu.
"Uye heinoi yangu yekare ..."
Izvo zvakakosha kuti ugare wakanyarara pamusoro pezviitiko zvakakomba. Asi nyaya iyi ndiyo inonyanya kukurukurwa muimba yekurara. Murume wacho haatangi hurukuro iyi, achitya kuenzanisa, saka zviri kumukadzi.
Ndivanaani vaungagovana? Chero kwete chete nemudiwa chaiye. Bhinda zvinyorwa, vadururire pamapeji e forum. Nyora tsamba uye uipise kana kuti yeuka neshamwari dzako zvinonyadzisa. Varume, vachitaura nezvekare, vanotorwa zvakanyanya. Kunyangwe kana munhu wacho aine maonero akazara pamusoro pehupenyu. Izvo zvinoshandawo kunezvino zvaunofarira: kuratidzira flirting kuburikidza neInternet - kuchengeta zvinhu zvose iwe pachako!
"Shamwari yakakonzera dambudziko"
Zvakanaka apo shamwari dzichikuvimba nevanomwe. Uye dzimwe nguva ichi chinhu chimwe chiri nani kuti usaziva, somuenzaniso, kupandukira. Chimwe chinhu kana iwe uchifara kuti wakawana mumwe munhu ari nani. Ndiyo imwe nyaya kana iye iye zvino ari shamwari yako yakanaka, iyo yakazoguma isina kufanira.
Ndivanaani vaungagovana? Pano, hongu, iwe unosarudza. Asi mazvikokota zvepfungwa havakurudziri kupindira kunze kwekudiwa kwehukama hwevchuzhie. Musikana kana kurambana kana kuyananisa, uye iwe uchava razluchnitsey. Chinhu chikuru chaunogona kuita ndechokupa shamwari chidimbu, uye chakavanzika hachisi chokufungisisa!
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Musikana wako haazive "kuchengetedza muromo wako kuvhara," uye iwe wakamuudza chakavanzika chakavanzika.
Ruponeso: Kukumbira kusamboti akuudze chero chinhu chisina maturo, ingoedza kuisa pfungwa dzake pane chimwe chinhu.
Iwe shamwari wakavimba nechakavanzika, uye iwe, kunze kwekuda, wakataura nezvomunhu wechitatu.
Ruponeso: Kushushikana kuramba. Zvakakosha kurova zvose kuitira kuti mutauriri wacho atange kusava nechokwadi. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa, tendeuka pamberi pedu neshamwari. Asi zviri nani kuzvisarudzira iwe pachako.
Shamwari inotaura pamusoro pezvivande zvausingadi kuziva zuva rimwe nerimwe.
Ruponeso: Mpei murekodhi wezwi uye bhizinesi rebhizimisi rechiremba wepfungwa, zvisinei iwe uchava "wake unogara nokusingaperi".