Zano repfungwa dzepfungwa kana mazwi ake akachena, asingabatsiri anowanzonyanya kukosha. Dzimwe nguva vakaroorana vanovhiringika muhukama zvokuti vanozopedzisira vachisarudza kuenda kumudzimai wepfungwa dzepfungwa. Zvishoma nezvishoma, shoko rinoreva shoko, rinobudisa pachena chokwadi chokuti chinhu chikuru mumhuri ishamwari, chiremba wepfungwa anovaratidza kuti mamwe marudzi ehukama anorarama sei muzana remakore rapfuura.
Varume vanofanira kuverenga pamwe chete nekuti isu tatove takabatana navo. Chinokosha mukubatana ndeye mupfungwa wepfungwa.
Yaimbova serfs nevakadzi - yakaipisisa kupfuura serfs. Iye zvino isu tinobvumirwa kuva nemafungiro edu, uye zvinonyanya kukosha, isu nguva dzose tine mabasa edu, kunze kweavo tinotamba mumhuri. Isu hatisi ivo vamadzi uye vakadzi chete, asiwo vepamusoro-soro vadzidzisi kana kungova-mweya wehofisi :) Wakasimba uye asina simba, munyoro uye ane utsinye - asi achiri kuzvimirira, anokwanisa kurarama pasina murume, kana pasina zvimwe zvingasarudzwa, kunze kwekumanikidzwa kwemuzinda uye udzvinyiriri .
Ndeipi hukama hwe "asiri shamwari" hwakabva kupi?
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinoziva kuti chizvarwa chekupedzisira-hondo chevarume chimwe chezvinhu zvakaoma zvikuru. Vafudzi vakanga vari vashomanana, vakanga vane kukosha kunokosha. Izvi zvakanyanya kunyanya kuonekwa nevanakomana, chaizvo zvakakombererwa nekutarisira amai vangu. Ndizvo zvakaitwa nevakadzi mu "mwanasikana-mama".
Hongu, uye achiripo pane maonero maviri akakurumbira - angava murume-baba, theterter, uyo anotarisira, uyo anosarudza mibvunzo yose, kana murume-mwanakomana, uyo anofanirwa kugadziriswa-akarerwa, uye akadzidziswa kurongeka.
Muchiitiko ichi, vose avo nevamwe vakadzi vanonyatsokurudzirwa kuti vave pabasa repiri kana rokutanga. "Vakanyanyisa" vanonzwira tsitsi uye vanonzwisisa. Yeuka kangani iwe wakanzwa mutsara unoti "Ndine vana vaviri - murume nemwanakomana." Zvakanaka, haaiti pepeneni uye haashambidzi nguo dzake?
Uye vanogodora "vanasikana vekumba" uye vanovagadza semuenzaniso - pano, vanoti, mukadzi uyu! Kwemakumi maviri emakore uye haazive kuti ndeipi iyo yokubhadhara imba! Usareva kuti zviri nyore kuvarume vavo. Uye "kana zvakadaro" mukadzi haasi mumwechete - anonyatsokandwa kune rumwe rutivi rwehupenyu.
Nzira yekuvaka sei hukama hwakanaka, hwakasimba uye hwemazuva ano?
O, kubatana, kunyanya mumamiriro edu ezvinhu - inyanzvi yose. Nhetembo, kunyatsotaura. Uye kamwe-kamwe, mukadzi "anoona", anoda "fudzi rakatendeka" kana kunyange hafu-akaparadzanisa mabasa. Uye pano-"murume weimba anogara, ari kutamba gitare ...", sezvinowanikwa mumutauro we satirist Zhvanetsky ...
Chinonyanya kukosha muhukama, mupfungwa wepfungwa achati kamwechete. Pano pane mitemo yakawanda inogadzirisa rudzi urwu hwehukama. Uye chinhu chokutanga chinouya mupfungwa - kuenzana kwakakwana - kazhinji, hazvikwanisi zvakakwana. Kuenzana "muzvinhu zvose" inopesana nemuenzaniso wehukama hwehukama. Asi kubatsirana, kubatsirana pamwe, rubatsiro rwekubatsira uye kunzwisisa kunonyanya kukosha muhukama hwehukama pakati pemhuri.
Isu hatisi vakakwana uye kwete kuenzana
Zvinosuruvarisa, kutsanangura kuti chinhu chakakosha muhukama, masayendisiti epfungwa anopesana ne ... feminism. Mukugadzirwa kweshamwari yevamwe, akaita basa, uye Moor uyo akaita basa, anogona kusiya. Nokuti panzvimbo yekuenzana kunoshanduka chimiro chekusekwa-kukwevera chigadziko pamusoro pako uye "kuenzanisa" kubudirira.
Asi varume veizvi "pamutsipa" zvakakwana kubasa! Uye pano kumba - zvakafanana!
Varume nevakadzi vakasiyana zvachose. Vanotaura nenzira dzakasiyana uye nezvinangwa zvakasiyana. Uye kuparadzanisa mu "fronts" dzakasiyana hakurevi, sezvo tiri kutaura pamusoro peimwe rudzi rwehuwandu hweprojekiti, uye kunyange zvakadaro - mhuri. Nokudaro, chinhu chikuru mukubatana - usaenda kumudzidzi wepfungwa - munharaunda.
Kubatana kwakabatana nechinangwa chinowanzofanana. Kunyange kana mukadzi akagara mutemo nevana vatatu, uye murume wake anovawana vose. Uye rinoshora "Ini, iwe, oglovodov, zvokudya" hazvifaniri kunge-kana chete chisarudzo chekutora chechitatu chaiva pamwe uye chaifungidzirwa.
Kubva pane imwe neimwe maererano nemano ake ...
Nheyo inotevera inokosha ndeyokupatsanurwa kwebasa. Pashure pokunzwisisa kusiyana kwepabonde (iye anonzwisisa mapepa, iye-nechingwa mumugwagwa) achafanira kugoverana nepfungwa. Mushure mezvose, haufaniri kuwana mudivi mahwendefa imwechete nehafu asina kushambwa - kune mumwe nomumwe wega uye kumwana muduku ...
Kuti ugove nekugovana zvakakwana mabasa, unoda kunzwisisa zvakajeka ndiani anoita zviri nani, uyo ane zvido zvose. Zvichida mudzimai, uyo (zvakare, anofunga) anogara mukuberekwa, anobudirira zvikuru mumashoko ekugadzira. Uye kumudzivisa pakunyorera mamiriyoni emadhora madhora Harry Potter hazvirevi.
Kana kuti anoda murume wake kurova makateti zuva rega rega, kana akatora "basa rake rechikoro" kubva kubasa - nokuti mangwana inogona "kutamba" uye inouya nemari kwete kune imwe yakachena.
Kunzwa mumwe nomumwe
Kuti "kuvhara" basa rakaderera kubva pakupedzisira kwebasa redu, tichafanirwa kudzidza kudzidza mumwe nomumwe. Usangoteerera pamagumo ezuva - asi nemibvunzo yakananga kana yakananga kuti uwane zvinowanikwa nemumwe wako. Kuti uwane simba rokutaura iwe pachako.
Uye kuti iyi "kupindira" uye kukanganisa kusingagadziki kwezvaifarira hazvina kutendeuka kuva swara, zvinotofanira kutumbuka. Mukufamba kwenguva kuti uzvibatanidze pamwe chete - kunyange kana manzwiro achirova pamusoro pemucheto - uye usakuvadza kunyange zvakanyanya, asi teerera.
Kana zvakakodzera - kuteerera. Kana zvichibatsira, tsunga iwe pachako. Kusabata kana kutuka mumwe wako.
Mumwe nomumwe wedu Munhu!
Uye ichi ndicho chirevo chakakanganwa mumhuri. Vose vari pedyo, vanoziva uye vanojairika - kumapiro ose ekupedzisira pamutsetse wekumucheto, izvo zvakaoma kuatora zvakanyanya. Takaona mumarudzi ose emamiriro ezvinhu - mukurwara uye mune hutano, takaona zvikanganiso zveumwe neumwe, tarisai, tinonzwisisa kuti isu isu hatina chivi ...
Kuve nehanya, kusagadzikana, tsika dzakagadziriswa uye mararamiro - izvi zvose zvinogona kukudzivisa kusaona mune mumwe Munhu ane tsamba huru. Nokudaro, kudzivisa kutora zvakakosha, sehuya akazara uye akaenzana naye. Regai iye asingazivi kuti angaziva sei kana shati yake iri nguva yekugeza ...