Sei murume wangu achienzanisa neni nevamwe vakadzi?

Meldenson's waltz yakambotaurira iwe nevakashamisika vakadanidzira "Zvinorwadza." Kwemakore, kwete gore rimwe chete rekugara pamwe chete. Uye zvinoita sekuti zvinhu zvose zvaunazvo muhupenyu huno zvakanaka. Zvichida kwete zvose, uye kwete nguva dzose ....

Asi kufanana nevamwe vose: mhuri, imba, basa, vana, murume ....

Asi nei pfungwa imwechete ichikugadzirisa nguva yekupedzisira kuti chimwe chinhu chakashata nemhuri yako. Iwe unotanga kufunga nezvazvo, unotanga kutarisa kumurume wako, zvichida haasi "iyo" ... Uye zvinonetseka pamusoro pako, zvinova pachena sezuva. Murume wawakagara naye kwemakore mazhinji, uyo waunoberekera vana, uyo, sezvavanotaura, vakadya pud yemunyu uye pamusoro pazvo, sezvamakafunga, iwe unoziva zvinhu zvose, kamwe-kamwe wakachinja zvakawanda. Kana kuti zvichida kwete kamwe kamwe, nguva yakareba chaizvo iwe hauna kumucherechedza zvakananga uye haunzwisisi kuti nei murume wangu achienzanisa neni kune vamwe vakadzi.

Ino ndiyo nguva yokutanga yekugara pamwe chete, iwe waida kufadza murume wako, kunyevera zvido zvose, kubata, shoko rimwe nerimwe. Uye zvino ... zvino-akazvifananidza nazvo, akazvifananidzira. Paiva nevana vachikumbira kutarisirwa uye iwe wose rudo rwako uye rudo, zvose zvakatakurwa pamusoro pavo. Zvakanaka, zvakadini nomurume, ipapo murume wake, zvakasara.

Uye zvino, iwe kamwe-kamwe wakaona kuti murume wako anorarama, sekunge, hupenyu hwake hwakasiyana. Iwe une hupenyu hwako pachako, hunowanzozivikanwa uye hunozivikanwa nemudzimai - musha, mhuri, basa, vana. Uye ane zvake, uyewo imba, basa, vana, mhuri .... Ndizvo chete mumhuri iyi ndiyo nzvimbo yako, iwe haugoni kunzwisisa.

Iwe wakanyatsoteerera murume wako, kuti uone kuti chii uye zvaanoita, izvo zvaanotaura. Uye ndakaona ndikawana kuti iwe unoshamisa zvikuru uye unofadza. Kazhinji pahurukuro yake murume anoita kuti achifananidza neshamwari yako yekare uye, zvakare, kuenzanisa hakusi kumativi ako. Ndivanaani, uye ndivanaani vanofananidza, asi kwete neusikana, iyo, pamusana pekuti iwe hausi kuchinja murangariro wemurume wake uye hauna kuchida. Haana kumuda, iwe unonyatsoziva. Haana kuzvifarira paakauya kuzokushanyira iwe, uye haana kuda kushanyira imba yake. Uye kamwe-kamwe kurumbidzwa kwakadaro mukufamba kwake, zvino iye anoziva nzira yekuita nayo zviri nani, zvino izvi. Uye kana musikana wacho asina kuroora uye asina vana vatatu, ipapo zvose izvi zvinorumbidzwa zvinogona kuverengwa nokuda kwezviratidzo zvekucherechedza kubva kumurume wako, uye zvinogona kuva chikonzero chegodo.

Uye zvakanyanya kuenderera mberi, murume wake akatanga kurumbidza muvakidzani kubva kumusuo wakatarisana. Iye, iyo inoshanduka, yakasangana naye nechiitiko, paaifamba nemwanakomana wake mupaki. Akakumbira rubatsiro, uye murume wake akamubatsira. Iye nemwanasikana wavo vakamukoka iye nemwanakomana wake kumba kwake. Vakava shamwari. Ichi chakaziva ndicho chikonzero chekufara kwako? Zvakanaka, iwe unofanirwa kubvuma, pane chimwe chinhu chaunofunganya nacho.

Murume anokuudza pamusoro pezvakanaka mukadzi muvakidzani, anofadza shamwari yake, achitaura kuti iwe wakakanganwa kare paakataura kwekupedzisira, kunze kwevana uye mari yakashandiswa mari. Zvinoratidzika kwauri kuti iyi ndeimwe yezvikonzero zvikuru nei murume wangu achizvienzanisa kune mumwe mukadzi.

Mudzimai wacho aiwanzosangana nemuvakidzani, achifamba mupaki nemwanakomana wake. Mushure memisangano iyi, akadzoka kumba achifara uye akatanga kukuudza nezvemukadzi uyu. Nezvakanaka sei, uye kuti anogona sei kuita izvi uye izvo.

Pasinei nezvose izvi, maitiro ake mumhuri akaramba achifanana. Nguva dzose pane nguva kubva kubasa, vhiki dzevhiki nevana vanewe, pamba zvinhu zvose zvaunoda zvepati kana. Zviratidzo zvaanobiridzira kwauri, kwete, kwete.

Izvo zvakatotanga kuonekwa kwauri kuti murume akawedzera kunyatsoteerera. Kuramba nemwi moga kune rudo. Asi kutarisa kwake uye rudo, mushure mokunge achifananidza newe muvakidzani, akava donhi remafuta mumoto.

Iwe wakatsungirira zvose izvi kuimba uye dithyrambs emuvakidzani kwenguva yakareba, asi rimwe zuva akange asingakwanisi kumira uye iye akataura zvose kune murume wake. Zvose pamusoro pezvawaifunga nezveiyo. Iwe unofanirwa kuve wakatendeseka kunyanya pamberi pako, iwe hauna kutaura, uye iwe wakavhara dambudziko uye wakazvipa kumurume wako, "... sezvo zvakanakisisa, saka enda kwaari. Sei uri kurarama neni? "Handizvo here?

Ndizvo chaizvo zvaive. Uye ini handidi kumira parutivi rwenyu. Pane zvakaitika mumhuri yako, iwe chete uye hakuna mumwe munhu ane mhosva.

Zvechokwadi, pane zvakaitika, panewo mhosva yemurume wake. Haafaniri kunge akave, achiita kuti iwe ucherechere pane izvo mudzimai wako anowana nenzira iyi. Asi ndinofunga kuti iye anongotya chete kurarama, achitamba mabasa echipiri muupenyu hwako. Akada zvakare kutarisa kwako uye rudo. Uye aisagona kufunga chero chinhu chiri nani kuti udzokere zvakare, iwe ungaita sei iwe unonzwa godo.

Uye akabudirira, handizvo here? Kunyangwe iwe unofunga kuti izvi hachisi godo zvachose, asi kungoita manzwiro ekutsamwa. Iwe unofanirwa kuva wakaisvonaka kwazvo - amai vane mutsa uye vane rudo, amai veimba yakanaka, unyanzvi uye mubiki, anofananidzwa nemuvakidzani. Pamwe, pane chimwe chinhu chingaenzaniswa? Uye iwe hauna kuedza kufunga pamusoro pemubvunzo, asi zvichida murume wako ndiye chaiye. Zvichida, iwe wakaita, uye chokwadi chiri chakanaka, asi kwete zvakadai sokunge murume wako aifarira.

Zvechokwadi, aida kutaura newe. Kugara uye nekurangarira kuti vakararama sei mumakore ekutanga ewanano yenyu. Kutaura kuti zvakanaka sei akanga ari ipapo pedyo newe. Ichokwadi chokuti anonyanya kusuruvara kuti muhukama hwako iye zvino zvishoma zvishoma zvekupisa ikoko, zvisingarevi rudo. Uye zvakadaro, kuti iye anonyatsoda kudzosa zvinhu zvose zvakare nekudziya uye rudo. Asi haana kuzviita, asi akaita zvaakaita.

Zvakanaka, uye iwe, iwe! Sei usina kumuudza kuti hazvina kunaka kuti iwe unzwe kana iwe uchirumbidza mumwe munhu, uchideredza kukudzwa kwako. Sei wakanyarara? Anokanda mumeso omurume wake, saka akacheneswa kune mumwe, akanaka, aigona, asi aisagona kutaura nevanhu.

Kana kuti zvichida yakanga isina godo? Zvimwe iwe hausi kumuda?

Yeuka, nokuti pawakaroora iye, nokuti iwe waida. Aida uye aida kugara murudo upenyu hwake hwose. Tarisa shure, tarisa hupenyu, wakagara pamwe chete, rangarira kuti iwe wakanga uri pamwe chete sei, kusvikira iwe uchitendera hupenyu, hutora hukama hwako hwakanaka uye rudo rwako. Uye kana nzira iyo iwe uchiri iwe mhuri yako, rudo rwako. Kana iwe uchida chaizvo murume wako, zvichida iwe unofanira kufungisisa maonero ako pamusoro pehupenyu. Kuti udzokere zvakare kutarisa kwako kumurume wako, kumupoteredza pamwe chete caress uye kutarisira. Uye tendai zvakaitika kwandiri, murume wako haazotanga kufambidzana mumapaki nemadzimai asina kuroorwa, haazorumbidzwi kumatenga. Uye kana iwe uchienzaniswa nomumwe munhu, chete iwe unofarira.