Vanhu vanofungidzira izvi zvishoma pakarepo, pazinga risingazivikanwi. Asi kukosha kweiyi kunokosha zvakadini? Munhu wese anoziva kuti mafungiro ekutanga omunhu anonyanya kukonzera kukura kwehukama pakati pevanhu ava munguva yemberi. Mhedziso yekutanga inogona kuitwa kamwe chete, saka tinoedza zvakaoma kutarisa zvakanaka pamapato, mapato emakambani uye dzimwe nzvimbo uko unogona kusangana nevasingazivi. Zvinotaridzika zvakanaka kuti titarise zvikuru vakadzi, kunyange izvi zvisiri murairo, asi pane chiitiko. Ndizvo chete kuti vakadzi vari kuratidza izvi zvinhu zvishoma. Mushure mezvose, madzimai ave nguva dzose ari muses, uye varume vari minda nevashambadzi. Saka panguva ipi inotaridzika inonyanya kukosha uye chii chinorehwa nekuonekwa munguva yedu?
Ngatitange nevana pakati pemakore matatu neatanhatu. Iyi ndiyo nguva isina mhosva uye isina makore muupenyu. Panguva ino, kwete, hapana matambudziko uye kunetseka, unowana zvose zvaunoda muupenyu. Mwana wacho haafungi nezvemaonero evanhu maererano nezvake. Anosarudza zvifananidzo zvake kwete nechitarisiko, asi neukama hwakanaka hweumwe kana mumwe munhu kune iye pachake. Kana tichifungidzira kukosha kwechimiro chemwana wezera iri pane chiyero chegumi, anowana kuongororwa kwekutanga 1.
Chinotevera chinouya nguva yechinomwe kusvika kune gumi nemakore. Panguva ino mwana anoenda kokutanga kuchikoro. Nenguva iyi, kutanga kwevanhu vakawanda kana vashoma uye hupenyu huri kuzvimirira. Iye zvino ane shamwari dzake dzokutanga-vezera vevakomana nemukadzi, zvinoreva maitiro zvinonzwisisika kwaari. Kwenguva yekutanga anotanga kuzvifunga semunhu anozvimiririra. Kuonekwa kunotanga kumufadza, nokuti ari munzanga uye anofanira kutarisa zvakakodzera. Asi iye zvino zvinonyanya kuitika nekuda kwesimba revabereki pamwana. Vanoedza kudzidzisa vana vavo kunyatso, utsanana, rudo rwekuronga. Chikamu che 4 points.
Zvadaro pane hupenyu hurefu hurefu hwema14-25. Munguva iyi inopinda mukuyaruka, pamwe nevechidiki. Iyi ingangodaro nguva yakaoma zvikuru yehupenyu hwehupenyu, kunyangwe kujeka, kusingakanganwiki, kusatarisirwe. Munguva iyi, munhu anovaka maonero pamusoro pake, anoongorora vanhu vakamupoteredza, anozvigadzira hupenyu hwake kana kuvaramba zvachose, pane kuongororazve maitiro, kazhinji, pane kuchinja kwenyika mumunhu, semunhu. Munguva iyi, kuonekwa kunokosha zvikuru. Mukomana anobhadhara nguva yakawanda nesimba kumeso ake, anoedza kutarisa zvakakwana. Ichi chido chakasikwa, nekuti iye zvino anotanga kufarira kune vakomana nevasikana. Pakupera kwenguva ino, sekutonga, munhu anenge atoumbwa uye munhu akazvimirira, asi kutarira kuonekwa hakusi kuderera. Uye izvi zvinonyatsoziva, murume anozviratidza pachake, anoda kuzvitarisira zvakanaka. Munguva yedu, vechidiki vane utsinye kwazvo, uye naizvozvo kunyanya kubhadhara kunobhadharwa kuonekwa. Chikamu 9 mapfumbamwe.
Nguva inotevera ndeye 26-45 makore. Panguva ino, munhu anozadza zvizere uye akazvimirira. Sekutonga, panguva iyi, kupedzisira kwemhuri uye kuberekwa kwevana. Vose varume nevakadzi havana kunyanya kufungidzirwa nechitarisiko chavo uye vanochisarudza iyo kunyika yepanyika yemunhu. Saizvozvowo, kutarisa kuonekwa kwakaderedzwa nekuda kwekuti munhu anonzwisisa kuti hazvifananidzi kuvaka mumwe munhu uye kutanga kutanga, sebasa uye mhuri yakatosikwa. Pakupera kwemukati uyu, zvakare, pane zvishoma nezvishoma, kunyanya kutarisa kumunhu (chinetso chekatikatikati), asi chinokurumidza kupera. Chikamu 4-5 points.
Uye nguva yekupedzisira inobva kumakore makumi mashanu kusvika kumagumo ehupenyu. Kuchenjerera kune kunze kwacho kuduku, sezvo vanhu vazhinji vane mhuri huru, basa rakabudirira, vanobva vatanga kurarama ivo pachavo. Vanopedzisira vachikwezva ivo pachavo, nokuti vatove vakagamuchira ruremekedzo rwakakwana. Chikamu che 2 points.
Nokudaro, kuonekwa kunonyanya kukosha munguva yedu yevechiri kuyaruka uye vechidiki ndeyekucherechedza kwekushanduka kwemahomoni mumutumbi, pamwe chete nenguva yekuumbwa kweunhu.
Kuonekwa kuduku kudarika vana vaduku, nekuda kwekushaya ruzivo rwekutaurirana. Uyewo vanhu vakuru, musagadzirisa pairi.