Rufu rwemudiwa: rubatsiro rwepfungwa

Kurasikirwa neshamwari nguva dzose kunobva pane zvakadzama muhupenyu hwemunhu. Mudzimai akasiiwa ari oga, kurasikirwa kwakadaro kunoreva kuguma kwehupenyu pamwechete. Nokudaro, rufu (rwechokwadi, kana munhu akafa kubva pakurwara kwakakomba kwakagara kwemakore anoverengeka) inogara isingatarisirwi uye inosanganisira kurwadziwa kusingagumi. Nekurasikirwa kwomunhu wadikanwa, anodiwa uye kazhinji munhu oga, kunouya kuguma kwehukama hwemweya naye.

Mumwe akasara, pamwe nekurwadziwa mumoyo, ari kutya uye kuora mwoyo, kazhinji kune manzwiro, matambudziko epfungwa anokonzera kukura kwechirwere chepfungwa chakakomba.
Mukurasikirwa nemumwe wako wega wega kubva kune imwe nyika pakutanga pakutanga kunogona kubatsira. Kunyanya zvakakosha kudzivisa "vanyaradzi" vanoda kutsvaga kushaya simba kwenguva pfupi. Dzimwe nguva vanoomerera vachibvunza nezvehupenyu hwehupenyu hwavo uye kunyange kutarisira kuwana mari pane izvi.
Panhau dzekufa kweumwe wako, munhu mumwe nomumwe anopindura zvakasiyana. Izvo zvinoenderana neunhu hwake, chimiro chemunhu, kukwanisa kutakura kurwadziwa kwekuguma. Maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, izvi zvinoparadzaniswa zvikamu zvina, uye kuratidzika kwavo hakusi kunzi kusanganisa kubva pane zvisizvo. Pakutanga mudzimai wacho, akasiya ari oga, anoita seanodhaka uye haasati azviziva. Kazhinji danho iri rinotora maawa akawanda, asi rinogona kuva refu (dzimwe nguva iyi hurumende inoparadzaniswa nokutambudzwa kunonzi kana kurwiswa kwehasha). Zvadaro zvinotevera danho rekusuruvara uye kutsvaga mumwe wako, iyo inotora kwemwedzi inoverengeka, kana kunyange makore. Chikamu ichi chinosangana nekusuwa kukuru uye kuchema. Kazhinji munhu anozorora, anoramba achifunga nezvomumwe akafa, anotambudzika nehope. Ikoko kunogona kunge kuva nemanzwiro okuti akafa anenge ari pedyo, uye zviratidzo zvekuvapo kwake zvinogona kuva, somuenzaniso, zvinonzwika kunzwa mamwe mazwi.
Ichi chimiro chinowanzova chikamu chechitatu - zvachose kuora mwoyo nekusawirirana. Pakupedzisira, danho rechina nderokuvandudzwa mukati memunhu. Mudzimai wake, akasiyiwa ari oga, anoshandiswa pakurasikirwa uye atokwanisa kukwanisa kuongorora hupenyu huchishandiswa pamwe chete nemudiwa, sekunge kuti kubva kunze, kuti ave nemafungiro akanaka.
Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti zvikamu zvina zvese zvinodarika kazhinji, i.e. aiva nekutanga uye kuguma. Kushungurudzika nekuchema hakufaniri kuva nzira yeupenyu.
Chokutanga pane zvose, munhu ane shungu anofanira kutora marwadzo emagumo, pasinei nokuti angave akaoma sei. Zvakakosha kuyananisa nekurasikirwa nemumwe wako. Munhu anofanira kunzwisisa kuti rufu rwomunhu waunoda harucagoneki. Munhu akawana kurasikirwa kwomunhu waunoda zvakakosha zvikuru kuedza kuzviwana zvakare. Zvakakosha kuchinja nokukurumidza sezvinobvira mararamiro ake ekare ekuzvibata, sezvo chete munyaya iyi nzira itsva dzekunzwa nekuita zvinoita. Kana munhu asingakwanisi kuita izvi, achazvidzivirira penguva yemberi.
Zviitiko zvinouraya zviri kuitika muhupenyu nguva dzose zvinokurudzira kuchinja kwomunhu iyeye pachake: mubadzidzi anofanira kudzidza kuita mabasa akasiyana-siyana ezuva nezuva, uye chirikadzi - kuchengetedza dzimba, kuzvipa mari yakawanda. Kana pane vana, vakasara varo vanofanira kuzadzisa mabasa evabereki vaviri. Munhu ari nani anokwanisa kutaridzirwa kuita basa idzva, munyoro, akazvimirira oga achazviona, kuzvivimba kwake kuchadzorerwa nokukurumidza. Ndizvo chete ipapo hupenyu hwake huchazara.
Kune marudzi mazhinji ehutano hwekushungurudzika: kusingaperi kushungurudzika nekufungisisa zvakanyanya kwevakafa. Izvi zvinorwadza zvinogona kuva zvezvikamu zvakasiyana zvekuoma. Varwere vakadaro vanorapwa nachiremba.