Ndezvipi zvingaitwa kuunza zviitiko zvakamirira kwenguva refu? Kana mumwe mubvunzo: ungabatsira sei murume kusarudza nezvechato? Iwe unogona kuita sarudzo pachako, kwete nekutaura kwakananga kwechokwadi, asi zvinyoronyoro taura nezvazvo. Somuenzaniso, "Darling, iwe unofunga kuti tinogona kuroorwa here? ", Nokuda kwevakadzi vakashinga, sarudzo" Wadiwa, ndinoda iwe kuti uve murume wangu "yakakodzera. Asi zvirevo zvakadaro zvinofanira kuitwa chete kana zvikaitika kana hukama hwacho hwakatova hurefu uye hwakasimba, kuitira kuti aya mazwi asatye murume uyu, asi zvakasiyana akaita kuti afunge. Zvakakosha kufunga pamusoro pekuti sei uye kupi kunotanga kukurukura pamusoro pechato, kunyanya panguva yekudya kwepabonde kana kumba, uko pasina munhu anogona kukumisa. Chinhu chikuru hachisi kutya kutaura nezvazvo, nokuti hukama hurefu kwenguva refu, pachavo, chiratidzo chekuvimba kwevamwe. Kana munhu asina kuramba, asi akapa chero chikonzero nei iye zvino achifunga kuti imba haigoneki, hapana chikonzero chekugumbura. Teerera kwazvo uye zvichibva pane mhinduro yaro, iwe uchave wakananga pamusoro pehupenyu hunotevera. Usamanikidza murume wacho uye uise mhando dzose dzemamiriro ezvinhu, akadai sokuti "Kana iwe unosarudza pamuchato, kana isu tinopinda! ", Pane kudaro, zvakakosha kuva naye sevane mwoyo murefu uye ane rudo sezvinobvira. Ipa mienzaniso yemhuri inofara, kurota kwekufadza kunakidza nevana vavo vari mberi, kupedza nguva yakawanda neshamwari dzavo dzatowana mhuri. Murume anoona vakaroorana vanofara vachamira vachitya uye kudzivisa ukama hwemhuri, uye vachanzwisisa kuti kuvaka kwehupenyu hwake hunofadza zvakakwana mumaoko ake. Izvi zvinoitika apo pavakabvunzwa nezvewanano, murume anotanga kutaura nezvekuti kusvikira apedza izvozvo, kusvikira atenga motokari, imba, kusvikira aita basa rinobudirira, haasati aroora. Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, zvinangwa zvemurume zvinoda kutsigirwa nenzira dzose. Iwe unogona kuedza kumubvumira kuti kuroorana hakusi chipingamupinyi mukushandiswa kwezvinangwa zvake, asi iwe pachako uchatsigira zvakasiyana-siyana uye rubatsiro rwekuita izvo zvawakaita, zvinogonawo kubatsira kuburitsa muchato.
Dzimwe nguva kuparadzana kwenguva pfupi kunogona kubatsira. Murume ane rudo achanyanya kunetseka uye achida kuregera kubva kune akatendeka kwemazuva anopfuura rimwe, izvo zvinogona kukurumidzira chisarudzo chokuroorana naye.
Sezvo mutemo, varume vane mazana ezvikonzero nei vasisati varoora kuroora. Asi ivo vachiri kuroorwa, pasinei nokuzvipira kwavo kune rusununguko uye kuzvimirira. Uye kana iwe uchiziva zvikonzero zvikuru zvinobatsira murume kusarudza pamusoro pechato, kutarisa munhu waanoda kuva nemisungo yevakamiririra kwenguva refu uye kuwana mufaro naye, hazvizove chinhu chikuru.
Hazvirevi chikonzero chikuru chekuti murume aroore kana kuroorwa. Zvichienderana nemararamiro nemakore, zvinogona kuva chido chekuita zvepabonde nguva dzose, kana zvimwe zvisiri izvo, kuzvidzora nekuzorodzwa kubva kune rimwe marathon marathon. Vakomana vaduku vasina ruzivo, pavanopinda muwanano, nenzira yekutenda vanotenda kuti chinhu chinokosha pakuita zvepabonde nguva dzose ndechechato, uye nekuda kwekusaziva kwavo vanoita zvikanganiso, nokuti kuita zvepabonde hakusi chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muupenyu hwemhuri hunofadza. Vamwe vasikana vanoona kuti hazvibvumirwi kupinda mune zvepabonde vasati varoorana, izvo zvinoitawo kuti murume aroore. Chikonzero chinotevera, kuzvidira kupinda muukama hwepamutemo nemukadzi anodiwa ndeyekuti munhu aneta nemabasa epamba. Kune vamwe, mararamiro emararamiro anoshanduka kuva gehena chaiyo. Mushure mokuwana mudzimai, chido chekugeza, kubika nekuchenesa kubva kumunhu chinopera pachako pachako. Chikonzero chinotevera chinowanzoita kutya kutya kurasikirwa nemudzimai wako waunoda. Munyaya iyi, sekutonga, rudo runoita basa rinokosha. Ichi chikonzero ndechokuti vanoziva kupinda muchato che rudo. Kunyangwe pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo mumwe wako anotanga kushandisa simba rakasimba rwehafu yake yechipiri uye munzira dzose dzinogona kuvashandisa. Kuroorana "pamhepo". Chikonzero chekare uye chinozivikanwa. Nenzira, yakakodzera kufungidzirwa imwe yemichato yakasimba, nokuti munhu anotora zvaanoita, achiroora amai vemwana wake asati aberekwa, atozviratidza kuburikidza nebasa rake kukosha kwezvinangwa zvake. "Iwe unoda kuroorwa. Nokuti ndizvo zvakakosha "- chikonzero chakabatana nechisimba chetsika uye tsika dzehupenyu hwemunhu akawandisa. Pasinei nedzidzo yeSoviet, kana pfungwa, asi chikonzero chinotyisa uye chikonzero chisingawaniki. Anogona kunge asina rudo rukuru kune iye akasanangurwa, anogona kuzvitarisira uye haadi mudzimai, asi shamwari dzose dzagara dziine madzimai avo nevana uye zvavanoda. Kana dzimwe nguva munhu anosangana nesarudzo yake kwemakore akawanda uye vabereki vemativi ose maviri vave vachiroorana navo kwenguva refu, murume anonzwisisa kuti inguva yekuendesa ukama nemunhu anodiwa kune imwe nhanho itsva, saka murume haana imwe sarudzo - "inguva yekuroora." Kuroorana nyore. Hongu, hongu, varume vanoroora zvisingaverengwi kupfuura vakadzi. Muchato wemari, basa, propiska kana kuva vagari venguva yakave yakava tsika muhupenyu hwevanhu vemazuva ano. Ukama hwemhirizhonga yakadaro huri kuramba hwakasimba, nekuda kwekuti murume anovimba nemudzimai uye nokuda kwekusimudzira kwemari yemari kana kufambira mberi kwebasa, anokwanisa kuroorana, kunyange pasinei nekuteerera rusununguko rwake. Dzimwe nguva varume vanoroora nekuzvipira kune vagaries yevakasarudzwa. Wakaneta nemashoko asingagumi sekuti, "Tichawana rini? "," Ini ndinoda kuti isu tive murume nemudzimai, "anononoka kuchido chomumwe wake uye anoroorana naye. Zvakanaka, chinonyanya kukosha uye chikonzero chekuregererwa ndechechokwadi rudo. Chido chekuva nevana kubva kumudiwa anodiwa, kugara ari pedyo naye uye oga, ndicho chikonzero chikuru chekufambisa kwechido chemunhu chekuita zvepamutemo mutano nevakadzi. Hazvina mhosva kuti chokwadi chehupenyu chakasuruvara sei, vamwe varume vanosarudza kuroora, kuitira kuti vagone kunyarara vachienda kuruboshwe, vachifunga kuti chifukidzo mupasipoti chichachengetedza mukadzi pasinei nekusangana kwake uye kutengesa uye mudzimai haazoenda chero kupi zvako. Ichokwadi kuti ukama hwakadaro huchaunza hutambudziro kumudzimai, saka chenjerera kusarudza shamwari yehupenyu, nokuti kuvimba uye kunzwisisa kune chikamu chevakaroorana ndicho chinhu chinokosha kumhuri ine utano uye inofadza!