Maererano nehuwandu, munhu wese wechipiri mushure mekushanda zuva rakaoma anonwa bhodhoro kana mabhesi maviri. Kune vakawanda, izvi zvinowanzoitika, unogona kunwa zvinwiwa zvakasimba imwe-kaviri mumavhiki maviri. Kana murume wako asingadi kudhakwa, haawedzeri doro rewaini (somuenzaniso, akatanga kunwa rimwe bhodhoro manheru, uye iye zvino dzimwe nguva vatatu vanogona kunwa), hazviiti zvekutsamwa, saka zvose zvakanaka. Iwe haugoni kunetseka.
Munhu wose anoziva njodzi dzokunwisa kudhakwa, asingatauri doro kune izvozvo. Asi hazvina maturo. Nguva dzose kushandiswa kwemhepo inoputika kunopedza simba, uropi hunokonzera masero, kufa mudumbu, kuwedzerwa kweropa kunobuda, kusachengetedzwa kwezvirwere kuderera. Usingarevi kuti doro rinodhaka rinogona kukura.
Doro rekudhakwa kwakafanana nehutano hutachiona sehuwandu hwekudhakwa. Kusiyana chete ndekwokuti nguva yekuumbwa kwayo yakareba kwenguva refu, sekusvika nguva yekudzoka. Sezvo mutemo, "kukanganisa kunwa doro" kwenguva yakareba kunoramba kusingaoneki nevaswedera pedyo, kana newadhakwa pachake.
Kuwedzera kune zvose zvinopinda pasi pesarudzo yakazara: kubvisa kubatwa nedoro zvakasununguka munhu haakwanise zvakare, asi, nokudaro zvinomesa musoro kuti anoramba kuvimba. "Ndinogona kumira chero nguva. Ndinonwa zvakanyanya sezvandinoda. Ndine zvakakwana uye rimwe bhodhoro rewaini, "- taurai varume vatotanga kudhakwa doro. Ongorora maitiro omurume wake. Ari kushivirira kunwa here? Anonzwa sei pamusoro pekuti iwe unogara uchimuudza kuti doro rakaipa?
Kana iwe uchida kukurumidza kusunungura murume wako kubva usiku hwehusiku hwewaini, ipapo, kutanga, isa chinangwa pamberi pako. Somuenzaniso, "Ndinoda kuti murume wangu aende neni paki manheru (ainge agere nemwana, achindibatsira pamba pamba)." Chido chevanhu kuti vazorore mushure mebasa chinonzwisisika uye chakarurama. Asi, zvinofanira here kuita izvi newaini? Mubatsire kuti apukunyuke kunetseka kwezuva nezuva. Kumbira kuti ufambe, ronga masheji kwaari, gadzirira kudya kwemanheru uye utaure pamusoro petafura yakaiswa zvakanaka. Zvichida murume wacho haana chaanogona kunyaradza munguva pfupi yapfuura?
Kana murume wako asina kunwa doro zvisati zvaitika, uye zvino kamwe-kamwe akatanga kuitora, akagara paTV ane chiso cheponyero? Ongorora, anonzwa here semunhu ane M? Anogona here kuneta nemakungunyunyuta ako neku "kuona" uye haakuoni iwe mukadzi asina simba uye ane tsitsi, maanowira murudo? Uri kutarisira zvakakwana naye here? Iwe unoteerera kubudirira kwake, matambudziko here? Zvichida anoda rubatsiro uye kunzwisisa?
Rwisana naro! Semuenzaniso, kuti haazonwi doro kwemwedzi, uye oona kuti anobudirira sei. Kana asingakanganwi nezvehusiku hwose hwehusiku hunodhaka doro, ipapo kushushikana kwako kwaiva pasina. Uye kana izvi zvikapiwa kwaari nekuoma - zvakakodzera kufunga ...
Muudzei nyaya inotyisa. Kuti pashure pemakore mashomanana ekunwa doro rechinwiwa chake chaanoda iye achatanga kuva nezvinetso zveutano, kunyanya ne potency (varume vanowanzovhundutsa kwazvo), kuti iye achava ne "dumbu", iwe ucharega kumuda uye kubva. Udza murume wako kuti haufariri bhodhoro rake remanheru rewaini, iwe unogumburwa neizvi.
Bheri rakanaka harisi shoma. Iwe unogona kuronga kuedza. Rega zvakaenzana nemari yaanoshandisa pazvinotyisa zvinokupa. Mushure memavhiki kana mwedzi, munogona kumuratidza kuti anoshandisa sei "manheru okuzorora."
Kana bhodhi remanheru rewaini risina kukumanikidza iwe kana murume wako, iwe unogona kusiya mamiriro acho oga, asi ugare uri pasi pekutonga. Kana pane doro rekudhakwa, kusazvibata, saka ndiyo nguva yekuenda kumakiriniki chaiwo kuti ubatsirwe.