Kwete kwete. Uyezve, kuenzaniswa kwevarume mukuenzanisa nehama dzavo duku hakusi nzira yekuziva imwe nhengo yakakosha yepabonde yakasimba zvakanyanya, asiwo kuedza kwakakosha kwekuva nepfungwa yekuseka. Kuvapo kwaro, nenzira, kunogara kuchiita munhu zvishomanana semurume mumwechete wemhuka inogunzva, kuti ave saiye zvakajeka haane nyota.
Hazvisi zvekuti mafirologist vanoti munhu - vose murume nemukadzi - anozivikanwa neunhu hunokosha: vanhu vakawanda vanotsamwiswa nehuhu hunhu kune vamwe hunoparadza unhu hwavo. Saizvozvowo, tinogona kugumisa zvakasimba kuti munhu anogumburwa nekuenzanisa nemhuka iri mumatambudziko, kana akazara nemafungiro asina kururama pamusoro pemhuka chaiyo, kana kuti zvinongobvumirana nehupo hwehupenyu hwake hwehuipi hwemhuka. Chero mamiriro ose ezvinhu, izvi hazviiti kuti zvive sepasina kufanana nehupfumi kana hune hugaro hwepasi. Uyezve, izvi zvikamu zvinowanikwa kune vakadzi vanonyanya kunetseka pamusoro pemhuka kune varume vakakomba, avo vakaoma zvakanyanya pakuona kuderera kwavo pachavo, kunyange kuburikidza nekuenzanisa nemhuka.
Saka pamhando ipi yemhuka dzinosiyana nemhando dzevanhu dzinoita sezviri?
Zvechokwadi, hapana dudziro yakadaro iyo inogona kupa rutivi rwakajeka maererano neshoko iri rekufananidzwa nemhuka. Munhu chero upi zvake anogona kunge akaoma musoro semudhongi akanaka, uye anofadza munguva yekuita zvepabonde, secheche yakatendeseka, uye asinganzwisisiki munguva yekusabvumirana, sebheya rakatsamwa, uye akatendeka, sembwa. Asi nekuda kwekuvapo kwekukurukurwa kukuru kwezvinhu zvakasiyana mumunhu wemunhu, mumwe anogona kumutarisa mune rimwe boka rekufananidzwa nemhuka.
Saka, kutanga, murume uyo mufambiro wake unonyanya kutevera maitiro eimbwa. Imwe yenzira dzisinganyanyi kukuvadza pakufananidza varume nemhuka, kunyange kune avo vasinganzwisisiki, uye kuti vanzwisise kusanzwisisika kwekuenzanisa uku kunoramba kuratidza pasina. Varume vanoda kufanana nembwa. Chokutanga pane zvose, nokuti iyi mhuka iyo inonyanya kukoshesa mukufungidzira kweumwe munhu inofanana nekuvimbika uye kukwanisa kuva neshamwari nehafu. Mukuwedzera, varume mune nziyo dzakawanda uye ivo pachavo vanoita kufanana pakati pavo uye shamwari yakanakisisa yevanhu: saka mumaziso evakadzi vose vepasi pano vanova vakanaka zvikuru, vakachenjera, vakatendeka uye, zvakasikwa, zvinodiwa.
Saka chii chinosiyanisa imbwa yembongoro?
Iye akatendeka uye akavimbika, anoda zvokudya zvinonaka, kushivirira uye musha weimba. Mukadzi kwaari haasi iye oga wemwoyo uye chinhu chokuyemura, asiwo shamwari iyo inokanganisa inotarisira pfungwa dzepedyo. Varume vakadaro vari vazhinji vanogadzikana uye vakagadzirira kumirira vadiwa vavo kwemakore. Zvisinei, pakarepo paanodzidza kuti mumwe munhu ane rudo uye akatendeka murudo naye, iye pachake anozununguka muzvombo zvake zvisingatarisirwi zvaanotarisira: sekutonga, varume vakadaro havazivi kuti vangave vakanaka sei, kazhinji vanoda ivo chete pamusoro pemanzwiro akareba iye haazive. Ndokusaka iye asingafungi nezvetariro yehukama. Mhando dzakadaro dzevarume dzinowanzoroora kana kamwe chete muupenyu hwavo, uye musazvuzvurudza nechishamiso: ivo ndivo vanofara kunze kwekutonga kuti vanhu vose vanotya mhuri dzezvisungo.
Chechipiri, mukono wechirume.
Munhu akadaro anowanikwa muhupenyu hwehuse mukadzi wese. Chinonyanya kukosha rudo rusingagumi rwebonde rakanaka. Anoda munhu wose kamwe chete, asi anogona kuramba akatendeka zvakakwana kwenguva yakareba kune iye chete angagona kumunyengedza, akaputirwa mumucheka wakaoma mumakumbo ake. Rudo rwemunhu-gadzi rinonyatsoita mumafungu. Uye kwete nokuti iye anofarira hukama hwake hwepedyo zvikuru. Ndizvo chaizvo zvaanoona sekuti haisi chikamu chakakosha chehukama. Prelude, kutamba, kutamba mitambo, kuparidzirwa kwemanzwiro anodikanwa nhasi mumhando dzakasiyana-siyana - ndizvo zvinonzi varume vakaita samakati. Ivewo mavhesi ekuchena. Uye mune zvose: mumba munofanira kusungirirwa, mishonga - yakashambidzwa, sutu yavo kana jeans - yakashambidzwa. Uye iye pachake iye anoshambidza izvi zvose, kuti achenese uye achibata iye haanyari. Kunyange zvazvo, hongu, aizoda kuti mukadzi aite izvozvo. Mushure mezvose, murume-cat anongoda kutarisa kumunhu wake. Nokudaro, zvakaoma kuitumidza kuti haina kuchena. Achakurumidza kumhanyikidzwa kwete nekuda kwekutya kurasikirwa neadiwa wake kana kutya kwekusakwanira zvakakodzera mumaziso evanhu vose. Aiwa: zvakanyanya kuvhiringidzwa netariro yekurasikirwa zvakakwana.
Chechitatu, mukomana imhuka.
Hazvina mhosva kuti mhando dzevanhu dzakasiyana sei nemhuka, uye izvi hazvigoneki kuti munhu anogona kugumbusa. Zvakanaka, ndiani asingadi kuva sechinhu ichi chine nyasha, chinoshanda, chakasimba uye chakazvimirira? Kwete kunyange mhuka, asi chiratidzo cheuchenjeri, kunzwisisa, simba uye nekukurumidza kwekuita. Zvechokwadi mumatare ehurume inokwezva anenge munhu wose. Asi kazhinji vanoramba vasina hanya nevakadzi. Kunyanya chaizvo, ivo vakatendeseka havakwanisi kuona kuti vangani mwoyo yakanyangarika kana ichioneka. Kana vasina kuratidza basa ravo re "Local Elvis Presley". Uye zvino havangatendi pakarepo. Maitiro eTiger muhutano uye unhu hwemunhu ndeyekuitika kwenguva pfupi. Kazhinji vanonyangarika nekukwegura, uye murume wacho anofamba kubva mukirasi remakungwa kune rimwe boka. Asi kunewo vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba husingachinji mararamiro avo. Nokuda kweukama husingagumi, havatombogoni kuchinjwa: zvakaoma zvikuru kuti vashandise chokwadi chokuti imwe tenzi iye zvino inobata zvinhu zvavo pasina kuda. Kunyanya chaizvo, muridzi weimba. Asi havazofaniri kukanganwa kubatana kwavo ne tiger: pano, muhuwandu, pane dambudziko rinopisa uye kunononoka kwose, zvipo zvechipo uye kusakwanisa kubvuma chipo chekugadzirisa, uye kupesana nguva dzose kwevanhu, uye kupesana kwechido panguva yekuyananisa. Zvimwe chete, imwe cocktail yakazara yevhenekeri manzwiro inomirira nemukadzi akasarudza tiger.
Fourth, iyo nzombe yevarume.
Ane simba, haadi kuda kumira, kusinganzwisisiki matambudziko - uyu ndiye murume uyo mushure mokunge mukadzi anotarisa seri kwemasvingo egwe. Nezvake, tinogona kutaura nechivimbo kuti iye mararamiro ehupenyu hwekushandiswa kwechirongwa "Ndinoona chinangwa, handioni zvipingamupinyi." Murume akadaro uye munhu anopa zvokudya, uye murume akatendeka, uye baba vane rudo vane rudo, uye munyoro wechokwadi. Zvechokwadi, kune mukadzi ane rusununguko-rudo, kushamwaridzana naye hakuzovi nyore: iye achangosikwa kuti adzivirire vaanoda, kudzivirira zvaanoda uye kumupa iye zvose pasina chero kushanda paari, iyo dzimwe nguva inoparadzanisa kusaziva kwake kusava nehanya.