Murume ane mwana kana vana, uyewo akarambana - inongova, kuongororwa kana kuti mashoko akajeka here zvinofanirwa kuona hupenyu chaihwo hwevanhu vapenyu? Chero mukadzi chero upi zvake, dzimwe nguva asingabatsiri, nekuda kwezvisikwa, anotsvaga mumwe munhu anokwanisa kurarama naye. Unogona kuvimba neramangwana rako, iwe unogona here kubatana naye hupenyu huripo, ndiye akakodzera kuvakidzani mumuviri uye achakwanise kunzwisisa nokunzwisisa nyika yake yomukati here?
Uye huwandu hwepfungwa dzinobvumira zvakaderera zvemukati mairi mumaawa makumi mana (hongu, hongu, zvirokwazvo, uye kunyange muchiroto!) Mukutsva mhinduro kumubvunzo usina kuoma asi unokosha zvikuru - ndiye chete here? Zviuru nezviuru zvevarume vanofamba mazuva ose mumigwagwa yemaguta nemisha, uye mumwe nomumwe ane nhau yake. Kune uyo anoteerera, uye ndiani ari nani kupfuura asina kutarisa kumashure - nyaya yakaoma zvikuru.
Nzira nehupfumi hwevarume vakarambana
Murume akadaro ane zvikanganiso zvose nekuremekedzwa. Chokutanga, zvakajeka kuti mumwe munhu akakwanisa "kurira" iyo, iyo yakanaka zvikuru. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti kune varume vakawanda, kuroorana kunotyisa, saka kuita mukadzi anodikanwa chirevo kune vazhinji kwakafanana nechiito chechi hero. Vaya vakambosarudza, vane moyo wakachena vachave vakagadzirira kuenda kuMunyori zvakare.
Uyezve, murume akarambana akapinda muhupenyu hwake hwemhuri uye atova nemafungiro ezvinetso zvakawanda zvezuva nezuva, uye zvakakosha, nzira dzokugadzirisa nadzo. Akamboona mutoro wekutakura, unoisa upenyu muwanano uye zvino unonzwisisa kuti muupenyu huri pamwe chete isu tinokosha kupfuura ini.
Kuzvipira
Kuonekwa mumhuri yehupenyu hutsva kunogadzirisa zvimwe zvinotarisirwa pamunhu. Chido chekupa mhuri mari yemari chinova chinonyanya kukosha, anofanira kubhadhara zvikuru amai vemwana wavo, uye munguva yemberi, kumwana pachake. Izvo nenzira yake pachake inotsamwisa munhu, inomupa mutoro mukuru, uye kazhinji kuchinja kubva mumamiriro emurume kune murume mutsva-baba ndiyo inogadzirisa chinangwa pakuumbwa kwevarume sevanhu. Nokudaro, chokwadi chokuti mushure mekurambana, zvisinei nokuti chii chinokonzera, mwana akagara nababa vake, anotaura kuti tine unhu hwakakwana. Iye haasisiri kutya vana, anoziva sei uye anoda kuwirirana nevana, uye hupenyu huno hupenyu hwakanaka zvechokwadi.
Ko mwana ari chigadziro here?
Kune, zvisinei, dzimwe nguva dzisina kunaka, yekutanga iyo ichava, iyo inotyisa sei inogona kurira, kuvapo kwemu mwana pachake. Mushure mezvose, haufaniri kungovaka chete ukama nemurume waunoda, asiwo nemwana wake. Itai kuti mufare uye mupe ushamwari kune vose vari vaviri. Kushaikwa kwekuwirirana pakati pako nemwana wemurume wako unodikanwa kunogona kuva dambudziko rakakomba, mhinduro yeyo basa rakaoma zvikuru.
Chimwe chisingadikanwi chisingafadzi ndiamai vemwana, iye ndiye akazova mudzimai. Mhosva kana hukama hwakanaka hwakasimbiswa pakati pechido chomurume mutsva nemudzimai wake wekare ishoma chaizvo. Pano, kutanga kune zvose, zvichave zvakakosha kuziva kuti basa rehupenyu hwemwana rinotambidzwa naamai vake, uye hukama huripi iye zvino hunosunga murume kune mumwe mudzimai wake. Mukuwedzera, kazhinji vanhu vanofananidza kuenzanisa avo vekare uye vekare vaidiwa, uye zvinonyanya kufarirwa kuti vekare vaisangana nemimwe mitemo yakasimbiswa mumazuva akanaka ekugara pamwe chete nechishuwo chekare.
Summing up
Muzhinji, kufanotaura kana kune tariro yehukama neye murume akarambana, uyo ane vana, akafanana nekufungidzira pane nzvimbo yekofi. Ichokwadi, mamiriro ega ega ega anofanirwa kufungwa achifungisisa zvinhu zvizhinji. Somuenzaniso, kana mwana wacho ari muduku, saka ane kururamiswa kwakanaka uye rudo, haasati akwanise kukuona iwe kunze kwokuti amai chaivo, kunyange kana mune ramangwana iye anoziva zviripo. Kana imwe imwe hafu yako ikashanduka kuva murume wechokwadi, baba vane hanya uye vane hanya, mudiwa anodedera, uye munhu akanaka chete, ipapo mararamiro apfuura uye kuva nemwana haagoni kuva chipingamupinyi chakakomba kune mufaro chaiwo.
Zvinoratidzika mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, nhamba dzisingabatsiri, zvinhu zvose zvakanyanyisa. Zviri pachena, kana iwe unonyatsoda, saka unongoda kuedza kuvaka hukama, pasinei nezvinetso zvingave, nokuti mufaro wevakadzi unokosha.