Kusiyana kwehupenyu nguva
Mukati, hupenyu hwose hwemunhu wacho, nhamba yakawanda yevamwe vanogona kuonana. Asi ivo vachava pedyo navo chete mune imwe nguva nguva. Hapana chinhu chinoshamisa, chishamiso kana unyengeri pamusoro peizvi. Munhu wose ane kodzero yekuchinja mararamiro ehupenyu hwake. Zvimwe zvezvaanoda zvinopera, zvimwe zvinokuvara zvinouya panzvimbo yavo, zvimwe zvinangwa zvinowoneka, kunakidza kuchinja uye nezvimwe zvakadaro. Saizvozvowo, nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, nevamwe vanhu, tinotanga kuswedera kune mumwe nemumwe pedyo, pamwe nevamwe tinoenda kure. Basa rinokosha rinotambwa nekuti tinopedza nguva yako yakawanda. Somuenzaniso, pavanenge vari kuyunivhesiti, vanhu vazhinji vane ushamwari hwakasimba nevamwe vavanodzidza navo uye vaunodzidza navo. Izvi hazvishamisi, nokuti vanhu vane zvakawanda zvinowanzodiwa, matambudziko uye nyaya dzekutaura. Zvisinei, mushure mokunge vapedza kudzidza, vanhu vanofamba zvishoma nezvishoma kubva kune mumwe, nokuti yose iri kukura zvishoma nezvishoma. Asi kana shamwari idzi dzakanga dziri chaiye, uye isiri iyo yezvaifarira, ipapo musangano wega wega unofadza, vanogara vachirangarirana uye vouya kuzobatsira, kana zvichidikanwa.
Kana munhu akati ane shamwari dzakawanda, hazvirevi nguva dzose kuti anotaura nevanhu vakawanda panguva ino. Muhupenyu hwake pane vanhu avo vaasingaoni naye nguva dzose, asi acharamba achivayeuka uye rudo. Uye hazvina basa kuti vanotaura zvakadini, kunyora uye kuungana muchokwadi. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti anokwanisa kuramba achivimba nevanhu ava.
Mutsa
Vakawanda havatendi mune izvi uye vanotenda kuti nyika yedu yemazuva ano inotungamirirwa nehasha uye ruvengo, asi vanhu vakanaka zvechokwadi vanobatsira vanhu vakanaka. Chinhu chikuru hachisi kupesana mutsa nekusava neunhu uye nekuvi. Munhu akanaka anoziva kuti ndiani anofanira kurambwa uye ndiani asingafaniri kuvimbwa. Asi panguva imwecheteyo nguva dzose anoedza kubatsira vamwe, kana vachichida uye vasingaiti kuvanhu vezvakaipa. Kutarisa munhu akadaro, vamwe vanhu vakanaka vanotanga kutarisa mifananidzo yekukurukurirana. Ichokwadi, kwete vose vanounganidza pedyo nevanhu vakanaka-vakanaka shamwari dzakanaka. Asi kunyange apo ivo vari kuongororwa uye pane zvechokwadi shamwari dzakawanda dzakanaka pedyo nomunhu akadaro. Ndicho chikonzero munhu akanaka uye akazaruka haazombofi akanzwisisa pfungwa yekuona zvakaipa uye mercantile, uye pamwe chete. Avo vanoedza kutakura zvakanaka havagoni kunzwisisa kuti nei mumwe munhu ane shamwari dzakawanda uye avo vanogona kuvimbwa. Uye vanhu vanopesana nevarume vakaipa, zvisinei, vanoshamiswa, sei munhu wose achifanira kutenda kana vanhu vakanaka vashoma, kana kunyange kwete zvachose. Zvechokwadi, zvakatipoteredza, shamwari dzedu, chiratidzo chedu. Hazvisi pasina chikonzero chokuti kune chirevo chokuti munhu anofanira kuona shamwari, uye ipapo iwe unogona kuti iwe ndiwe ani. Mune izvi kune hupenyu chaihwo hwechokwadi. Kubva pamabatiro anoita munhu kune vamwe, ukama hwake naye hunoenderana zvakananga. Munhu anogona chaizvo kuva neshamwari dzakawanda kana achiedza kubata vanhu zvakanaka, asi panguva imwechete iye anonyatsoona nyika, vana vanogara mukunyengera, uko munhu wose akanaka. Munhu ane mutsa anonzwisisa zvakakwana kuti iye akaipa, anongoda kugara kure naye.
Kugadziriswa kwemashoko
Ichokwadi kuti hazviiti nguva dzose kuti munhu ane shamwari dzakawanda. Zvichida iye achangoda kufunga saizvozvo uye shamwari dzake dzose dzinomubata, anotanga kushevedza shamwari yake. Muchiitiko ichi, pane zvakawanda zvekushandura pfungwa. Uye ndeye nekuda kwevanhu ava vakawanda vanosava nechokwadi kuti kune shamwari dzakawanda. Kutaura zvazviri, pane musiyano mukuru pakati pedu neshamwari yakanaka. Apo patinofunga nezveshamwari, tinonyatsotarisira zvinoitika kwaari. Pasina mubvunzo, tinogona kubatsira munhu watinoziva, asi kana tine zvinhu zvinokosha, tinowanzogadzirisa matambudziko ake pachirongwa chechipiri. Izvo zvisinganzwisisiki kuti vanhu vanofunga zvakakwana pamusoro pevanhu vose, apopot atozvitaura ivo pachavo. Iyi maitiro haisi yomuzvarirwo, nokuti chido chenguva dzose chekufadza uye kubatsira vamwe inotaura pamusoro pematambudziko ayo munhu wacho aisakwanisa kukunda. Asi kana munhu wacho ane chirwere chepfungwa uye yepasi pose, asinganyanyi kuwedzera, ndeye shamwari dzaanoshungurudza nemwoyo wose uye asina kufunga nezvezvirongwa zvake, ndeye shamwari dzinoda kubatsira mumwe munhu chero ipi zvayo, uye kana dzisingagoni kupa rubatsiro rwakakodzera, hana inotanga kuwedzera. Nokudaro, kana iwe uchifunga kuti iwe une shamwari dzakawanda here kana usingazivi, pindura mubvunzo wakajeka: chii chaungagona kupa nekuda kwevanhu ava uye chii chavanoda kuzvipira iwe. Kutaura pano hakuiti maererano nemaitiro akadaro, mararamiro ekusiya upenyu, kubvisa shati yako yekupedzisira nezvakadaro. Kune zvinhu zvakawanda zvisingakoshi, zvinhu zviduku zvinoratidza ushamwari hwedu. Zvakadai sechido chekuita munhu chipo chaanoda chaizvo, uye kwete chimwe chinhu, kungoti "otmazatsya, kukwanisa kukanda nyaya inokosha uye kurumidza kubatsira, pasinei nokuti iwe wakanga uine zvirongwa zvakasiyana zvakasiyana nezvimwe zvakadaro. Kana iyi ndiyo mhando yemafambiro aunocherechedza nekuremekedza shamwari dzako, uye nenzira imwecheteyo, zvinoreva kuti ichi ichokwadi ushamwari. Asi kana pasina chinhu chakadaro, zvinosuruvarisa, iwe unongotanga kuoneka iwe pachako uye vamwe uye edza kuzvinyengera kuti unzwe uri woga.
Kutaura pamusoro pekuti iwe une shamwari dzakawanda, hazvidikanwe kuverenga nhamba yezvikumbiro muhutano uye zvaunoda pasi pemifananidzo yako. Mapeji ari paInternet uye mwoyo haisi ushamwari zvachose. Shamwari dzakawanda manzwiro apo iwe unoziva kuti hauzomboperi, nokuti kana pane chimwe chikonzero munhu wekutanga anogona kukubatsira iwe, wechishanu uchauya, uye kana isiri yechishanu, yezve chegumi .. Munhu zvechokwadi anogona kuva neshamwari dzakawanda. Nhamba yavo chete inotsamira pane mafungiro kuvanhu, mavari, kune mararamiro evanhu uye nezvimwewo zvakadaro, naizvozvo, kana mumwe munhu akati pane zvechokwadi shamwari dzakawanda dzaanokwanisa kukakavadzana nadzo uye kuisa, asi iye acharamba achivada, saka iye anongoziva nzira yekuwana nayo vanhu vakarurama.