Izvi ndizvo zvatichakurukura munyaya yedu "Statute yeFund Ida Mhuri Yakabatana." Pamwe, chinhu chinonyanya kukosha muhupenyu ndechokuita hukama muzvinhu zvose, uye kutanga kune zvose, hongu, mumhuri yako, nokuti iyi ndiyo inonyanya kukoshesa munhu. Rudo rwomumwe nomumwe runoita kuti mhuri iwirirane, ichi ndicho chimwe chekutanga chekuwirirana mumhuri.
Asi rudo rwechokwadi chii? Uye chii, manzwiro, manzwiro kana zviito zvakafanana? Ndinoda kukuudza pamusoro peizvi zvakadzama, kuitira kuti iwe unogona kuwana hukama apo uine rudo. Unoziva here nei ndichifunga kuti rudo harusi manzwiro nemanzwiro, asi mabasa? Nokuti kana rudo rwedu rwakavakirwa chete pamanzwiro nemanzwiro, zvino ndezvoudyire uye rudzi urwu rworudo runogona kukuendesa kune mugumo wakafa muhukama hwemhuri yako.
Nguva dzose yeuka kuti rudo rune mwoyo murefu, rudo haruna godo, rusingazvirumbidzi, haruiti zvakaipa. Rudo rwechokwadi runogara rwakagadzirira kuzvipira nekuda kwemufaro wemumwe munhu. Kana iwe ukaona murudo rwako chisina chinhu, uine hudyire, saka usanyengedzwa, izvi hazvizi rudo rwechokwadi uye "mhepo inoputika" inenge ichinyanya kupera.
Iva wakagadzirira nguva dzose kuzvipira iwe, uye rudo rwakadai ruchaunza hukama mumhuri. Ichokwadi kuti izvi zvinoshanda kune vose vemhuri, zvose kumukadzi uye kumunhu. Uye kana vose vaviri nemurume vakagadzirira kuzvibayira ivo nekuda kweumwe, zvichava kunyatsobatana, rudo rwechokwadi kune mumwe nemumwe.
Ndinofunga kuti iwe unobvumirana neni kuti mari yemhuri muRussia inonyanya kuderedza tsika dzayo. Uye kana zvisati zvamboitika kare, michato yakaguma mumakore makumi mapfumbamwe nemasere ichiripo yakasimba, ipapo michato yakaguma mumakore makumi mana uye kunyanya zvakadaro muma2000 ine chikwata chinowedzera kushandura uye kurambana nguva nenguva.
Iko iwe unogona kuona kuti sei izvi zvichiitika, iwe unotarisa iwo mhuri umo madzimai nevarume kana imwe nhengo yemhuri inoda kuzvipira nekuda kwemweya kufara uye nekuda kwekuchengetedza dzimba nekunyaradza, zvino mhuri dzakadaro dzakamira. Uye patinoona mafungiro emhuri, ngatitaurei, ngatitumidze: "Tinoita mhuri kuti idide pamwe chete," uye kuti tinoona kune kuwedzera kwekugumburwa uye pakupedzisira kurambana.
Mukupedzisa kwenyaya yangu ndinoda kutaura kune vose, avo vasingazoiti kungoita mhuri, asi vane hukama. Hapana chikonzero chekuisa, kunyanya kusimbisa pane zvaunoda, kutarisa zvinodiwa zvehafu yepiri, uye hafu yako yechipiri ichaona zvaunoda uye iwe ndiwe, uye unoita hukama mumhuri yako uye hupenyu.
Edza kupa rudo rukuru pane kukumbira mukudzoka. Uye nguva dzose yeuka kuti mhuri haisi yemutambo, asi basa guru rezvose, uye kana uchipinda hupenyu hutsva, usapinda mairi nekuziva kuti iwe unogona kurambana chero nguva. Pashure pezvose, uyo anovaka imba anofunga nezvekuiparadza sei? Tarisa kune ramangwana uchifara, uye uzvivakire murugare nekubatana kune mumwe nemumwe.
Apo murume wako weramangwana akakuita iwe chipo, kumubvunza kana akagadzirira kuvaka imba kana zvose zvaakasarudza kukubhadhara iwe. Mubvunze kana akagadzirira kwete kungoshandisa chokwadi chokuti iwe uchava mukadzi wake (kurega kubika kunatsa), asiwo kuva murume akazara mumhuri. Tora pamitoro uye uve mutevedzeri mumwe chete mumhuri munzvimbo, iyo inofunga munhu wose.
Mushure mezvose, Ishe haasi kungoita chete uye anoshandisa zvakanaka, asi anoshandawo kune izvo zvinonzi zvakanaka. Uye vasikana vakanaka vanotarisisa zvakanyanya pamubvunzo wewanano, nokuti chisarudzo chaunofunga zvino chinoenderana nehupenyu hwako hwose hwemangwana.