Pane zvikonzero zvishoma nei zvikonzero izvi zvichiitika. Vanhu vemazuva ano vanodavira kuti kuroorana "ibhizimisi rinotevera" uye hapana chikonzero chokukurumidzira nenyaya iyi. Vechidiki vanosarudza kugara pamwe chete vasina kuroorana kuitira kuti vagutsikane nezvakarurama zvechisarudzo chavo uye chisarudzo. Uye mushure mokuberekwa kwomwana, nguva inokosha inouya apo vanhu vaviri vanotanga kuona zvose zvinotarisirwa zvakawira pamusoro pavo nechitarisiko chemunhu muduku. Ndizvo chete panguva ino uye kune kuedza chaiyo kwekunzwa. Uye, semurairo, rudo pakati pevabereki vaduku runopera mumucheto nechisimba chinoonekwa chechido. Nekuuya kwomuviri mutsva wekamuri iri revanhu, mamwe matambudziko nematambudziko anomuka, izvo zvinokanganisa ukama pakati pevanoda.
Rudo uye kuberekwa kwemwana kusununguka hazvisi pamutemo. Hurumende haiiti kuti vechidiki varoore kuti vaumbe mhuri. Munhu akangoberekwa haana hanya kana pane kubhadhara mupasipoti kubva kuvabereki vake. Zvakakosha kuti murume muduku uyu akapoteredzwa nekuda vanhu, anochiva uye anodiwa, haadi chimwe chinhu zvakare. Nokubvumirana pamwe chete nevabereki vachangobva kuita vanogadzira mapepa okutanga emwana. Uye nguva dzakadai sezita rezita uye zita rezvekudzidzira rinosarudzwa zvakare kuburikidza kubvumirana pakati pevabereki.
Mune dzimwe nyika, vanhu vanosarudza hukama hwakasununguka, uye musagamuchirwa nezita rechizvarwa zvachose. Kana kuti vane mazita mashoma, kazhinji, nguva nemafashoni zvinopa zvinyorwa zvavo pamaonero uye pamhuri yemhuri. Mukufunga kwangu, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti kodzero dzomwana dzinofanirwa kuregererwa. Chero chero chisarudzo icho vabereki vasina kutora, chinofanira kunge chichionekwa uye chakaipa kumwana.
Isu tiri mutoro wevana vedu uye remangwana ravo, naizvozvo, kunyanya kuchengetwa kwekuita netsika uye mumweya kunotipa mukana wokurera chizvarwa chakaisvonaka. Uye rudo rwevabereki uye hukama hwakanaka mumhuri hunopa "zvibereko zvakanaka." Mushure mezvose, vana vanoita chipanje, vanoona mhepo yakapoteredza, vachiwana zvose zviri kuitika, uye kupa pachena. Nemhaka yeizvi, mwana wacho anofanira kutambira mari yakanaka kubva kuvabereki vake kutaura naye uye anonzwa hukama hwakanaka uye hwakanaka pakati pevabereki.
Mushure mokuberekwa kwemwana kunze kwechato, "kuberekwa" kwerudo rutsva - rudo rwechecheche. Uye, nokudaro, kuongororazve hupenyu uye ukama pakati pevabereki vaduku zvinofanira kuitika.
Sezvo mutemo, kuberekwa kwomwana chinhu chakaita nemaune uye nemaune. Mhedzisiro yaro, kazhinji, ndiyo kuguma kwechato. Kunyangwe, kuwana zita re "amai" uye "baba" harina kunyanya kukosha. Kuvhara ukama nechisimbiso chehofisi yekunyora, vechidiki vanogamuchira mamiriro ehurumende yemhuri. Asi kuberekwa kwomwana akabatanidzwa ndicho chakasimba kwazvo "chisimbiso" munyika. Uye, sezvazvakanga zvakadaro, hazvina kubudirira, ukama huri pakati pevabereki vake, maitiro avo e "mubereki" havazofi vakarashika. Zvechokwadi, ndinoda kufarira vose vakaroorana vakaroorana vanoroorana kana kugara pamwe chete vasati vafunga nezvekuzvarwa kwemwana kunyatsofungisisa uye kuongorora kugadzirira kwavo kwechiito chakadai zvakadaro. Uye usakanganwa kuti patinobereka vana, tinotakura zvakakwana basa rayo.