Zvechokwadi, tinofanira kubvuma kuti maitiro asingazivikanwi uye zviito zvehafu yechipiri hazviwanzwisisi nguva dzose, uye dzimwe nguva zvinotsanangurwa. Uye, nenzira, kwete vakadzi bedzi, asiwo varume. Ndeipi chikonzero chekusaziva kwevanhu? Hungu, zvinhu zvose zviri mumamiriro ezvinhu akafanana anozivikanwa zvepabonde, izvo zvinowanzotaurwa nenyanzvi. Tora kakombiyuta tomography yevasikana vakasiyana. Kusiyana kwakajeka, zvisinei, havasi vose vanogona kuzvitsanangura.
Kwenguva refu, muzivi wechiAmerica nemudzimai wemhuri Michael Gurian (Michael Gurian), munyori we "Anofungei? "Uropi hwomunhu hunoshanda sei?", Akadzidza zvikamu zvakasiyana-siyana zvehuropi, kunyanya, aine hutano hwemamiriro ehupenyu hwemunhu, uye zvakashamisika kugumisa. Icho chinotarisa kuti uropi hwemurume hunobereka neurohormones shoma kupfuura uropi hwevakadzi. Kutaura nezve oxytocin uye serotonin, imwe inokonzera pfungwa yekubatanidza, imwe yacho inogadzirisa. Izvo zvinopera, ndiani ari kukanganisa kwekuti shure kwebasa, varume vane simba venyika ino vangada kurara pamubhedha neTV iri kurega, uye havatori chikamu mukukurukurirana kwekuti zuva rakafamba sei uye chii chokugadzirira kudya kwemanheru.
Kana vakadzi vasingakwanisi kuita pasina kutaura kwemashoko, ipapo varume vanowanzotora uye vanoreva kunzwa. Ndizvo zviitiko izvo zvine mhosva yekuti dzimwe nguva "kungoita" chete, apo iwe uchigovana navo chimwe chinhu cheushamwari uye chinokosha. Iwe uchashamisika, asi panguva ino shamwari yako haifungi muupenyu, pamusoro pewaini kana mushandi mushandi. Haafungi nezvechinhu chero chipi zvacho. Zvakaoma kutenda, asi ichokwadi. Kuita mapenzi uye kurova ndiro ndiro hazvibatsiri, hachizivikanwe kana chiri chakaipa chaizvo - ichi ndicho chiito chake chisingazivikanwi. Kukwanisa ku "gadzika" zvachose uye kugadzikana pamba, sekutonga, kunoguma mukubudirira kwakanyanya kubasa. Mahomoni, testosterone uye vasopressin vane basa rekuti munhu ari mukutsvakurudza nguva dzose uye akatsvaka kuratidza kuti iye mukuru. Maererano nemasayendisiti, mune dzimwe nguva izvi zvinonyatsooneka pashure pokuberekwa kwomwana.
Chimiro chakakosha cheuropi ndicho chikonzero chokuti hafu yevarume yevanhu vasingatauri zvakawanda zvezvinonakidza pamusoro pedu, vakadzi, tarisai. Muchikamu ichi, sekutonga, kunosanganisira bvudzi rutsva, manicure uye yebhizimisi kumba. Zvinoratidzika kuti hazvizoitiki zvakanyanya. Kugadzirisa kukanganisa kusingabatsiri, uropi hwomunhu hahuzoitora, asi hunoshandiswa kune zviduku zvishoma uye, kana zvikaitika, kureva kune zvake oga, zvinoratidzwa nezviedza zvesainzi, zvinogoneka. Ichokwadi, zviri nani kuti tisapfuurire, asi kuedza kuwana nzira yakarurama kune mumwe nemumwe uye kukanganisa kunonzwisisika, mushure mezvose, kubatana muhukama kunokosha kudarika chivako chekushambidzira chakazaruka kana chivhurwa chakazaruka chekupa mazino, uye kusiyana pakati pemurume nemudzimai kwakakura kukunda izvo zvakaonekwa pa x-ray snapshot.
Uye kana iwe usingateereri zvikwereti zvakaunganidzirwa uye kunyatsotarisisa zvinhu, haasi munhu wese ane kodzero yekuwana nguva yake uye nzvimbo yake yega? Mushure mezvose, sevamwe vezvepfungwa vanoti, kugara pamwe chete ndiko kupesana kwenyika mbiri dzakagadzirirwa kugadzira tsika, uye kwete nenzira yakafanana.