Unoziva here kuti kukakavadzana kwemhuri yose kunogona kunge kuri kungorondedzerwa, uye kukakavadzana kwakadai kunogona kuunza matambudziko mazhinji muupenyu hwemhuri yako. Kukakavadzana kwakadai kukwirira kwevanhu, udyire, utsinye uye kusanganisa kwemamiriro ezvinhu. Zvinoratidzika kunge zvisina kunyanya, asi nditendi ini, izvi zvakakwana kuti mhuri yako ikundike.
Iye zvino tichakurukura kukakavadzana kwose mumhuri uye tinoedza kubudisa mhuri zvikonzero zvekukakavara, kuitira kuchengetedza hupenyu hwemhuri.
Kune vakaroorana vanofara vanogara vachida kuratidzira mumwe kune mumwe kuti mumwe wavo haana kururama uye kwete seane njere sezvaanoda kuonekwa. Uye kazhinji mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro mudzimai kana mudzimai anoratidza kururamisira kwavo, asi vanorasikirwa nerunyararo mumhuri.
Uyezve kune vanhu vanogona kuratidza kune vose kuti ivo ndivo vakanakisisa, uye vamwe vose havambomira neminwe yavo duku. Iyi maitiro nenzira imwechete muhukama hwemhuri inotungamirira kune chinhu. Mukuwedzera kune ivo pachavo, panewo vanhu vakakomberedza avo vanocherechedza izvi uye zvinogona kukanganisa hukama hwemurume nemudzimai wake. Mumwe wawakaroorana naye kana mudzimai wehutsika urwu asina kuzviona, anoparadza upenyu hwemhuri yavo. Munhu haafaniri kufunga nezvake chete, asi pamusoro pevanhu vakamupoteredza.
Ini ndichakuudza nezveumwe wevamwe shamwari dzangu dzisingamboteereri mazano kune ani zvake, asi anoda kuvapa kunze nekufara kukuru. Iyi maitiro, kana zviri nyore kutaura nezvazvo, kusava noungwaru uye kungoita chisingaiti, izvo zvinogona kukonzera kukakavara mumhuri.
Mhombwe yemhosva yavo
Nenzira imwechete mumwe murume akachenjera zvikuru akati zano rinofanira kupiwa kune vanhu chete apo munhu pachake pachake akukumbira pamusoro pazvo. Asi kazhinji nguva dzose vanhu havana kutarisa mutemo uyu uye havana kungozviteerera. Vanhu vazhinji vanofarira kupa mazano havakwanisi kunzwisisa muupenyu hwavo uye saka edza kudzidzisa munhu wose mararamiro uye maitiro ekuzvibata mune izvi kana kuti mamiriro ezvinhu.
Pakati peviri, zvinowanzoitikawo kuti maitiro akadaro anoitika kana vachiedza kuurayana kana mumwe wevakaroorana. Uyezve pakati pevakaroorana vanotanga kurambana kwemhuri. Pano mazano evanofunga nezvepfungwa, nekuda kwekukurukurirana kune mumwe nemumwe, zviri nani kusavhiringidza mutauriri uye usambopedza kutaura kwake pakutaurirana newe kana mumwe munhu.
Kazhinji vakadzi vanofarira kuisa masentimita mashanu pavanenge vachitaura, kana varume vachitaura. Asi varume havadi kuonana nomumwe munhu, kunyanya mukadzi, nokuti panguva iyoyo anongopedza pfungwa yake uye haasi kumurega achiunza hurukuro yake kusvika kumugumo. Uye ndicho chikonzero kukakavadzana kunovapo pakati pevakaroorana. Yeuka vakadzi vakanaka, varume vanofarira kuunza mazwi avo ose kumagumo. Kana iwe uchida kuratidza maonero ako, zviri nani kuita izvi mushure mokutaura kwavo kana kutaura zvekare pamusoro peizvi nemurume wako.
Icho chikamu chikuru mumhuri chinofanira kunge chiri pachena. Kana iye asipo pahupenyu hwemhuri yako, iwe uchagara uine zvipingana kune umwe neumwe uye godo rinogona kuonekwa zvakare, negodo sezvamunoziva, kune chero chinhu chakanaka chisina kutungamira. Usambofa uchingoseka hafu yako yechipiri. Mushure mezvose, havasi vose vanogona kunzwisisa izvi uye vanozvitora sejoko. Uye hazvigone kuti mumwe wako angada kuva chinhu chinosekwa, zvinogona kukuvadza zvikuru, edza kuremekedza manzwiro evamwe.
Usambofa wakatora mutoro kubva kune mumwe munhu kune mumwe. Uye usagara uchiyeuchidza munhu wehumwe husiri hupenyu hwehupenyu hwakambove hwakamboitika muupenyu hwemhuri yako. Iwe unogona kukonzera maitiro akadaro mumunhu ane utsinye uye udyire.
Waiziva here kuti shoko rechisimba, kubva muchiLatini, rinoshandurwa sechirwere. Uye zvechokwadi munhu ane utsinye anotanga kurwisa munhu wose pasina chikonzero. Kune vanhu vakadaro, kurwiswa kwomunhu kunosvika nzira yehupenyu hwemhuri, uyewo mararamire. Kazhinji vanhu vakadaro vanonzi barrel of gunfire, vanokurumidza kuita chibvumirano uye kukakavadzana kwavari, idzi dzinogara dziri shamwari dzehupenyu. Nevanhu vakadaro, zvichange zvakaoma kwazvo kuti iwe usadzikama nharo mumhuri.
Nzira yekuponesa mhuri uye kudzivisa kukakavara mumhuri? Chokutanga, edza kutaura newawakaroorana naye pachena uye nokutendeseka. Edza kuyeuka kuti wakambove wakanaka pamwe chete uye kuti wakanzwisisa sei zvakakwana. Edza, kuratidza kungwara uye zvichida kukakavadzana kwako kwose nokusanzwisisana kuchakupfuura.
Kunewo vanhu vakawanda vane udyire vanoisa pfungwa dzavo pachavo. Vanhu vakadaro nguva dzose vanoedza kuita zvinhu zvose ivo pachavo uye havagoni kunzwisisa kuti nei pasina munhu anovanzwisisa. Uye zvakare zvakare kune mhirizhonga inogara mumhuri, iyo inotungamirira hukama hwemhuri kurambana.
Kana mudiwa wako ari munhu ane utsinye, edza kusaita nharo naye uye usapupurire chero chinhu kwaari. Chero iwe unoda kuyananidza nomunhu akadaro uye kupfurikidza nemafungiro ake akaipa, kana kukakavhirana muhukama hwako huchazombopera.
Tinotarisira kuti mushure memazano edu, munoziva kuti munogona kudzivisa kukakavara mumhuri uye muchakwanisa kuchengetedza hupenyu hwemhuri yenyu. Kushivirira kukuru uye kushivirira chete!