Nzira yekuita sei nehasha uye isingafadzi rudeness?

Kunyengera kuri pachena uye kusina kupfeka, nei kuchiza uye kunofisa kufanana nayo? Nzira yekuita sei kumeso asina kunaka uye asina kunaka mukufamba kwako? Uyu mubvunzo unonyengera. Uye zvakajeka kuti pasina kuchinja muhutano hwehupfumi iyi "inonakidza" inenge isingazoperi. Asi "chii chaunofanira kuita kana vanhu vachindizvidza mumasikati masikati" ibvunzo rekrete uye rinogadziriswa zvachose.

Izvozvo zvakadaro!

Zvinoshamisa kuti pamubvunzo wakabvunzwa: "Uye ungapindura sei kune utsinye uye husina kunaka?" Kuwanda kwazvo kwakapindura ... "Dzoka!" Ndezvipi kuguma kwezviitiko zvakadaro, zvakare, chokwadi, fungidzira. Kwete, kana uchida kubuda kwenguva yakareba, asi pasina, ichi chinhu chimwe chete. Asi kana iwe uri wevanhu vasinganzwisisiki nekugadzirisa mvura nemadhaka, zvino munyaya ino kurwisana nedambudziko iri pamusoro pemusoro "unopesana nesaga pasina kugamuchirwa, kana pasina chimwe chezvigunwe" hazvina maturo. Chokutanga, chikwata chinotanga kutanga nekushingaira kudya kubva kumota wako. Uye rwechipiri, iwe uchava nemanzwiro anonyadzisa kuti iwe ungakwevedzwa kupinda mune zvisingafadzi squabble. Ngatiedzei kuwana dzimwe nzira dzinobatsira mukurwisana nekunyengera, zvichienderana nechinzvimbo chechiito ichi.

Zvakanaka uye obstanovochka

Rudeness nhamba 1 - iyo inonzi tramway. Inokura mumakona ekukanganiswa kwevanhu vazhinji: kutakura kwekutakura, kufamba kwemigwagwa, mabhizinesi ... Sei? Hungu, nokuti mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, nzvimbo yakajeka yehubudiriro, yakakura pamashizha emamwe zviuru zvinosuruvarisa zvemakore zviuru, nhunzi. Uye hutema hwakatsetseka hwemhuka hunotanga kuwanikwa, iyo isina mamiriyoni maviri atozadzika. Pakarepo kuputika: zalayat, kuratidza meno - kunyorera chikamu chendima. Uye kubva pano kurwisana kweimwe nzvimbo pasi pezuva kunonyengera (mushure maminitsi makumi maviri ekupedzisira kwekumira, uye zvose zvichange zvichienda nokusingaperi), hazvina maturo kuzvidzivirira kumunhu kuguma kukunda. Zvinonakidza kuti vamwe vanhu vanoita sei kune utsinye uye husina kunaka, kunyanya kudziviswa uye kugadzikana kupfuura iwe.

Method

Uine hafu yekutsvaga kuti uzvibatanidze - kuparadza miviri yako. Shut up - zvino unetseka kuti hauna kupa chirevo kune troglodyte. Kunyanya kuipa - ipapo nguva refu yekufunga kuti ungaridza sei. Mhedziso? Pakutanga, kunyarara kwokuzvikudza. Anoshungurudza anokunda, uye iwe, uchichiona sechiratidziro chebhishopu yezvido, uri kufunga nezvekupindura. Kare usati waparadzana, iwe unodzikama uye unoderedza pfungwa yako kuratidza pfungwa yako. Uye enda kunze, unofara nekukunda kwako tsika.

Rudeness nhamba 2 - "kupfira pasi". Kubva kune vashandi vechinhu chakakosha, vakuru vakuru, mapurisa, varindi vemasvingo ... Ichi ndicho chiitiko chekare chekubhadhara nekuda kwekunyengera kwavo kwechokwadi-kuburikidza nekunyadziswa kwevamwe.

Muhuduku hwangu ndakarohwa. Vakandinyengedza kuchikoro. Mudzimai haagutsi. Uye zvose izvozvo. Method. Chinhu chikuru - usawana. Kuti maonero ose aya anonyadzisa uye tudedi ane utsinye anotaurirwa kwauri. Ichi chisikwa chinoita nenzira iyi nevanhu vose. Izvi ndizvo zvinetso zvake zvepfungwa. Uye achiziva kuti mifananidzo yacho "yakanga iri pasi muhuduku", uye inofambidzana nayo - inoshanda. Mupfungwa yokuti hazvina basa kuti iwe unofunga nezvayo, zvakakosha-kuti urege kuitora uye uwane. Vaya vaunozivana navo vanoita sei kune unhu husina kunaka uye husingafadzi, somuenzaniso? Kune vamwe, pane kunyatsoteterera kunobata uye kwakashata: "O, izvi chete iwe unogona kusarudza!" Vamwe vavo vari kushaya bluffing pamusoro pesimba renyu, kubatana muhurukuro uye hurumende. Inzwa kuti chii icho chiri kushaya simba kwake.

Kudzora # 3 - chimiro chebasa. Kune boka revakuru avo vanomanikidzwa kune vashandi, kunyengera uye kunyange kusvibisa - nzvimbo yemhuka. Method. Iwe une mukana wekutarisana neizvi? Nenguva isipi zvivimbise kuti izvi ndezvenguva pfupi. Kuti hausi kuzova naye kusvikira wapedza basa, asi uzviwanire nzvimbo yakanyanyisa. Panguva ino, ita chigadziro chepfungwa, chishongo chinofungidzira: "Regai zvizviwande, semamiriro ekutanga, semvura inowanikwa kune vagari vemazuva ose." Kana iwe wakagumburwa uye uchitukwa nemwoyo wose, pakarepo unzvigadzire nenzira yakati - kana kuti kunyanya kuzviita. Iwe une dictaphone iri mudeski yako, uye pane zvapupu zvitatu zviri pedo: unoda chero matambudziko here? Hama haisi yekufanirwa kudanidzira, asi iwe unofanira kumuratidza kuti haunamati pamberi pake. Mushure mezvose, iwe wakaona kuti yaiva mhuka yake yakashanduka. Uye mhuka zvakanaka inonzwa kutya-kana, zvakare, simba.