Kubatsira uye kusagadzikana kwemuchato wevatenzi

Ndeapi maonero akasiyana pamusoro pevakaroorana vomuchato. Uye munhu wese anoziva maitiro avo uye kukanganisa kwomuchato wevatenzi. Kune mumwe munhu, izvi ndezvoudyire, vanoti ivo vanotya hukama hwakakomba, kuti chikonzero chacho chiri chido chekuita zvepabonde nyore nyore.

Uye mumwe munhu anotenda kuti iyi ndiyo mukana wekuita basa, rega zvinetso zvezuva nezuva, usatya kutya kurasikirwa nebonde. Mune shoko, kune umwe neumwe wake. Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa zvose zvinobatsira uye zvisingabatsiri zvemuchato wevatenzi.

Saka chii chaizvoizvo, chikwata chevakaroorana? Apo murume nemudzimai vanodanana uye vachida kuva pamwe chete, vanopinda muwanano hwepamutemo, dzimwe nguva vanongotanga kugara pamwe chete, mukuroorana kwevanhu. Asi iyo vanopedza hupenyu hwavo pamwechete ndeyekusarudzwa kwegaviri kwevadzidzi vaviri. Uye izvi zvinogona kuchinja nzvimbo yekugara, uye kushanda, uye kunyange utano.

Mumwe weshamwari dzangu anogara muSt. Petersburg, makore mashoma apfuura akaroora Finn. MuRussia, anomhanya kambani duku, ane hutano hwemazuva akawanda, shamwari dzese, imba yake, mwanasikana mukuru. Chii chaaifanira kuita muFinland? Iko "basa" revatengesi, pamwe chete nemudzimai weimba, haasi kumukwezva. Mukadzi anoshingaira uyo akarasikirwa nehupenyu hwehukama hwake haazopinduri kuva grey mouse yakaneta nematambudziko emhuri, kurega kufadza kunyange kune iye oga. Muchato wevashanyi ndiyo ndiyo nzira yakakwana yevabereki ava. Vhiki mune imwe nyika. Ane mukana wekuzvirumbidza nemudzimai ane chivimbo, uye anodikanwa uye anodiwa, uye hapana dambudziko redzimba rinowedzera ukama hwavo. Uye, pasinei nezera (nekuti zvose izvi zvinenge zvisati zviri zvekutanga), hukama hwavo hwepabonde hungagodora vamwe vakaroorana vaduku.

Izvi zvinoitika kuti vakaroorana vanogona kupedza nguva yezororo pamwe chete kana kwevhiki. Munguva yedu yeupenzi, apo Indaneti inobvumira kwete kungoziva chete, asi kunyange kutovhiringidzwa nechokure, zvakanakire zvewanano yakadaro zviri pachena. Vanhu vazhinji havakwanise kusiya upenyu hwavo mumabasa kana muupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Asi nguva nenguva, munhu wose anogona kuchinja mararamiro ehupenyu.

Uye chii chiri chikwata chevaeni, sekutaura, vakadzi vakuru? Pakati pevakadzi vemazana, vazhinji vari vasina kuroorwa: chirikadzi, kurambana, basa ... Mukadzi wacho atoitika, vana vakakura, vanogara vari voga, asi vanovhura ukama hwavo, uye vanoita zvepabonde. Panguva imwecheteyo, vanogona kuwana ruzhinji rwemitiro, mamwe mitemo yehupenyu. Uye kana munhu ane hanya naye akapinda muhupenyu huno, kukakavadzana kunozoitika. Kunze kwekuti iwe uchinje tsika dzako, zvakanaka, kana wake ... Dambudziko chete ndeyokuti panguva ino hakuna munhu anoda kuchinja. Uye mukombe wakasviba anosiya pedyo nekombiyuta, uye masokisi pasi pemubhedha, uye tubhu ine bundu haisati yavhara. Uye mazuva mashomanana pavhiki, anonakidza uye ane rudo! Mukuwedzera, zvinetso zviduku zvakadai semarara zvinogona kana pombi yezvino yava nenguva yekudzidza kugadzirisa ivo pachavo.

Murume ari mumuchato wevatenzi anowana mukana wekudiwa, kuti anzwe shungu dzechikadzi uye rudo, uye asi kwete kurasikirwa rusununguko rwakakwana. Iwe unogona kusvuta mukati mekicheni, kwete pabhokisi, tarisa mhirizhonga dzemarudzi ose manheru, uye kwete nyaya dzinotyisa, uye iwe unogona kuita zvepabonde nekuchiva pamwe, uye kwete pakukumbira komudzimai wako.

Icho chiri chichiri chinhu chinokosha. Kuparadzira kukanganisa kwemuchato kunobatana nezvinetso zve "vanababa nevana." Vana, sezvamunoziva, panguva ipi zvayo inowanzova negodo zvikuru nevabereki vavo. Mumamiriro embairo yevakaroorana, vana vanouya kuvabereki vavo panguva yakakodzera yevanhu vose, uye hapana ngozi yekusangana nemunhu wako.

Upenyu hwemazuva ano hunotipa maitiro akasiyana-siyana ehukama. Uye iwe unogona kusarudza nzira chete yekukurukurirana inokodzera iwe. Uye ipapo hupenyu hwako huchapenyera nekupenya, mavara anoshamisa!