Iwe unowedzera kusarudza kurara mukubvumirana nebhuku, uye murume wese anonetseka kuti aende kure nebhokisi rekutamba kuti akutsvake iwe usiku ... Chii chinoda kuchinjwa muukama kuitira kuti mudikanwi arege kukwidzwa mubhedha?
Yeuka zvose
Zvakaitika hazvirevi chete zvinyorwa zvekutsvaga, asiwo mari yekuchengetedza yakajeka, iyo iwe neyekunoda iwe usina kuramba zvakare.
Zvichida, mumucheka wehomwe yako kune imwechete "inonakidza" yekushongedza, umo iwe wakashandura musoro wako iye zvino kumunhu anotevera. Kana iwe nemurume wako mune rwiyo rwunoda, rwawakatamba musi. Kazhinji, edza kuita chimwe chinhu chinogona kubatsira mudiwa wako kuti anzwe mumamiriro emisangano yako yekutanga zvakare.
Kuita kuti manheru ezvakakanganwa kubudirire, shandisa maitiro aya anotevera, achikubvumira kuti uite nenzira yakarurama: kumbira murume wake kuti atarise mifananidzo yakare kana mavhidhiyo emuchato kuti aite muupenyu zviitiko zvinofadza; Edza kuyeuka pamwe chete zvawakaita pazuva iroro (kana mwedzi mwedzi) makore mashanu akapfuura; taura nezvemashoko akangwara akaitika kwauri.
Mumutauro wekuda
Kufanana nekudya panguva yekudya, chido chinowanzoberekwa panguva yepabonde. Kazhinji kuratidza chiito chekuita zvekunakidzwa pabonde nekuda kwevarume nevakadzi, unovandudza ukama hwapedyo uye uvakumbire rwiyo rutsva. Nokuita murume wake "zvisarudzo zvisina kunaka" kanoverengeka pazuva, kana kungoita kuti munhu akukwekwe, iwe unonyengedza zvisingabatsiri uye anokukurudzira kuti uite. Heano nzira shomanana dzokuratidza chido chako.
Kukurudzirwa kwepfungwa, maitiro, simba uye simba hwemurume wake.
Anogunzva kazhinji, kutsvoda uye kukumbundira. Vamwe varume vanofadzwa nekucherechedza kwemadzimai avo, kuratidzwa nevanhu.
Shandisa mutauro unokosha wekutaura kuda uye kufara kubva pabonde kune varume nevakadzi. Mumwe nomumwe ane zvayo, uye dzimwe nguva chokwadi chekushandisa mamwe mazwi chinokurudzira kufunga.
Kuvandudza hukama hwepabonde, dzimwe nguva zvakakwana kungochinja nguva yehukama hwepedyo. Itai kuti ive mangwanani-ngwanani kana masikati pazuva raenda. Uyezve kuita zvepabonde kuchaguma kureva tsika inowanzoitwa, kuita basa rekurara mapiritsi.
Approach vector
Ndiani akati mukadzi mutsvuku ndiye mukadzi ane tarisiro inotarisa mumatokisi madema? Zvichida murume wako anokuwana unonyengera kana iwe uchitamba mabhiriyoni. Kana zvichida inotanga mushure memubatanidzwa wekubatana kana konsti. Edza kuvaka pane zvinodiwa uye zvinodhaka zvevarume, kunyange kana vachiita sewe iwe usingadi zvekuda.
Zvechokwadi muhupenyu hwako kanopfuura kamwe pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo iwe nechikonzero chero chipi zvacho wakaramba kumurume wake "kukwanisa" kumuviri. Chengetedza zvakanyanya kune zviitiko izvo zvakabatanidzwa nekusawirirana pamusoro penzira dzokushandisa nguva isina nguva. Bvumirana, pakupedzisira, kuenda nemurume pane hove kana kutarisa unhu hwake hunofarira. Hazvibviri kuti chiratidzo chako chikuru chichaenda chisingaoneki. Iwe zvechokwadi uchapiwa mubayiro pakarepo iwe ukaramba uine mudiwa wako oga.
Kugutsikana mune zvepabonde kunowanzobatanidzwa nenzira iyo munodanana. Mushure mezvose, kune vakaroorana vakawanda vasingakwanisi kugutsikana nokuti havadikanane, asi pane chimwe chikonzero vanorarama pamwechete uye kunyange vanorera vana vavo.
Kugutsikana mune zvepabonde kunowanzoenderana nehupenyu hwevechidiki pamwe chete. Mushure mezvose, muupenyu mune mamiriro akasiyana-siyana haasi kungosimudzira zvepabonde chete, asiwo haafaniri kutarisirwa kubva kune vakaroorana.