Kudzidzisa varume kana nzira dzekudzidzira vanhu

Murume nemukadzi mapiri maviri akasiyana zvachose nenyika, ane simba rakasiyana uye kunzwisisa kwepasi. Zvisinei, kufambidzana nemunhu - muvhimi wekusingaperi wekutambira, iwe unoda kuziva nzira dzinoverengeka dzinobatsira dziine zvaanoda zvinenge zvichitsvaga mudzimu wepakutanga mumugwagwa une rugare uye pedyo newe. Aya maitiro ainzi maitiro ekudzidzisa kana "kusunganidzwa kwevasina simba".

Ndezvipi zvakakosha kuti utange kubudirira kwekudzidziswa?

Kuti tishandise nzira dzokudzidzira kumurume, zvakakosha kudzidza zuva rega roga kunyange zviduku zvikuru zvinoitika nekuchinja kwavo, kusanganisira hurongwa hwake hwenheyo. Inonyanya kuisa pasi pekusimudzirwa kwevarume kusvika pamakore makumi matatu, uye mushure memakore makumi matatu--kupa, asi zvakanyanya kuoma mukuona maitiro akatosimbiswa maitiro nemaitiro. Uyewo, simba remukadzi remukadzi pane rinomirira zvakanyanya pamhando yake, kureva kuti, zvakakosha kufunga nezvehumwe humwe hwemhando dzemhando dzehutano dziripo mumurume (sanguine, phlegmatic, melancholic, choleric). Mushure mezvose, sezvatinoziva, muhupenyu hwakachena hwemarudzi evanhu vashoma kwazvo, inowanzovhenganiswa. Uyewo mukutarisana kwemunhu kunofanira kutungamirirwa nemafungiro ehuwandu mune zvose. Chikanganiso chikuru chevakadzi pachikwata chekutanga chekudzidziswa ndechekutarisa murume ari munzvimbo yacho uye kutonga kwakanyanya pamusoro pake ("kutambanudza leash"), iyo inotungamirira kusanzwisisikidzi kwehutano hwemukadzi nemunhu. Kuti kusimbise chikwata chekutanga chekudzidziswa, zvakakosha kutungamirirwa nekwakadzika kwevakadzi kujekesa kwemitemo yekudzidziswa nekuteerera kwavo.

Mitemo yebasa racho

Usati watanga kudzidzisa "ward", dzidza kudzora uye kuenzanisa zviito zvako kutanga. Iva nechokwadi chekuti interstices inosangana nemweya uye rudo uye shure kweizvozvo iwe unogona kupfuurira pakuumbwa kwemitemo yekudzidziswa:

1. ita matanho ekutanga ekudzidziswa nenzira isina unobtrusive;
2. Tsika yako "pet" kutanga nevadzidzisi vashoma, uye vozoenda kune zvakanyanya uye zvakaoma;
3. Usazotanga kusimbisa unyanzvi hutsva mumakungwa, kusvika iwe uchisimbisa chigumisiro chemashoko maviri apfuura;
4. kuiswa kwemaitiro matsva kunofanira kuitwa pakutanga kwekuzivana kwako mangwanani, apo murume anoteerera zvakakwana, uye asinganeta nebasa rezuva nezuva;
5. Nguva yekudzidzira inowedzera zvishoma nezvishoma;
6. mudzidzisi anofanira kugara achifungisisa zvose zviri kunze uye mukati;
7. zvinotsanangura zvakajeka zvaunoda kuzadzika pakupedzisira. Zvikurire iwe unyanzvi, kwete nzira.

Zvikanganiso vperedirovke:

1. kushayikwa kwezvinhu zvakagadzirirwa uye ruzivo pamusoro pechinhu chokudzidziswa, nzira yaro yehupenyu;
2. unhu husina huripo hune chokuita nemurume panguva yekuraira;
3. kuzvininipisa, kunyara uye kusazvibata kune pedo ne "kuedza";
4. kuvhiringidzika kwekudzidziswa, kunyanya caress uye kunyorova kwemurume.

Kuongorora nzira kana kuswedera kune chinangwa

Munhu wose anoziva kuti munhu anoona nyika ino nenzira yake pachake, kuburikidza nemafungiro ake pachavo. Nezvekusiyana kwechiratidzo chevakapoteredza, varume vakakamurwa kuva mapoka matatu: zviratidzo, zvinonzwika uye kinesthetics. Zviratidzo zvakafanana nezvose zvinopenya, kukanda muziso - kuumba kwako kwakadzika, mukati mekutaura mumba. Vateereri vanofarira kuteerera mimhanzi uye kutaura pamusoro pavo ivo vadiwa. Uye kinestetikam kufanana nemafuta emweya yako yakaisvonaka uye mazamu madzimai. Uyezve kune imwe mhando yemurume yakabatwa, kurarama neicho chiri chakaoma zvikuru, asi zvinogoneka nechishuwo chako.

Varume-matoro maererano nemaitiro avo akaparadzana mu:

• zvakasimba-zvechisimba - izvo zvakananga, zvinyengeri, zvechisimba, asi zvinokurumidza kufamba mumugwagwa webasa;
• kusvibiswa - vanoda kugara vachizvichenjerera ivo pachavo, musatora majee pamusoro pavo, vanonyanyisa;
• chakavanzwa - ivo vanoramba vasina kugutsikana nechimwe chinhu, kunyange vakanyatsoteerera zvinhu zviduku (rangarirai shoko renyu rose);
• kushungurudza - vanoda zvakanyanya-zvakakwana muzvinhu zvose, kusvikira pane zvinyorwa zve ruble rimwe rawakapedza. Kuti urwe nekurwisana nekuenzana muhutungamiri hwebhajheti, usamuratidze mari yose, rega zvinhu zvioneke mumba nechishuwo chakanaka chehama kana shamwari;
• spender - zvakakwana zvakasiyana nemashure. Ivo vanofara, zviri nyore kuzviratidza ivo pachavo muzvinhu zvose, uku kujekesa kunoratidzwa maererano nemari. Iyi maitiro inokonzerwa nehurombo hwakanyanya hukuru hwe "chiitiko" chako, kana kuti chiratidzo chekurerwa zvakanyanya mumhuri umo zvinhu zvose zvinogona kutengwa nguva dzose;
• maitiro - vanoita nyika yako pachako kubudirira kwako pachako, nerudzi urwu rwakanakisisa kuti uwane hukama, zvisinei iwe unogona kuparadza upenyu hwako. Pane izvi, kazhinji kubuda gigolo, freeloaders, avo, vachishandisa unyanzvi hwavo hwakanaka uye vanopinda, vanodhakwa nevanasikana nevadzimai vemusoro. Dzinomhanya kubva pamhando iyi yekusava nehanya, iyo yakafanana nemakunguons;
• vakadzi 'uye vakadzi' vanodikanwa - ivo pachavo vanopatsanurwa kuita zvikamu zvina:
• Don Juan Romantik-ivo vanokohwa nechakavanzika uye chisingawaniki chevakadzi, kana iwe unyanzvi kushandisa chiratidzo ichi, iye zvino ari murwere wako;
• kuzvidzora-donzhuany kazhinji vanotya vakadzi uye kuvapa mhosva yekusatenda nekuda kwezvakavakwa zvavo zvakagadzirirwa muhucheche kana kuratidzirwa kwevakadzi vasingazivikanwi, vanoda varwere uye vanogara vachikwirirana kuti vawedzere kukosha kwavo uye zvido zvavo;
• Dandees dzepabonde dzinoda rusununguko, dzinowanzoita kuchinja kwevamwe vakaroorana, asi kana iwe uine mwoyo murefu uye unogona kuvhara maziso ake kune zvaanoita, iye achakoshesa kuti iwe hauna kupesana nekufambisa kwake kusununguka kuburikidza noupenyu;
• Vakadzi vaPlato vanogara vachizvipa nekuparadzirwa kwekuramba kwekumbikidzwa kune kuruboshwe uye kurudyi, asi ivo chete-vanokanganisa munhu wavo, ane chokuita nezviratidzwa zve syumor uye kunzwisisa.

Haisi chakavanzika chokuti hormone huru yemurume ishesteronone, iyo inoberekwa zvakanaka apo nyama inotorwa, saka mazwi okuti "nzira kumurume ari mudumbu" haisati yanyadziswa, saka ita! Zvichengetedze, usazvitsvaga kuzviona iwe pachako. Zvisinei, kana munhu asingadi kuchinja kuti ave nani, anorara pamubhedha zuva rose, achichinja maTV, uye akamirira iwe, pamapfudzi ako asina kusimba, kutakura mhuri dzose zvinotakurwa mutoro mukuchengetedza mhuri, hazvisi zvekuda kuratidza kuti ndiani ari muridzi weimba. Kunyange zvakadaro, kana iwe usingadi kubika, kushambidza uye kuchenesa uye rimwe basa rekumba, unogona nehana yakajeka kukwevera mutoro wezvinhu zvemhuri, uye chipfuwo chako chinoita kuti agadzirire kutonhora kwemusha, kunyaradza uye utsanana.

Uyewo, usakanganwa kuti munhu munhu ari kuchinja maonero ake uye zvaanoda zvichienderana nezera rake. Semuenzaniso, pazera remakore gumi neshanu nemasere iye ane rudo rukuru, nezera remakore makumi maviri nemashanu munhu anova anodikanwa ane rudo, pamakore makumi matatu nematatu iye ari akakomba, akaenzana uye ari kure kune upenzi hwepabonde hwake hwekare, uye pamakore makumi mana nemashanu - anoda kuchengeta nzeve dzake dzikavhurika! Mukutsvaga vechidiki vanopfuura, kazhinji nhengo dzemhuri dzinomhanyira kumutumbi muduku, kuedza kuchinja uye kuparadza dambudziko. Zvisinei, kana iwe usingagari kunze kunze chete, asi zvakare mukati mutsva, katsi rako rakacheneswa harifaniri kuenda kune dambudziko, rinorara pamakumbo ako.