6 mhando dzevarume vane ukama hwakanaka kudzivirirwa


Mukadzi mumwe nomumwe ari oga, mumwe nomumwe munhu. Asi pane chimwe chinhu chinobatanidza zvepabonde zvose zvakanaka, ndezvekuwana "mutungamiri wako". Inongova munyaya yenyaya yekuti Ivan-Tsarevich akatumira uta pazera rakanaka, akatsvoda frog, uye akanga ari nekuda kwemufaro wehupenyu. Vakadzi, kunyanya muhupenyu chaihwo, havasi nguva dzose vane ruvengo. Panguva yekutsvaga kwavo, vanosangana nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana, uye havanzwisisi nguva dzose nemunhu waunogona kuramba achikurukura, uye kubva kwaari zviri nani kugara kure. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzeAmerica dzakauya kuzobatsira vakadzi vakanaka, avo kutsvakurudza kwakaguma pakuzivikanwa kwemarudzi evanhu avo ukama hwavo hunofanira kudziviswa.

Rudzi rwekutanga rwevarume vasingadi kuparadza nguva yavo vachiedza kupinda muukama hwakakomberedzana navo ndeyemunhu-ane rudo, kana anodikanwa nevasingabatsiri kuratidzira flirting. Vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba vanobatwa nyore nyore. Nehupenyu hwavo pachavo uye kukwanisa kufadza vakadzi, vanogona nyore kuwana vakadzi kugamuchira mutambi waidiwa. Kugumburwa pamusoro peizvi, zvakakosha kuyeuka chimwe chinhu chauninaye, zvinangwa zvakasiyana. Mukadzi akagadzirira kumupa makore akanakisisa ehupenyu, kumugadzirira neimba inofadza, kubereka vana vake, kugara naye kwenguva yakareba, achifara kwenguva yose yemazuva ake, murume wacho anongoda chete kutarisa mukadzi, kuti afungidzire naye nenyaya ye "isu." Dzorera kubhadharira kumwechete, kumuka zuva rimwe nerimwe shure kweumwe husiku hworudo, iwe uchamirira mubhedha wekhofev, asi uwane chete kunyarara uye kusagadzikana muimba yako.

Rudzi rwechipiri rwevarume, rusingakodzeri dudziro yechinda nebhasi rakasvibirira, ndevanyengeri vanoita basa. Pakutanga, hukama hunoita sehunovimbisa. Mushure mezvose, murume webhizimisi ari kushanda kune vazhinji vamiririri vehutano hwakanaka panguva imwe chete anobudirira uye akapfuma asi huri mberi hukama huri kuuya, zvakajeka ndezvokuti munhu uyu chete anoda kungoshanda chete, nokuda kwake, achabvisa zviri nyore musangano nemukadzi, kukanganwa nezvekuzvarwa kwake uye zuva rekuyeuka zuva rekuzivana . Varume vakadaro vakakodzera sechinhu chokutarisa, asi hazvina kukodzera kumira kwavari kusvikira pakuguma kwehupenyu, ivo havangakoshi.

Zvakakwana kwete zvakagadzirirwa hupenyu hwemhuri varume vanoita zvepabonde. Murume uyu anoda unyanzvi hwekuzvidzivirira, munhu wezvokudya zvinovaka muviri uye mudzidzisi, personalshopper uye cosmetologist, uyezve zvimwe zvose. Ndeupi mukadzi wechidiki angada kudai kana ari iye aneye uyo ane hanya nemufananidzo wake, ganda, vhudzi, sa zhelevnostno saiye pachake? Pakupedzisira, ane shamwari dzakakwana, uyo waachakurukura nezvitsva zvitsva zvekuchenesa uye zviratidzo zvemazuva ano.

Uyewo, hazvina musoro kuti tive neukama hwakasimba nevarume vanofananidza, avo mumukadzi wese vanoona Amai. Izvi zviitiko, kunyanya kukwezva kukwanisa kwavo kupedza nguva yakawanda ivo pachavo. Asi iwe haugoni kuzara nekuvaraidza. Upenyu huri pamwe chete, zvinosuruvarisa, hazvirevi zvekuvaraidza chete, dzimwe nguva pane mamiriro ezvinhu anoda vanhu vakuru uye vanoziva mataramiro, ayo kubva kuvanhu vakadaro, vanongomirira. Pashure pezvose, kugadzirisa zvinetso iye ane amai, zakatoru nguva dzose iwe unogona kuvanza.

Kunyange zvakadaro, kwete nzira yakanakisisa, kana iwe uine murume anotsoropodza. Kwaari, zvinhu zvose zvinogara zvisiri izvo, iye akagadzirira kutaura chokwadi nguva dzose uye kune vose, asingafungi kuti zvakanaka here kuteerera kune vamwe, uye kana vachida, mupfungwa, maonero ake. Anokwanisa pane vanhu vanotsoropodza chitarisiko chemai vake, kana panguva iyo mufirimu iyo inotaura zvikuru kuti haifariri mweya wake. Dambudziko nderokuti munhu akadaro haaiti kana asingafungi kuti mazwi ake haangoiti zvinokuvadza mukadzi wake, asi zvinomunyadzisa iye.

Mukuwedzera kune zvose zvataurwa pamusoro apa, ndinoda kuratidza chimwe chimiro chevarume, kuumba ukama hune hukama hunokosha huchave huchaoma. Uyu munhu "mweya wekambani." Anofadza zvikuru uye anofambidzana, anofara nguva dzose uye nguva dzose ari munzvimbo. Dambudziko guru revarume ava nderokuti ivo vanosarudza kushandisa nguva yavo yekufungisisa uye kushamwaridzana kwete kumba nevana vavo, asi pane imwe shamwari pakati-shamwari, uye zvichida kune girazi rebiya.

Pedyo nemunhu akadaro, mudzimai, kakawanda kupfuura kwete, anoita vashandi veRicquackie mumba make, uye iye achafanirwa kudya uye kushumira shamwari dzake dzakatendeka, uyo achakushanyirai zuva nezuva.