Hatigoni kugara tichiswedera kumwana pamba yake yekutanga. Chii chandinofanira kuita? Mhinduro yacho iri pachena - iwe unofanirwa kuidzidzira kuzvimiririra, kwete kwete kumitambo bedzi, asiwo kune-self-service uye kumba.
PAMUSORO WOKUTANGA
Ichokwadi chokuti vana havadi kuva vega zvakasikwa zvachose. Nekuberekwa kwemwanakomana munyika yedu, semhuri chero ipi zvayo ine maitiro emwana wokutanga, mufaro nemafungiro zvakawedzerwa. Apo murume wangu akanga achishanda, ndaifanira kugeza uye kushambidza mbatya, uye kubika kudya, uye ndaida kuzorora, asi mwanakomana wangu akakumbira kutarisa miniti yose.
Ndakabudisa mwana mubhedha pakati pekamuri, ndikazarura mikova yose uye ndaita mabasa epamba, dzimwe nguva ndichidanidzira kubva muimba yekugezera uye kunze kwekicheni tsanangudzo yezvandiri kuita iye zvino uye pandichadzoka. Hazvina kunyatsonzwisisika kuti mwanakomana akanzwisisa zvinorehwa nemashoko acho, asi akatarisa kufamba kwangu kumativi eimba, akanzwa inzwi rangu rakadzikama ndokubvuma kumirira kwechinguva chiduku.
Apo mwana wacho asingatungamiri oga, mumwe anogona kuedza kuitora nekateyi yakajeka. Asi zvakadaro, pane chikumbiro chokutanga chemucheche kuti adzokere kuchikoro, ipapo kusasipo kwako hakuchazovi pamwe chete nekutinhira-mwana achaziva: Amai vachauya nokukurumidza paanodana. Apo mwanasikana wedu ainge ari oga, mwanakomana wacho aingofara, nokuti panguva iyoyo hanzvadzi duku yakanga ichiedza kupedza piramidhi, kugogodza zvirongo, uye izvi ndizvo, uye zvakadaro, mitambo. Asi vana vane makore maviri uye vane mwedzi mitanhatu vakange vari, zvechokwadi, zvakaoma kutaurirana, zvakarezve rubatsiro rwaamai rwakanga rwuchidikanwa. Mhinduro yacho yakawanikwa: Ini ndakavasima mukicheni pedyo nekatebhendi, kubva kwandakatanga kutora zvinhu zvinopfura uye nyama inorema. Munhu wese aifara: pikicha yemitambo yekutamba yakanga yakawanda, uye ndaigona kudzora mamiriro acho ezvinhu nguva nenguva.
Apo mwana anotanga kutamba, inguva yokuti amai vafambe zvakasununguka. Muimba yekugara, amai vanogona kubvumira mwana kuburutsa michesi kubva kune sofa, kusvika kumagazini akajeka, mukicheni - kutamba, somuenzaniso, nemiti yemiti yekicheni. Kudzidzira kwakadaro zvakanaka kwazvo kukudziridza unyanzvi hwakanaka hwemotokari, uye kwose kwese amai vachabata mwana wavo, pasina kupopotera kubika kwemanheru kana kushambidza pasi.
VEDU VEDU
Munenge gore, vana vanotanga nemufaro mukuru kuita mabasa aamai akareruka - kutakura rag muimba yacho, kuunza mukombe kubva patafura, nezvimwewo. Ndinoda kuyeuka pakutanga kuona bhaal, asi chokwadi chokwadi chinokosha: basa rinoitwa kubva kumunhu monkey. Saka - vana vechikoro kuti vashande! Izvi ndezvedu, vanhu vakuru uye dzimwe nguva vaneta chaizvo, basa rechikoro harisi kufara kwazvo, asi kumwana zvose zvinhu zvitsva, saka usapotsa mukana wekumufadza iye nebhizimisi idzva uye panguva imwe chete kuti ubatsirwe hukama. Chokutanga, vana vanogona kuzvishambidza, kuvhuta meno avo nekupukuta chiso chavo nemirasi yavo, uye chechipiri, vanogona kushanda patafura: vauye kana tsvina dzakachena, mahwendefa, zviputi, uye chechitatu - vabatsire amai vanobika zvokudya: kushumira mafuta, mitsara yemunyu, shuga, zviyo, zvechina - kuvhara chifukidzo chako (mushure mekudzidzisa zvishomanana zvinhu zvose zvichabuda!) uye kuunganidza mitsipa, apo amai vanoputira bhandi muimba yerineni yefafa. Uye vana vanofara kugamuchira vaenzi-vana panguva apo amai vangu vanonwa teyi mukicheni nevabereki vake. Zvechokwadi, mumwe nomumwe wedu anogona kugadzirisa urongwa urwu pamusana pekuziva kwedu. Zvinonzwisisika, zviri nyore kudyisa mwana pachake kana kumusima pane mvura pane kumupa mudiwa wake kubva pane zvishoma kuzvimiririra, ndokubva ashamba mubhagi kubva pakudya zvakagadzirwa pamuviri kana kupfuura. Asi tenda ini, mwana wacho achakurumidza kuwana unyanzvi hwepakutanga, semarudzi akawanda emadzitateguru ake akawana.
DZIDZA NOKUDZIDZA
Kuzvidzivirira kwomwana wacho, zvechokwadi, mwana anoziva unyanzvi hwakasiyana uye nzira dzekubatana nezvinhu zvakapoteredza. Sezvo wanyatsoziva unyanzvi uye nzira idzi, mwana achakwanisa kuzvishandisa iyechete kana mune zvishoma zvigadziriswa - saka taura vana vepfungwa dzepfungwa uye vadzidzisi. Uye tinodzidzisa vana kuti vakwekwe, kufamba uye kumhanyira, asi vanofanira kudzidza uye kungozvimirira-shandisa poto, kuputira pasi nehombodo, kana iwe uchanyura, uwane hekecheche uye usule mhino dzako, nezvimwe. Zvidzidzo izvi mwana anodzidza zviri nani nekukurumidza kana kuti vauye navo mumutambo unotamba. Somuenzaniso, iwe unodzidzisa mwana kuti adye oga - kuwana kapu mumuromo mako. Gara pedyo nedhora iro riri nyore kuchenesa, uye rega mwana akaedza uye "ape" iyo. Nokukurumidza iwe uchaona kuti ikozvino mwana wako waunoda ari kuedza kuzvidyisa nemapuni kumativi ose: baba, hama, shamwari uye teddy bears. "Kudya" kwakadaro kunongogadzirisa unyanzvi hwomwana, asiwo hunoita kuti aite mabasa akawanda zvakasiyana.
Kuchengetedza mwana kubva pakunyanyisa uye kuora mwoyo, Amai vanofanira kuva nenguva yekuchinja basa rake kwaari. Uye pano kusikirwa kuchabatsira - chimwe chezvinhu zvinokosha zvikuru zvebasa remwana. Iwe unogona kutora munwe paupfu hwakapararira patafura, kana iwe unogona kupora pepepa. Iwe unokwanisa kukora mapepa ane mavara uye akajeka, anokudzidzisa iwe kushandisa girasi. Iwe unogona kuwana bhokisi rePlasineine uye ugadzirire mushandi wechidiki wemabasa ekufananidza. Ini nemaune handitauri majeko uye glue pano, nokuti tinotaura nezvemashure nemitambo pasina kubatana kwaamai vangu. Makirasi anonakidza ari mashoma, ivo, zvechokwadi, kaviri seinofadza pamwe chete naamai vangu, asi kana aripo kweminiti, iyi miniti haifaniri kupfuura pasina.
Mhuri yedu, chinhu chinonyanya kufarira chiri kutora pepa guru reNeman. Ndinorodza mapenzura, kuisa chinamatoti pasi, saka tinosarudza musoro wekutora, somuenzaniso, Africa, uye ini ndinotora mapeji akawanda eAfrica. Vana vane chido chikuru vanotora mashoko (mapiramidi, nzizi, magwenga). Kutamba mumhuka dzeAfrica kana muDkt Aybolit pane kadhi yakagadzirwa nemunhu, varume vacho vanofarira zvikuru kupfuura pane akatengwa, kunyanya sezvo munhu anogona kugara achikwevera zvinhu zvisipo. Paunopa mwana izvi kana kuti basa racho, usakanganwa kufunga nezvehuwandu hwekufambisa kwayo uye, kunyanya, kugadzirira kwemabasa ekuzvimiririra: kana mwana achangotanga kufamba, nguva yake yose inobatwa neunyanzvi hutsva, mamwe mimwe mitambo nemabasa zvinogona kuenda kumashure. Mwana mukuru anofanira kuyeuchidzwa kuti basa repi uye mabasa zvinomumirira masikati, kuitira kuti adzidze kuronga nguva yake yekusununguka - iyo inokosha uye yakamirira kwenguva refu ichava nguva yemitambo yakasununguka. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha - mwana anofanira kunzwisisa kuti kana achiita chimwe chinhu pachake, anotobatsira vabereki uye zvinokosha kwavari. Zvakanaka, dai asina kungoita bhizimisi rake rose zvinyararire zuva rose uye haana kupindira naamai vake, asi akazorora pasi, akashambidza ndiro, akauya nemutambo mutsva wehanzvadzi duku, saka ari munhu akanaka chete!