Panguva imwecheteyo, imba yacho ine yakanakisa kugadziriswa, zvigadzirwa zvemazuva ano, zvigadzirwa zvemavara. Uye hazvina kunyatsojeka kuti sei, nenguva yakadai yenguva yakawanda, baba vemhuri vanogona kuwana zvose izvi. Muzvokwadi, vanaamai vazhinji vanoteerera rwiyo rwakaisvonaka runonakidza zuva nezuva: Sawa, mudiwa! Nhasi ndanonoka. Basa iri ... Kwete, zvakanyanya! "Zvakanaka, zvakare," unogomera. Zvinoshora kushambidza mumwe mwana. Zvinonyadzisa kupisa mukati me microwave kudya, iyo yakanga yakanyanya kushushikana kushumira yakagadzirirwa. Chii chingaita kana murume ari kushanda nguva dzose, izvi zvinorevei?
Ndinogona kufara kushumira
Kunyanya kubatikana nemurume wako murume wako, zvakanyanya kufanana nezvinoitika mumusika wemazuva ano. Uye chokwadi ndechekuti kuitira kuti kambani ive yashandise chero ipi zvayo kumabhizimisi ayo, kuitira kuti irege kuputsika uye inoramba ichipa mabasa, inofanira kuchengetedza zvishoma zvakakodzera zvevashandi vanoita zvakanyanya basa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vanenge vese vashandi vanofanira kushanda "nokuda kwake uye kumurume iyeye." Kunyange zvakadaro, ndinofanira-shoko racho harina kukodzera "Munhu wose ane sarudzo." Pane imwe nzira kunyange kana icky inobva mangwanani uye kugara mumugwagwa usina hupenyu, asi hazvigone kuti acharonga murume wako newe. "Kushungurudzika kunosuruvarisa: mushandi asina kukwana anenge ava kuda kuitika." Kana munhu akakwirira achikwira kumhizha yepamusoro, zvinowanzoita kuti agare nguva pfupi kubasa. Elika mukuru Napoleon akati make kuti akanga "chete musoja umambo wokutanga." Chii chandingareva pamusoro pemudzidzisi ane mwero? Nguva yemberi yekambani inobva pane basa rake, uye iye pachake, saka haafaniri kumira pamakumbo ake, asi zvakakosha kushanda kubva mangwanani kusvika usiku.
Chii chandingakurudzira vanaamai vaduku vane varume vanoita basa?
• Usashungurudza mumwe wako nemakoshe asina kukodzera. Zvichida, iye pachake angave achifara kupa basa nguva shoma nekuedza. Asi neimwe nzira hazvibviri. Gamuchira izvi sezviripo.
• Zvisinei, pane dzimwe nguva kusvetwa kwekusagadzikana kwemudzimai kunogona kushanda sekukurudzira kwekuvandudza. Zvechokwadi, murume wako haazosimuka ndokusiya bhodhi revatungamiri mushure mekunge SMS yako yakatsamwa pamusoro pekudya kwechando. Asi pane zvinoenderana naye, achaedza kuti asagara kwenguva refu.
• Yeuka kuti "mufaro unofamba apo unoenda nemufaro kushanda mangwanani, uye manheru iwe unodzokera kumba uchifara." Uye chikamu chechipiri chemufaro uyu chinowirirana newe.Tanai nemurume wenyu nemashoko pamusoro pezvinobudirira zvevana, kudya kwakanaka uye kutsvoda kutsvoda.
• Tora nguva yekutaura. Iva nehanya nemabasa ehurume wemurume wake, uye umuchengetedze nezvenyaya dzemhuri.
A tenzi chaiye wezvose
Chinhu chiduku chakasiyana - apo baba vomumhuri vane bhizinesi. Kune rumwe rutivi, iye ndiye tenzi wake. Kune rumwe rutivi, iyi inonzi maawa makumi maviri nemasere uye nguva isingatariswi purogiramu yemabasa. Kana dzimwe nguva achiuya mangwanani kuti atore mwana wake kana mwanasikana kubva kuchikoro chechikoro, asi mushure mevhiki mashomanana iye achapererwa pabasa kunyange pamagumo evhiki. Mhandara ane godo: murume - bhizimisi. Uye anoenda kugungwa, nemotokari itsva, uye chiremba wevana vanobhadhara - izvi zvose zviitiko zvebasa rakaoma raBaba. Asi iwe haugoni kuona baba vako. Iwe haurangariri nguva yekupedzisira yawakashanyira mhuri yako. Zvose zvinokumbirwa zvinodzokororwa zvakare nekuda kwebasa romurume wako. Hongu kune vashanyi, kana iwe uchingorasikirwa kwazvo! Uye mwana wacho anoona baba chete pamusana pekufambisa foni yako ... Zvingaita here kuti nenzira imwe neimwe ichinje mamiriro aya kuti ave nani?
• Zvichida iwe unobvumirana kurarama nemari shoma, dai murume wangu chete achishanyira kumba kakawanda. Zvisinei, bhizinesi haigoni kuitwa nguva dzose mumiganhu isina kukwana, pasina kuwedzera kana kuwedzera. Vanokwikwidza vanouya uye vari kuda kubvisa mugove wako wemusika. Muchiitiko ichi, mhinduro yakanakisisa ndeyokuita mhuri yebhizimisi yemhuri-yakanaka. Saka iwe uchava nemamwe mapepa ekutaurirana. Iva mubatsiri uye shamwari yehondo kumurume wako.
• Panguva imwe chete, taura nemurume wako kana achinyatsoda nzira itsva, iyo iye zvino ari kushingaira. Pamwe, chimwe chinhu chinogona kuchengetedzwa zvakachengeteka. Tendesa murume wako kuti iwe wakagadzirira kuita kunze kwemugadziri wemba uye usina chipfeko chitsva chokutsvaira, kunonoka nekuvakwa kweimba yezhizha kana kutengwa kwemotokari itsva (kana ichokwadi chaizvo). Mumwe wako anofanira kunge achinyatsoziva kuti iwe nevana vako munomuda, pasinei nenhamba yezvikwereti uye makadhi echikwereti muhomwe yake.
Chinenge chiri chido chekuita
Uye zvakadini nemurume ane murume wake akarasikirwa kubasa asina rubatsiro kumhuri? Kutanga, funga chii chinomusunungura? Zvichida iyi inyanzvi. Zvinosuruvarisa, vanhu vemabasa akawanda anokosha uye anobatsira dzimwe nguva vanowana zvishomanana. Ivai vanozvikudza pamusoro pake. Mukuwedzera, masayendisiti anobva kuYunivhesiti yePennsylvania munguva pfupi yapfuura akatsanidza nhema yokuti vaskaholics vadzivisi vakaipa. Simba ravo rinosvika pamucheto! Kana iwe uchida kuchinja mamiriro ekunyama mumhuri, kuedza kwako kuchadiwa.
• Tsvaga murume muhutano hwake.
• Tsvaka basa rakanaka iwe pachako. Kana zvisina kunaka ikozvino, zvekare mune ramangwana.
• Kuita kunyunyuta kumurume wake pamusoro pemari yake yakaderera, tora kuzvitsvaga iwe pachako. Mazuva ano pane vakadzi vakawanda vanobudirira, asi munovabata here?