Somugumisiro, nzvimbo yekutambirwa kwevanhu, vane chinangwa chaive chirevo chekuti "Tsvaga Nyika Yenyu Yose", inowedzera kuva yechokwadi mumakore 2-3 ekuvapo kweboka revanokanganisa zvakasiyana zvakasiyana uye zvepabonde maniacs. Kunyanya kunyanya, kambani yevanhu vakajairika, zvishoma zvichisimudzirwa neboka re "vafambi" mune zvepabonde. Asi kakawanda sei paInternet ungawana rudo rwako?
Zvinonakidza, zvisinei, kutsvakurudza kwevanhu veRussia vezvemagariro evanhu vanoti vanhu vanowanzowira mumusungo, izvo zvinoratidzwa muchikamu "Chinangwa chekuzivana" kwete "kukurukurirana," asi "nokuda kwehukama hwakakomba." Ichi ichokwadi, zvinonzwisisika.
Zvisinei, kana pfungwa yekuwana mukomana akakwana uye akakura, saka zvose hazvina kunaka. Iye zvino haasi munhu wose anoziva kuti nhamba huru yevamwe vanogona kukwikwidzana pamasangano. mamanzura ari kutsvaga mavambo emusana kune vavanodzidza navo uye vaunodzidza navo, kushandiswa kana zvifananidzo kubva kuBurzhunet, zvishoma nezvishoma zvavo, zvakagadzirirwa kune zvakakodzera nehurongwa, iyo yakagamuchira zita rezita rokuti "Photojazz".
Zvakanakira kuti maonero evanhu vanoona hafu yavo yechipiri kuburikidza neWebhu vanoti "kuwana" kwakawanikwa pamapurojekiti akafanana ne "Odnoklassniki", kupfuura pane imwe nzvimbo dzekufambisa nzvimbo. Muchiitiko ichi, mapoka eavo vanoda ku "flirtation" uye "zvepabonde pasina zvisungo" zvinobva zvava kurongeka kwemadiki maduku.
Illusions
Ngatiteererei kuti vanyori vepfungwa vanofunga pamusoro, asi izvo zvisinganyanyi zvitsveneswa nevatenzi vemishonga yakadaro uye yavo ilk. Chimiro chedu ndechekuti ine "tsika" yekuzadza nhengo dzisingazivikanwi dze interlocutor uye inogona "hafu" nemafungiro pamusoro pezvakanaka. Chizhinji chezvose, izvi zvinokanganisa nguva yeKK pamasangano evanhu.
Kuziva paIndaneti yeRussia nemurume wechidiki asina mufananidzo wepamusoro-soro pane peji yemibvunzo yake, iwe unotanga kufunga kuti kusvibiswa uku kunosvika pakuve kwakanaka kwekunaka. Kuona chinyorwa chakanaka chine mufananidzo wekuona uye achitaura naye kuburikidza nekutaura, iwe unofungidzira kuti arikutaurirana naVaPavaroti, uye pamusangano chete zvinogona kuitika kuti inzwi rakabudiswa ne "rakanaka" riri kure nezwi rekupedzisira Lucho.
Mumutauro weChirungu. Zvinopfuura zviviri kubva muzvitatu zvevatungamiriri vehurumende dzeBritish zvakanyoreswa.
Kunyangwe mushure mokunge maona zvikamu zvose "zvisina kufanira" zvemari, hauzokwanisi "kuona" munhu sezvaachazoita. Zvisinei, hakuna munhu anofunga pamusoro peizvi nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero, achitarisira nomwoyo wose kuti kwechishanu (makumi maviri, makumi maviri, ...) nguva, murume uyu achava izvo zvisinganzwisisiki zvinomupa kwauri.
Imwe pfungwa iyo inofanira kuiswa mukutarisa painoita purogiramu yemusikana akanaka uye achiedza kumuwana iye akakodzera mumibvunzo yevamiririri vehafu yakasiyana yepabonde. Muchikamu chinoti "Chinangwa chekuzivana" zvinenge zviri nani kusataura "zveukama hwakakomba" -kuti munda uyu hauzove usina chinhu, kuitira kuti usasatise "vabati vehove". Saizvozvowo, haufaniri kungotsvaga chete pamibvunzo, mairi "ayo akatendeseka uye akatendeseka" akacherechedza kuti vakagadzirira pano, kune dzimwe nyika kana kumasangano edu evanhu "kuva nevana" uye "kuroora."
Gedhi kune imwe nyika yakasiyana
Kurudyi paInternet, hukama hwakakomba inhema, hutariro hweChrisfield pachayo ichakwanisa kushuva. Ichi chichava mhinduro kumubvunzo wekuti sei paIndaneti unogona kuwana rudo rwako. Iwe haugoni kuita zvakakomba manzwiro ega, asi usingatarisi kumusoro kubva kune yako yaunoda "iron" uye usingave nekukurukurirana zvakananga. Zvisinei, vanhu vanodavira chirevo ichi zvakanyanya zvakasimba nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero pane, somuenzaniso, mumanomano evanhu vanonyanya kufungidzira.
Kana uverenga ndima yapfuura, vazhinji vanozoti zvisina kufanira: "The delirium yakazara. Hapana munhu ane hutano achabvuma izvi. " Zvakanaka, ngatipei muenzaniso wemakore matatu apfuura. Kuenzanisa, mupfungwa dzakanaka, kumire pamabasa muhumi hwakanaka uye kuva nemukurumbira wakanaka nevavakidzani vake uye vanozivana naye, anogara kuMissouri, Drew Laurie akatungamirira nenzira imwe pamibvunzo ye MySpace.
Zvingaita sekuti zvinhu zvose zviri nyore. Chero mubvunzo wemibvunzo mu "nzvimbo yangu" yakatsanangurwa kwete mai vemusikana wechidiki, asi jaya. Chinhu chacho ndechokuti mavhiki mashomanana zvisati zvaitika, mwanasikana wake akanga arwisana nomuvakidzani wake Megan Meyer neshamwari dzake. "Kuchengetedza amai" vachishandisa rubatsiro rwemibvunzo yakatsiviwa nenzira yakanaka uye nechisimba: kutamba masvondo mashoma neMeyer panzvimbo ye "online macho", akanyora kwaari kuti "zviri nani kuparadzanisa", kuwedzera shoko neshoko: "Nyika ichava nani pasina iwe." Mushure mokuverenga iyi mharidzo uye kufunga, musikana wacho akazvisungirira muimba yake yekurara. Imwe huru "tin" yenyaya yacho ndeyokuti Supreme Court reLos Angeles haigoni kuwana nyaya iyo Drew aigona kuiswa mujeri. Yakava "unyengeri" kwenguva pfupi.
Nenzira, chiitiko ichi chete ndicho chikonzero chekusagutsikana kwemaAmerican soc. mitambo. Pakati pevasingagutsikani, kwete vanhuwo zvavo chete. Saka, muUnited States yatotanga sangano "rekuchengetedzwa kweInternet." Inotungamirirwa naMarari Hancock. Achitaura nezvesangano rekugara kwevanhu, akataura kuti izvi zvekupedzisira zvizere nezvengozi dzakawanda uye vana vaduku havagone kuwana Twitter, Facebook, MySpace uye mamwe mabasa.