Mitemo yedenderedzwa.
Iwe haukwanise kunzwisisa kuti nei ini, ini musikana ane mutsa uye anotapira, handigoni kuwana mutauro wakafanana neshamwari dzangu dzekakomana? Uye kazhinji, vanoti, sei ndinofanira "kukodzera" nomumwe munhu uye "kuwana mutauro mumwe chete" nomumwe munhu?
Kutanga, zvakakosha kuti uwedzere kufambidzana kwehukama hwako. Maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, nekuda kwepabonde rakasimba, nzvimbo yekukurukurirana kwake yakakosha zvikuru: iripo iyo iye anozviziva semunhu uye anogamuchira kusimbiswa kwekuzviremekedza kwake uye chimiro chake. Uye kunyange rudo rwako rwose harukwanise kubhadhara hukama hwe "hutano" neshamwari dzepedyo kuti hausi pedyo nemweya.
Chechipiri, kugadzirisa uye kutarisa nzira dzekuwana "mutauro unowanzoonekwa", uri kwauri. Yeuka kuti chero denderedzwa inosimba mupfungwa kupfuura chero munhu wese. Nenzira, munhu akazvimirira oga, zvakaoma zvikuru, nokuti mukati mechikwata chekare chakatangwa ipapo chava nemutungamiri uyo anongwarira pamusoro pevatsva vane charisma. Zvakakosha kuti pakutsvaga mutauro wakafanana, iwe haurasikirwi pfungwa dzako dzinokosha.
Nguva yakaoma zvikuru kuti uwane kunzwisisa ndeyekutanga kwevhiki mbiri kusvika kutatu yekukurukurirana. Munguva iyi, vanhu vatsva vaunoziva intuitively rally uye vane maitiro ekuzvidzivirira-kumirira, uye iwe unowanzotonga zvinhu zvese nemumwechete "Handigoni." Zvakakosha mumazuva ano ekutanga kuti tisaparadza ukama hunosimbiswa nehasha uye zvinyorwa zvemashoko. Chinhu chiduku chisingafadzi kana kuseka kunogona kukuvadza mukurumbira wako, uye kusanzwisiswa kwaunotaura ndiko kupedza kukakavara.
Vatorwa pakati pavo.
Kuvaka hurongwa hwekukurukurirana zvinobudirira (iwe hausati wabudirira ushamwari hwakanaka, hwakanaka?) Neshamwari dzomukomana - iyo nzira dzimwe nguva yakareba uye inopedza nguva. Ndokusaka zvakakosha kutanga bhizinesi rinovhiringidza chete kana kukurudzirwa kwakanyanya. Tariro yekuroorana, somuenzaniso.
Yeuka kuti mumutambo wega wega mitemo yako uye ruzivo navo zvichakubatsira pakuwana mutauro wakafanana.
"Mari nemabasa zvinosarudza zvose."
Ava shamwari, sekutonga, vane simba, vanofunga nezvekukura kwebasa uye hutano hwakanaka. Iwe hauna zvakawanda zvakafanana navo, kunze kwake, iye oga.
Sei uchimirira? Mune mabhizimisi, kusununguka, kuvimba, kuzvidzora uye kukwanisa kudzivirira mafungiro evanhu vanokoshesa. Nzira yekukurukurirana neshamwari dzakadai dzomunhu waunoda nguva dzose inogutsa uye yakaoma.
Nzira yekuzvibata sei? Vanhu ava vanotonga zvakakurumidza uye havadi kuidzorera. Saka, zviri nani kuti uvazivise kuti iwe uchava mu "munhu wese" anorwisana, haufaniri kuviga shure kweaunoda uye usasangana navo. Nguva dzose taura zvakajeka mafungiro ako uye uvabvumire nemvumo. Uye zvinogoneka kuti mune ramangwana rakapera iwe uchakwanisa kuwana "kiyi pamwoyo yavo".
Nguva yekuti "Stop!". Kana iwe ukasunungurwa pachena nechekufambidzana neshamwari dzako, usatya kutya kurwisana uye kuratidza wako "I". Mushure maizvozvi, iwe zvechokwadi uchava umwe!
"Zvizvarwa zvevahedheni."
Rumwe rudzi rushoma rwevamwe shamwari, asi ruchiripo. Idzi shamwari, sekutonga, dzakanaka, dzinozvikudza, dzakadzidziswa uye dzakanaka. Pamusana wekukoka kwakanaka kuti uve nekapu yeii inouya muzadziro yakazara, uye nenzira yakarurama yekuzvibata patafura inofanirwa kuitisa mberi.
Sei uchimirira? Vanhu ava vanoremerwa kwazvo nenhema uye "vasina" tsika. Pamberi pacho, vanoisa kutendeseka uye hutsika mukuzvibata uye hukama.
Nzira yekuzvibata sei? Kunyadziswa, kukwanisa kuchengetedza kukurukurirana kwemagariro evanhu, ruzivo, ruudition - nehuhu huno huchawana kukunda uye kutsvaga kwakarurama kwemazwi akafanana mukukurukurirana. Nenzira, usapfuurira kure nehutano uye usazorora pamberi penguva: kwauri iwe ivo vachabva vakatariswa zvikuru uye nokuda kwechikanganiso chikuru "ivo vachabviswa kubva pakurongwa rwevamwe shamwari".
Nguva yekuti "Stop!". Pane imwe nguva iyo fomu ichazotanga kukunda pamusoro pezvakagadzirwa (mumutambo wakadaro haisi isiri). Kana iwe uchitanga kuchikoro, tsanangura kune shamwari dzekakomana rako kuti iwe hauna kugadzirira kubasa.
"Kubwinya kwemasimba".
Ivo vakakwidziridzwa zvikuru, vanhu vepakutanga uye vasingazivikanwi. Kukurukurirana kwavo kusingagumi nguva dzose pamusoro pezvavakaita (mutsva, mifananidzo, ndima). Vane nyanzvi dzorudzi rwavo uye kazhinji kashoma vanogona kuzarura.
Sei uchimirira? Muchikwata chakadaro iyo tsika yekushandura "shamwari" nokukurumidza. Ndicho chikonzero iwe, zvichida, uchagamuchirwa kunyunyuta, asi wakapararira. Asi, uye kana iwe usingagoni kunzwisisa, somuenzaniso, "mimhanzi yemashoko," uye haunotarisire tsitsi. Uye ikozvino uye ikozvino iwe uchanzwa hasha dzose pavari. Vanhu vakagadzirira vakanaka kwazvo pane chipo chekutaura zvose zvavanofunga "muziso," kwete kunyara nemashoko.
Nzira yekuzvibata sei? Kuti uwane neshamwari dzako dzaidiwa kunzwisisa, varatidze kwavari, shamwari yepedyo yeshamwari yavo uye akagadzirira kusungirira pamwe chete navo pamusangano wavo wokusika. Yeuka kuti munharaunda iyi vanokoshesa munhu akajeka uye chido chekusika. Matura pano haashande zvachose, asi kwete-template pfungwa dzinonyatsokosheswa. Ratidza chido chako chokunaka, kunyange iwe uri kure neunyanzvi. Uye uchapupu hweizvi ndechokuti mukomana wako ndiye munhu anokudzwa munharaunda iyi.
Nguva yekuti "Stop!". Pawakacherechedza kuti mamiriro ehupenyu wewakasarudzwa ari kuedza kumanikidzira kwaari pfungwa yokuti kwauri "chiedza hachina kuuya pamwe chete nemari". Munhu wese anoziva kuti vanhu vakasika vari mukutsvaga nguva dzose, asi ichi hachisi chiratidzo chokuparadza ukama hwako.
"Scientific elite".
Chengetedza, munhu wese munyika anoziva uye anopa mazano mune zvose.
Sei uchimirira? Hazvifananidzi neshamwari idzi dzinodiwa, kuti dzivazive nezvirongwa zvavo zvose, zvisinei iwe uchanzwa uchinge wakatsoropodzwa. Chinhu chikuru pamusoro pavo chichaita kuti iwe uzive mune izvi kana kuti iyo.
Nzira yekuzvibata sei? Pasinei nechikonzero chavo, vanhu ava vanovimba zvikuru uye vanovhura. Mauri ivo vanoda kuona interlocutor akadzikama uye akajeka uyo achati: "Ndinogona kukunzwisisa!".
Nguva yekuti "Stop!". Apo iwe unoona kuti iwe uri "mupfungwa" wakaodzwa uye unoratidza kuti haufaniri kutaura navo.
Ndiko kushamwaridzana kwepedyo neshamwari dzeshamwari yako inoita sekuti, iwe unofanirwa kupona uye kupinda mukati maro, uchiratidza kuti uri shamwari yavo zvaunoda!