Ndezvipi zvikonzero zvechokwadi zvekutya kwedu kusurukirwa uye kuti tingaurasa sei? Muzviitiko zvakawanda, kusurukirwa kunoonekwa nesu sekunzwa kusina kunaka, zvakare kunofungidzirwa kuti kana munhu ari oga, saka haana kufara. Asi zvinokwanisika here kuona hurumende iyi zvakasiyana? Dambudziko rekusurukirwa kwevakadzi muRussia ikozvino rakakosha. Tichazviverenga.
Pfungwa dzako
Saka, chii chiri kusurukirwa kubva pakufunga kwepfungwa? Kusurukirwa kunotsanangurwa sehupenyu hwemunhu-hwepfungwa uye hwepfungwa, hwakabatana nekusavapo kwehama, kana nekutya kurasikirwa kwavo, kana nekusava nehukama hwakanaka hwevanhu nemagumisiro evanhu nekuda kwekumanikidzana kwevanhu vari voga. Uye chii chinotevera kubva pane izvi? Uye chokwadi chokuti tinozvigadzirira kusurukirwa hachisi chinhu kunze kwehukama hwedu hwemukati, maonero atinoita isu nevamwe. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinosiyanisa marudzi maviri ekusurukirwa: zvakanaka-kuva oga uye kusagadzikana-kusarudzwa kwomunhu. Imwe nyanzvi inoparadzanisa kusurukirwa kuva pachena uye yakajeka. Muenzaniso wakajeka uye wakajeka wekusaridzika kusurukirwa ndeyeRobinson Crusoe, uyo akapedza makore makumi maviri nemakore 28 pachiwi chisingagari uye haana kutaura kune ani zvake. Zvakakodzera kuziva, ndaida kutaura, asi kwakanga kusina munhu. Kunyanya kakawanda munyika yedu chaiyo, kusurukirwa kuchiri kuzviratidza mumhando yakajeka, apo munhu ari kugara achikomberedzwa nevanhu, achitaurirana navo, asi anonzwa kumwe kuparadzana. Vanhu vari kumativi ose, kakawanda havakwanisi, haanzwi kudiwa navo uye anogona kurarama pasina kukurukura navo kweupenyu hwake hwose.
Pukunyuka kubva kuShadow
Kutaura zvazviri, kutya kwekusurukirwa kunonyanya kutya kutarisa mukati mako. Yeuka kuti kazhinji sei mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipa iwe unomhanyira foni, shandisa nhamba yekuchengetedza shamwari uye enda naye mu cafe kuti utaure, zvinokosha - usagara uri woga. Pakupedzisira, kuenda, kumisangano, kutaura, asi hazvive nyore kwauri, iwe unonzwa kuparadzaniswa kune mumwe munhu, iyo hurukuro haifariri iwe, kunyange iwe unotsigira hurukuro - kusurukirwa kwekusurukirwa kunofukidza musoro wako. Asi iwe unoenderera mberi: famba wakanonoka, saka enda kumafambidzani neshamwari, uko, kuzvikurira, kutaura, asi panguva imwechete iwe unonzwa zvakanyanya. Ndechipi chikonzero? Iwe unotiza kubva iwe pachako, uchiedza kuzadza kusakundikana uko kusiri zviitiko zvacho zvinonakidza nevanhu kune iwe, pane kutarisa kutendeseka chokwadi mumaziso ako. Hungu, chokwadi, une chikonzero chakanaka, asi iwe haugoni kupukunyuka kubva kwauri. Ndizvo zvakafanana nekumhanya kubva mumumvuri wako. Asi mumvuri ucharamba uchingobata iwe, uye zvakadaro pamusoro pekutsvaga. Uye panguva iyo iyo yakabuda iri pedyo zvikuru - zvinongova zvakakosha kuti udzike pasi, simira kuti uzorore kubva kune marathon yepenzi, sezvo mumvuri unobatana newe, uchava chikamu chako pachako. Ichi ndicho chikonzero chekusurukirwa. Usatiza kubva iwe pachako, gara pasi kwechipiri, kunyange muimba isina chinhu, unzwe kusurukirwa kwako pano uye ikozvino, unzwisise zvinokonzera marwadzo, edza izvi zvachose - uzarure manzwiro aya, rega mumoyo. Uye nekufamba kwenguva ichabatana newe, uye rega kuisa marwadzo nekunyangarika, kupera mune zvimwe, manzwiro anokosha, zvido uye zvakaitika. Nenzira, mweya yedu haityi kusurukirwa, kusiyana nemafungiro. Kwaari zvakanyanya kutyisa kuti arege kunzwa manzwiro echokwadi, kwete kuziva kuti nei achigara munyika ino. Ichi ndicho chinokonzera kuparadzwa kwose, neuroses nemamwe zvirwere zvepfungwa, kusavapo kwezvinoreva upenyu uye nzira yaro. Muhupenyu hwomunhu pano inofanira kuva nebhizimisi raanorarama naro, uye rinogona kunge rakasiyana: kubva pakugadzira mifananidzo yemafuta nekukanda muchinjikwa pakugadzira micheka yepamusoro pakati peguta guru, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti inokutora zvachose, inodzosera uye inokupa simba rekurarama. Uyezve rudo, ushamwari uye kubudirira zvichauya. Tenda, ita kuti ungamirira sei - zvose zvine nguva yako!
Kukura kwekusurukirwa
"Guta guru nderokusurukirwa kukuru," Victor Hugo akati apo Paris, iyo ndiyo tsika yemutambo wenyika, yakamedza. Akatarisa chinangwa chechinetso zvakare muzana remakore rake, uye nevasayendisiti vezana remakore rechi20 zvakaratidzwa kuti mumaguta makuru vanhu vanonyatsonzwa vakasurukirwa kupfuura mune mapurunhu. Uye zvikonzero zvakajeka - pano vanhu vari kutsvaka mari, ivo pachavo vanofara, basa, kubudirira vanongopedzisira vaona pasi rose. Vanhu vanorega kuvapo kune mumwe nemumwe, vanova mhedziso, uwandu hwaunogona kuenda kune imwe nhanho yemufaro wako pachako. Asi nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare munhu akadaro achafanirawo kumira kuti azorore, uye ipapo achawana kuti kumativi ose kusina maturo kwakagadzirwa. Mumaguta makuru, vanhu vari kuramba vachitaurirana nevanofunga nezvepfungwa. Kana hupenyu hwako huchifambisa mutungamiri wakaipa zvakadaro - usavhunduka, hazvina kumbobvira uchinonoka kuchinja. Chinhu chikuru - kuti ude kuchinja, uye ipapo nyika yakapoteredza, pasinei nokuti inonzwika sei, ichachinja. Uye hazvisi zvakaoma kuzviita. Sei? Mitemo iri nyore.
Manzwiro anosangana
"Wakaenda mangwanani, wageza - uye pakarepo ita kurongeka panyika yako," - saka anokurudzira Little Prince kuti aite mubhuku reEupery, murume muduku uyo ane mapeji 104 ebhuku haana kumbobvira ari oga. Sei? Nokuti danho rekutanga uye rinonyanya kukosha kuti usazombosurukirwa hausi kurasikirwa iwe pachako, kurangarira zvirongwa zvako uye zvido zvako, kuita zvaunoita, kuzvipira iwe nesimba rakanaka uye kugovera mafungiro akanaka nevamwe. Pashure pezvose, zvinhu zvose muupenyu hwedu zvinobva pane zvakanyanya, kunyanya manzwiro. Kana iwe uchinetseka norudo, nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare ichadururira pamusoro pemucheto, iwe uchanetseka kwazvo nawo, kuti iwe unoda kugovana nawo kune vamwe, uye rudzi rwekusurukirwa runogona kuvepo? Manzwiro, nenzira, inoshandurwa zviri nyore kubva kune mumwe munhu kune mumwe, naizvozvo zvakakwana kwauri kuti unyemwe, uye munhu akatarisana achayemwerera mukupindura. Ichokwadi chiri nyore: iwe unowedzera kupa nyika ino, iwe unowedzera kudzoka, mamiriro ezvinhu chete ndeokuti aite pasina rusununguko. Nditende, upenyu huno chinhu chinonakidza uye chinofadza kuti kusurukirwa hakungori nguva kana nzvimbo!