Nokuda kwekamuri duku ...
Mubvunzo wekugona kwekushanda pamwe chete kwevakaroorana ikozvino yakakosha. Nzvimbo dzakawanda dzemaInternet dzakazvipira kune dambudziko rebasa romudzimai nemurume wake mune imwe imba, sangano, hofisi, dhipatimendi, nzvimbo ...
Mafungiro akasiyana - vamwe vanoona mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro chete pluses uye vachida kutaura pamusoro pekubatsirana kushanda pabasa uye ukama hwakabatana kumba. Kune vamwe, kushanda pamwe chete kunokonzera kusuwa uye kunyange kurambana. Vamwewo, vanotarisana nemukana uyu, bvunza mibvunzo uye mufambiro mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro.Ndinofanira kutaura kuti munguva yeSoviet, basa rekubatana kwemurume nemudzimai mune rimwe sangano rakanzi rakabudirira kune vose vakaroorana. Asi iye zvino, pamwe nekuchinja kwehukama hwehupfumi uye kuchinja mupfungwa dzevanhu, basa romudzimai nemurume wake rinotaridzirwa, rinotongwa nemumwe wako zvisina kunaka. Zvinotendwa kuti murume wake kubasa anofanira kunge achingoita basa rake zvakananga uye asingatongorwi nemumwe wake.
Zvinokwanisika here kushanda nemurume wake?
Kune vechidiki, basa rekubatana kwevakaroorana pamwe chete hazvikonzeri matambudziko. Asi, mukushanda kwekuwedzerwa kwehupenyu hwehupenyu, zvose kumurume uye kumudzimai zvinokosha, zvinangwa zvinokosha zvinoshanduka. Nzira yehupenyu pachayo inenge yakasiyana - vamwe vari kukurumidza kukura, kumusoro uye pasi, asi vamwe vakagadzikana uye vakanyarara. Zvinofanira kuonekwa kuti kana tikashanda pamwe chete nemurume wake, nzvimbo yega yevakaroorana inoputsika, imwe neimwe inowana mukana wokupindira mune zvinodiwa uye makambani anoshanda. Zvose izvi zvinogona kukanganisa kupesana kwehupenyu hwemhuri kana kutotungamirira kumakakatanwa pakati pemurume nemudzimai.
Vanotsigira basa rekubatana vanowana mune izvi nzvimbo dzakakosha zvakawanda. Usamirira kusvikira murume wake kubasa apedzisa basa rake rose. Nzira yekushanda uye kumba iri nyore - unogona kufamba nemotokari imwe, kana nemugwagwa umwe mukufambisa kwevanhu. Zvose izvi zvinopiwa nekambani inofadza uye hapana kana mumwe wavo asingazovati uye haazononoki. Zvinogonawo kubvumirana nekushanda sarudzo nenzira yakadai kuti mazuva acho aende, kuve nemukana wekutora vana kubva kuchikoro chechikoro kana kuchikoro pamwe chete uye kuita mabasa akasiyana-siyana emhuri. Basa romudzimai nemurume pamwe chete muchivako kana chivakwa chinovabvumira kushandisa nguva yakawanda pamwe chete - nyaya yekukurukurirana munyaya ino ichawanikwa nguva dzose, pamwe chete kubatanidzwa muzviitiko zvemakambani, kubatsirana pakushanda nezvimwe zvakawanda.
Pamwe neizvi, tinogona kuona rutivi rwakashata. Semuenzaniso, basa rekubatana riri mumhirizhonga nguva dzose - vakaroorana vanotya kuratirana uye kuramba vachikwikwidzana pakati pavo. Zvisingabatsiri sediment mukati mazvo zvose zvinogona kubva uye hukama hwebasa-subordinate - mumwe anomanikidzirwa kutsoropodza mumwe nokuda kwekushanda zvakajeka. Nzvimbo yega yega nebasa romurume nemudzimai wake ichapera zvishoma nezvishoma, uye musoro unoshanda wekutaurirana unogona kunyangadza zvokuti kusanzwisisa kunotanga.
Mamiriro ezvinhu apo mumwe wevakaroorana ndiye mubati kune mumwe pane zvinonzwisisika. Saka, murume nomudzimai vanofarira mukugadzirwa kwekambani vanogona kuwana mutauro unowanikwa pabasa. Uyezve, munyaya iyi, zviri nyore kuchengeta nherera yevana, kugadzirisa zvinetso zvemhuri zvakaoma (somuenzaniso, pombi yakaputsika uye zvakakosha kumhanyira kumba, zvisinei kuti vavakidzani vacharamba vachifashamo) uye kunyange kuronga basa rakasarudzwa pamusha.
Asi kana iye akaroorana pabasa akakuvara? Kana bhosi ari mudzimai, uye murume anofanira kumuteerera? Uyezve, munyika yedu yekare yekare, kuzviisa kwomurume kumudzimai kunogona kuonekwa sekusekwa uye kunokonzera kuseka pakati pevamwe shamwari, uyewo mafungiro asina kunaka emukadzi pachake. Zvadaro zvinopisa zvinogona kutanga, izvo zvichaenderera mberi pese pabasa uye kumba. Saka pedyo nekurambana.