Zviratidzo zvekuita zvepabonde
Vanachiremba vanotenda, kana zvepabonde zvakatanga kutora hupenyu huzhinji hwomunhu, iye anorwara nehutano hwepabonde. Mifungo yake yose, hope, zvishuvo, mabhuku, mafirimu, kukurukurirana uye kwete chete ndeye zvepabonde. Kune vanhu vanovimba nezvepabonde, pamwe ne shopaholics kana kubhejera, manic-kusava nemafambiro uye nenzira imwechete yekufunga ndeyemhando. Kufarira kune vanhu vakakomberedza, kusingaverengi kunyange vatinonamata navo uye vadikanwa, kune vanhu vane zvekuita zvepabonde vanozviratidza bedzi kana vachimiririra sechinhu chepabonde kana zvakasiyana.
Kuita zvepabonde zvinokonzera zvepabonde, pamwe nezvimwe zvinodhakwa, zvinowanikwa nekuwedzera kusunungurwa kwehomoni yekufara uye mufaro, zvinoita kuti vanhu vakadaro vabate vanhu vakakomberedza cheekily, pangozi uye kazhinji kacho kunyange kutsauswa (zvakakosha kutaura kuti haasi munhu wese anobva pabonde-munhu anovimba naye zvepabonde ari muchikwata chepabonde maniacs kana kukanganisa). Kakawanda, kusagadzikana kwemafungiro avo anowanzoita zvechisimba zvepabonde kazhinji kunokonzera utsinye, kushushikana, kuchinja kamwe-kamwe mumanzwiro, izvo zvichiguma zvinotungamirira kune "kuputsa" kwakanyanya.
Masayendisiti akacherechedza mafambiro gumi nemaviri evanhu vane hutano hwekuita zvepabonde:
Anowanzoita bonhora (nenzira, krojistist andrologist-urologist Alexander Chumak anotenda kuti chiito chepabonde chekuita bonhora hachizobatsiri, asi nechido chakanyanya, chinokuvadza);
Ukama hwepabonde kunze kwekuroorana uye kusangana kwepabonde pasina kuverengwa;
Kusada pakusarudza shamwari dzepabonde, kazhinji "usiku humwe";
Kuramba uchiona uye kushandiswa kwezvinonyadzisira mitsva;
Zvepabonde pasina kushandiswa kwemakondomu nekumwe kubata pamuviri, pamwe nekuita zvepabonde nevatsva pamwe chete;
Fonikoni pabonde uye kushandisa nguva dzose maforamu pamusoro pepabonde mumagariro evanhu uye paInternet;
Kuenderera mberi kwekurapa muzvikoro zvekuendesa;
Exhibitionism;
Nguva dzose kutsvaga vatsva vatsva kuburikidza nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzekuita;
Voyeurism (kuongorora kune vamwe vanhu pabonde);
Kushungurudzika kugutsa zvido zvavo zvepabonde;
Chido chekutukwa nekuda kwepabonde uye chisimba.
Mikana yokuti munhu anorwara nehutano hwepabonde ndeyepamusoro kana mufambiro wake huenderana nezviratidzo zvina zvataurwa pamusoro apa.
Kuchengetedzwa kwekuita zvepabonde
Vakawanda vevanhu vanotambura nekutengesa zvepabonde vane chokwadi chekuti zvinhu zvose zvakanaka kwavari. Kunyengetedza kwomunhu kuti dambudziko ririko ndiro rinokosha uye nhanho yekutanga yekurapa kwakabudirira. Zvinosuruvarisa, muzviitiko zvakawanda hazvina izvo zvinoita kuti munhu ave nehupo hwechirwere ichi, sekutya-kubviswa kubva kubasa, kurasikirwa kwemhuri kana matambudziko makuru ehutano.
Kusvika iye zvino, kubvisa kurara kwepabonde, kune nzira dzakasiyana siyana uye mapurogiramu epfungwa. Kubudirira kwakanaka kunogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nekubatsirwa kweboka remapoka, zvinoshamisa apo pane mukana wekuita mushonga pamwe chete nevanhu vari pedyo nemurwere.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma zvikuru, anofambidzana nemufambiro wakaipa, chiremba anokwanisa kurapa kurapwa neine simba rinorwisa zvinodhaka. Zvisinei, zvakakosha kuona musiyano mukurapa kubva pamishonga yekushandisa zvinodhaka, ludomania, doro uye mhuka inokanganisa, nokuti kuitira kuti zvirape kugadzirisa zvepabonde, vanachiremba havaomani "zvakakwana" neukama hwepabonde, uye ino ndiyo nguva yakanaka kwazvo!