Muhuduku hwedu hatina kukoshesa kukosha pamagungano. Tinoratidza mugomba risina chigadziko cheuchenjeri, kuitira kuti tisasapedza usiku pamba, tinowana nyore nyore mukana wokuti tisiyane nomurume pakati peboka romufaro. Sei tichiri muhutano hwehupenyu hwepabonde tinonyatsoda imba isina chinhu kunze kwevana uye hama, bhedha huru mbiri, nezvimwewo?
Imba yehumba uye hukama hwehukama huri kuve musoro unowedzera kukurumidzira kukurukura kwechizvarwa chitsva.
Zvechokwadi, zvakanaka kuti urarame kure nehama. Asi kwete zvachose zvinosvika. Chii zvino: hapana dzimba - kwete zvepabonde? Nditendei, izvi hazvisi izvo. Kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri ndinoziva kuti imba yakasiyana haibvimbise mhuri mufaro uye zuva nezuva nekunyadzisa zvepabonde. Uyezve, iri mukutambudzika iyo manzwiro echokwadi anononoka. Itaiwo kufungidzira, kuwedzera kufarira kwevechidiki uye adventurism - uye hupenyu hwako hwepedyo huchapfeka nemamwe mavara asina kumboitika.
Zvepabonde mumhuri yevabereki
Mamiriro ezvinhu: kurarama pasi pedenga rimwe rezvizvarwa zvakasiyana-siyana hazvijairika munguva yedu. Zvikonzero zveumwe neumwe wavo: kushaya kwemari yekutenga / kubhadhara dzimba, chido chekuenda "kumhanyira" kwenguva yekugadzirisa, nezvimwewo. Zvinetso zvipi zvinogona kuitika mumamiriro ezvinhu aya? Mumwe murume akajairika ainyunyuta kuti paainge ari pasi pephipi revabereki vavo, mafaro avo evanhu vasina kukanganisa zvekare zvekare vakashandurwa kuva mufirimu wakare wakanyarara: pasina mheremhere uye mafambiro asina kufanira. Havasi vakawanda vanogona kudzikama, vachiziva kuti mumwe munhu ari shure kwemasvingo. Pakati pezvipingamupinyi ndekutya kubatwa panguva isingakanganwiki uye kudiwa kwekutonga mazwi ose uye kufamba.
Nzira yekubuda kwehutano hwehumba uye hukama hwehukama: sezvamunoziva, kuoma kwemamiriro acho kunoenzaniswa nemafungiro edu pamusoro payo. Saka, iwe unofanirwa kudonhedzera kuzvininipisa uye kutanga kutarisira nezvehupenyu hwemhuri yako, uye kwete nezvevamwe vanofunga. Kusakanganwa, zvechokwadi, mitemo yepakutanga yehutano.
Chokutanga pane zvose, funganya pamusoro pekuvhara, kana kuti pasuo regivha. Kana mune zvombo zvako zvekutengesa pane zvinhu izvo zvakakosha kuti zvisabatanidze ziso revabereki vanofungidzirwa, zviri nani zvakare kuvanza "pachinzvimbo chekutsvaga".
Vanhu vemumba havadi kuziva zvauri kuita mumba mako. Dhidzai mubhedha - tenga imwe itsva kana kuisa mateti pasi. Carpet yakasimba - uyewo huru sexplatform. Unoyeuka here kuti ma heroes emuloki "zvigaro gumi nemaviri" akaedza kuvhara ruzha rwekutsvoda ne primus stove? Usadzokorora zvikanganiso zvavo, uchiedza "kuvanza" kuburikidza neTV yakatorwa kana mimhanzi. Avo avo vakadzidza physics kuchikoro vanoziva kuti kuita ruzha kunofanira kuva kwavanoteerera. Nokudaro, zvinonyanya kushandiswa kushamwaridzana nekamberi yeTV muimba yababa kana kuti mavhariko paDVD. "Vadhora" vePodha pane dzimwe nhepfenyuro, iwe uchazvipa maawa mashomanana ehurukuro. Shamwari dzangu dzinowanzoita "iyo" muwaini pasi pechikonzero chekuti "Ndichaenda kune wandinoda zvakare." Kuongororwa nezvakaitika: kubuda kwemvura kunonyoroka kunonzwika kunze.
Gamuchira nguva apo vabereki vari pa dacha, vanoita kuti vave vashandi vanonyanya kufarira. Rega purogiramu yako yebasa nenzira iyo yaunofamba nayo kuzoshanda mberi kune dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri kana kudzoka kumba "zvemasikati" zvepabonde.
Muzhizha, shandurai ukama hwenyu nemusikana wekunakidzwa mune zvisikwa. Unoziva here kuti zvakatipoteredza zviri kutiswededza nehutano hwepabonde? Hazvishamisi kuti kuita zvepabonde kunze kwekunze kunofungidzirwa kunonyanya kudanana uye kusingakanganwiki kwenguva refu.
Fantasize, uye pane mikana yakawanda yekuve yega newaunoda. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuchengetedza ushamwari hwakanaka uye hune ushamwari muimba, uye ipapo zvipingamupinyi munzvimbo hazvingaoneki zvakanyanya. Mushure mezvose, sezvinoreva shoko iri, rakamanikidzwa, hongu, hapana mhosva.
Mu "odnushke" nemwana
Mamiriro acho ezvinhu: dzimba yehumba uye hukama hwehukama: nekuti murume nomudzimai vechidiki uye imwe imba inotaridzika inenge yakareba, kungoenda kure nevabereki. Asi zvakadini kana pane kudzorerwa mumhuri? Vanaamai vakawanda nababa vanofungisisa pamusoro pemubvunzo uyu: kana mwana akarara muimba imwe chete nevabereki, kusvika kumakore zvipi "dzakanaka" kuita rudo? Uye chii chaunofanira kuita kana mwana akakura uye imba yacho ikava "yakazara" yevatatu?
Chizvarwa chose chevana veSoviet chakakurira mumatare edzimba mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa. Uye hapana, munhu wose, vanotenda Mwari, vari vapenyu uye vane utano hwakanaka. Chimwe chinhu ndechekuti "maruva ehupenyu" emazuva ano anonyanya kuziva nezvehupenyu hwehukama uye hazviiti kuti mwana wako ane makore matanhatu achabvuma kuti vabereki vari kuita zvemitambo.
Shamwari dzangu dzinogara muhotera nevana vaviri vakwegura. Imba yehumba uye hupenyu hwehupenyu hwakagara hwakagadziriswa nekubatsira kwekuparadzanisa. Kana iyo yardage isingabvumirizve kuve nekuvandudzwa kwakadaro, shandura "dislocation". Pashure pezvose, kunze kwekamuri, imba yako ine bhamba uye kicheni. Kubvumirana, nguva yose yekuita zvepabonde pamubhedha wemhuri inofadza!
Iwe unogona "kukanganisa" vana pamazororo kana kumavhiki ekupedzisira kune vanasekuru navanasekuru. Imwe nzira ndeyekuisa mukicheni sefa yekupeta kana kuronga munhu akarara pabhangi (imwe nzvimbo yenguva yezhizha). Ndine chokwadi chokuti mwana wako pachako achafara kuenda ikoko usiku kuitira kuti ave oga ari oga, verenga bhuku rinofadza.
Kuti zvepabonde zvive zvisina maturo, zvakakosha kusarudza nzvimbo yakanaka. Izvo zviitiko zvemumishinari uye mutasvi wechirongwa ichi hazvina kukodzera zvachose. Nhema chiso nechiso kune chiso. Regai munhu wacho chete aende, zvinokanganisa zvinofanira kunonoka. Kana tora sipo yepuni: rara padivi rako, mukadzi anotendeukira kumusana wemurume uye anozorora kumucheto kumashure.
Zvakawanda zvinogona kusanzwisiswa zvinogona kudziviswa kana mwana akagadzirira nguva isati yasvika. Imi nemurume wenyu musafanirwa kunyara kuratidzira rudo rwemumwe nemumwe mukuvapo kwemwana. Kune vana kubva pamakore mashanu mumabhuku ezvitoro vanotengesa mazita e "maitiro ezvepabonde" anonyorwa akanyorwa nevana vepfungwa dzepfungwa (zvichida mabhuku evanyori vekumba). Nguva nenguva funga bhuku racho pamwe chete, dzidza kutaura zvisingatauri pahurukuro. Uye kana munhu mukuru akakura asingabatsiri anova chapupu kumhuri yepedyo yaamai nababa, hazvizove zvakakodzera kufungidzira kururamisira kwezvikonzero.
Kazhinji chinokonzera matambudziko edu mumusoro, uye kwete nekushayikwa kwemamiriro ezvinhu ehupenyu. Kana kuvepo kwekuvapo kwevana kana vabereki (kunyange kana mushure meimba) kuchiuraya zvachose chido chepabonde, wako murume nemudzimai vanoda rubatsiro rwemunhu kubva: unyanzvi hwepfungwa dzepfungwa kana wepabonde.
Vechidiki vanotarisira kuti vabereki vachanzwira hupenyu hwavo. Sei kupindura kusati kuratidze kuremekedza uye kwete kuedza, kuti panguva yepabonde chiyero chezvigadziri zvisingasviki?