Ikoko kune mutemo wakadaro usingatauri: iyo yakakwirira yehutano hwekuvandudzwa kwevanhu vari vapenyu, iyo inowedzera kwenguva yakawanda ihwo huduku hwavo uye iyo inowedzera kubatsira izvi zvisikwa mushure mekuberekwa. Ongororo dzevasayendisiti dzinogara dzisimbiswa mukuita, kusimbisa kuve kwechokwadi kwezvirevo izvi. Asi chete chikamu chekutanga. Kana tikataura pamusoro pekushaya simba, saka zvakangofanana nevatsvakurudzi vakaratidza zvakasiyana. Mwana wemunhu ane mupfungwa mupfungwa uye ane simba zvokuti inoratidzika kwatiri, vanhu vakuru, dzimwe nguva zvisingaiti. Hapana mumwe wedu aizopona mumamiriro ezvinhu umo mwana mucheche aripo uye anovandudza. Anofanirwa kupikisa kuchinja kwehurumende yekutonhora (kubva pa37 ° C inowira kusvika 20-25 ° C), kubva mumvura yakadzika inopinda mumhepo, mumasekondi inotora nzira yekufema, inorambidzwa nezvokugadziriswa kwezvokudya zvisingagadziriswi. Uye izvi zvose munguva shomanana! Iwe unofungei, zvinokwanisika kune vasina simba mumweya uye mumuviri kune munhu?
Kutarisa kuda maoko
Zvinosuruvarisa, pakuberekwa, gumbo rinotambura, rinonzwa pfungwa yekudonha kusingaperi, musoro wakanyanya. Anotya uye asingadziviriri panguva imwe chete. Zvisinei, vanoona nezvepfungwa vakaratidza kuti izvi zvakaipa hazvingasiyi maitiro mune zvisinganzwisisiki sezviri mukugadzirisa kubudirira kuberekwa, uye kana mwana akabata chifuva chaamai vanofara, vakasununguka, vanovimbika! Nokudaro, mumutambo wekushungurudzika kwenyika, kuberekwa kwepanyama kunotsigirwa zvakasimba. Vakadzi gumi chete muzana vari mubasa vanoda kushandiswa kwemishonga inokurudzira uye yakafanana. Vakasara 90% vanokwanisa kubereka vana vasina kuchengetedzwa kweutano, vachivimba nesimba ravo pachavo. Munguva yekuberekwa mukadzi haagoni kudanidzira, asi kuimba, kuteerera mimhanzi, kufema mimba ... chero chinhu, kuti uwane nguva dzisina kufadza nemaonero akanaka. Mushure mezvose, kushungurudzika kwake kumwana panguva iyoyo kunoreva zvinopfuura zvaanoita mupfungwa. Zvose izvi zvinodzidziswa nevanyanzvi vane ruzivo pamakambani evabereki vari mberi.
Nenzira yakawanda, chokwadi chokuti vana, vaida pakuberekwa uye panguva yekuzvitakura, vakaberekerwa nemaoko ane rudo, vanotanga hupenyu nemashoko akanaka, kwenguva yakareba vakaratidzwa. Ivo vanoudza uye vanoda kuziva zvakanaka. Vanonzwa vakachengeteka, uye vane hukama hwakasimba nevabereki vavo. Yakabuda sei? Nekubatsira kwepfungwa dzepfungwa. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzakabatanidzwa pakuverenga izvo zvinonzi "chiyeuchidzo chekuberekwa", kuzarura zvinhu uye zvakavanzika zvehucheche. Pasi pekunyengedzwa, munhu akayeuka uye akaudza zvakaitika kwaari panguva yekuzvarwa kwake, uye kazhinji kune zvinyorwa zviduku, kusanganisira pfungwa dzaaiva nadzo ipapo. Vakanga vasina kutarisirwa kukura, zvakajeka, uye manzwiro-akadzika.
Ndinosarudza inzwi raamai vangu
Mwana anonzwa izwi raamai nguva refu asati aberekwa, naizvozvo mushure mokuberekwa zviri nyore kusiyanisa kubva kune vamwe. Chimwe chezviedzo chakaratidza kuti yakaiswa sei kune izwi raamai. Yakanga ichitungamirirwa neAuropean psychologist Anthony de Caspe. Mucheche anonwa chifuva chaamai vake kuburikidza ne-silicone kuputira ne pacifier yakanga yakabatana nechigadziro chekuenzanisa kukurumidza kukurumidza, akabatanidza tepi yekurekota yenhau inowanikwa navanaamai vavo nevamwe vakadzi. Pakarepo mumwe wevana akanzwa inzwi rake rekuzvarwa, akatanga kumwisa nekukurumidza nekuwedzera. Zvidzidzo zvemazuva maviri zvakabvumira musayendisiti kugumisa: vana vakanyatsoziva mazwi avamai vavo (zvisinei kuti vaitaura Chirungu kana ChiGermany). Kusiyana nemashoko evamwe vakadzi. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iyo yakawanda inogona kubata chimiro chekutaura, chirevo, kushanduka kwefoni uye, zvechokwadi, kungoyeuka mupfungwa imwe chete, inonyanya kudiwa uye yekuzvarwa, izwi rakanzwa asati aberekwa. Tarenda inoshamisa kudaro inoda kushandiswa nekugadzirwa. Mwana anogara akagadzirira kutaura naMama. Imi pachenyu makaona kuti mwana ane mwedzi wemakore matatu anokupindura sei nekubatsirwa nekufamba uye agukaniya. Uye haasi kungoona chete mikana yezwi rake, asiwo inotora kubva panhaurirano iyi nemwi kufadza kusingafungidziki.
Kumirira kubata
Kukurukurirana kwemuviri kunotaurirana kwenguva yakareba mwana asati awedzera uye anodzidza kudzora kufamba kwake. Kuisa mwana mumaoko emadiki papa, uye zvino kupfuurira kuburikidza nerekodhi zvishoma nezvishoma, masayendisiti akasvika pakutsva kunoshamisa kunobatanidza nehutano hwehuduku hwemucheche: mwana anokwanisa kufamba muchibvumirano nemunhu mukuru. Pakutarisa kwaive kwakanyatsooneka, kuti iyo yakawanda yakadzokorora vese madaddies of movement. Pakarepo baba vake vakakotamisa musoro wake, mwana wacho akatambanudzira musoro wake kwaari. Izvi zvakaitika kakawanda. Apo ruoko rworudyi rwababa rukabva parutivi rwake, ruoko rworuboshwe rwakatambanudzwa kubva kune rumwe rutivi - kuenda. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakanga dzisingatendi kuti schronism yakadaro inogona sei. Uye zvakare vakakurudzira vabereki kuti vazive unyanzvi hwokubatana - kubatana mumuviri, kusingaonekwi kusinganisiki kunobvumira iwe kuti unzwisise mutauro wemucheche kubva pamazuva okutanga. Kushamwaridzana kunogona kuva chikonzero chakanaka chekukurukurirana, rudo uye kushamwaridzana kwepfungwa mune ramangwana. Mwana akagadzirira hukama hwepedyo uye anotarisira zvakafanana kubva kwauri. Usamudzivisa!
Ndinoda kuziva zvose!
Mwana achangoberekwa ari munhu chaiwo. Anokwanisa kuzvitaura. Mazuva ano masayenzi akawanikwa anotsigira kuti mucheche ishamwari yekugara. Anokwanisa kutaura, kuumba ukama hwepedyo. Mwana anenge achangobva kuonekwa, akagadzirira kuwana ruzivo rutsva uye, pane zvishoma zvamazano ako, anonzwisisa zvokuita nazvo. Saka, kana iwe uchitaura nemwana uchifunga nezvemamiriro ehutano hwevana, iwe uchawana semugumisiro unhu hwakavandudzwa, munhu ane ruzivo uye ane njere. Usazvidza umnyashek wako muduku - ivo vakanyanya kukura kupfuura iwe unofunga!