Chiratidzo chokutanga chekuti hukama hwako huchakurumidza kupera, ihwo hukama neshamwari dzake. Kana shamwari dzako dzeshamwari dzagara dzichitaurirana newe nguva dzose, dzakagovana dzimwe nhau uye zvakavanzika uye pakarepo dzakamira kutaurirana newe, saka unofunga kufunga nezvehukama hwako. Zvichida shamwari dzake dzatoziva nezvekushanduka kwemazuva anotevera muukama hwako uye dziri kuedza kungosiya iwe.
Izvi zvinogona kuva zvakanyanya kuoma: musikana wako anokumisa kubva pakukukoka kumapato uye misangano iwe iwe neshamwari yako yawanzopinda. Kunyange kana iwe uri shamwari dzepedyo neshamwari dzako, shamwari idzi dzinofanira kusarudza pakati pako. Mushure mokunge ukama huripo neshamwari dzake, kazhinji sarudza rimwe rutivi uye kazhinjikadzi. Saka, kana musikana wenyu achipindura mubvunzo uyu "iwe uchapedza sei vhiki yevhiki?" Kuti achaipedza neshamwari dzake, saka iwe unogona kugadzirira kuparara muhukama.
Chimwe chiratidzo chekuparara kwehukama huri kuchinja mumamiriro ezvinhu muimba yako. Kana zvinhu zvichangoerekana zvanyangarika muimba yako, zvakadai sedhizino rezino, t-shirt yaunofarira uye mavhidhiyo mavhidhiyo nemakambani ake aidiwa aive ataurwa naye, ichi chiratidzo chechokwadi kune chawakatosiya kuda uye iwe uchakurumidza kuudzwa " vakasununguka ". Zvechokwadi, inogona kuve iyo inonzi ndeyekuti musikana wako akangoita tsvina yekugara yeimba yako uye munguva pfupi zvinhu zvose zvichawira panzvimbo, asi zvakadaro, semurairo, zvinhu izvi hazvizodzoki kuimba ino. Ichi chiratidzo chekuputsa muhukama ndicho chakakoshesa uye ichi ndicho chenyevero yekupedzisira vasati vagovana.
Vanhu vazhinji vanotenda kuti kukakavadzana nguva dzose uye kushungurudzika kunongova ukama husina kukodzera pakati pevanhu vaviri. Uye kana kamwe-kamwe kukakavadzana uku uye kutsanangurika kwehukama hwacho kuchiguma, izvi hazvirevi kuti zvose zvinenge zvakanaka muhukama hwako, asi zvakasiyana, unoda kuchema alarm uye utange kugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu sezvazviri, nokuti zvichida mukadzi wako waunoda akazvisarudzira zvose uye haagoni kuita pfungwa dzake nenzira ipi zvayo iwe chikamu. Kana musikana wako asingachagoni kufara kana kuvhiringidza zvinhu izvo zvaaizozviona kare, zvino zviri pachena kuti ukama hwako huri huchapera zvachose.
Chimwe nechimwe chezviratidzo izvi chinonyanya kukosha uye chinokupa chikonzero chekutanga kunetseka, uye kana zviratidzo izvi zvichitorwa mune zvakaoma, zvinoreva kuti muhukama hwako hukuru hwakakonzerwa uye iwe unoda kuita chimwe chinhu pamusoro payo uye uchigadzirisa, sezvo usina nguva. Zviri nyore kuti vamwe vabvumirane kuputsa ukama pane kuti vasiye kure nemitemo yavo, asi iwe uchiri kudikanwa kugadzirisa zviratidzo izvi, nokuti kana uchiwedzera kukura uhu hukama, zvakaoma uye zvakaoma zvichave kwauri kuti urarame kuparara kwehukama.
Kuti uone kuti matambudziko aya haasimuke, ose maviri hafu anofanira kunyatsochenjerera nezvehafu yavo: funga nezvemaonero, ita zvimwe, usakanganwa nezvekurumbidzwa, uye zvechokwadi unoparadza maruva emaruva.
Kana iwe uchida mumwe nomumwe, ipapo imwe neimwe yenguva inofanira kubvumirana kune umwe neumwe uye kana iwe ukatevedzera mazano awa ose, zvino muhukama hwako huchatonga chete rudo nekunzwisisa!