Mumhuri, zvichida, mushure memazuva akawanda, mafungiro ezuva nezuva uye philistine anotanga. Vakaroorana vanotanga kurondedzera kune mumwe nemumwe, semutungamiri kune waanoshandira, sechiremba wepfungwa uye murwere, nezvimwewo. Pane kungova nemhando yekusanzwisisana, hafu yemoyo, chinhu chisingaoneki chinogadziriswa. Kunyange zvazvo zvikonzero zvekurambana zvakasiyana kune umwe neumwe, vanhu vazhinji vanoda kungopedza kubudirira kukuru, vanova munhu anozvimiririra, vanoenda kune zvakasiyana-siyana zvekudzidzisa, asi izvi zvose ndezvomumwe chete. Saka vakaroorana vanofanira kungosiya zvinangwa izvi kubva muupenyu hwavo, sezvo mhuri inoreva kushandazve. Izvo zvinodiwawo kubvisa zvinhu zvose zvinokanganisa zvinongorambidza uye zvinotungamirira kumabasa asina kururama. Zvikonzero zvekuregererwa kwehukama hungave huwandu, tichatarisa mamwe acho.
Mari yemhuri kana mari . Ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvinokonzera kurambana. Nhamba dzinoratidza kuti kana mubairo wevakaroorana uri pamusoro pevhareji, njodzi yechikonzero chekurambana inoderedzwa ne30%. Kana paine mwana mumhuri, uye mari yemhuri yakadaro yakakwirira, pangozi yekurambana inoderedzwa ne24%. Nokudaro, chikonzero chemhuri yakadaro yakapera inosangana nevakadzi (mushure memakore makumi matatu) inova pachena, vanongozvidzivirira zvakare pamusoro pechiratidzo chechikonzero chisingadikanwi mumhuri. Asi hutano hwakasimba huri nekutya kwawo pamusoro pekuparara kwehukama, shure kwehukama hwakakundikana, vanorasikirwa nechido chokuva nemudzimai. Varume vakadaro kakawanda vanongoramba vari vana-bachelor.
Kusiyana kwakasiyana pamusoro pechitendero . Vanhu vane maonero akasiyana ezvitendero havanongotendeuki zvachose, asi kana izvi zvikaitika, zvino pane hutano hwekurambana mumhuri dzakadaro. Murume akakodzera anogona kunge ari munhu chaiye ane chitendero chimwe chete, tsika dzenyika, hukama hwehukama semudzimai wake. Nhamba idzi dzinopa dhiyabhorosi yakadaro kuti vanhu vakaenzana muhurumende uye dzidzo, uyewo mumamiriro emari, havakwanisi kurambana. Zvizhinji zvezvitendero hazvina maonero akanaka panyaya dzekurambana, saka vanopa chikonzero chekuchengetedza ukama hwemhuri nekudzivisa kurambana. Vanhu vane marudzi akasiyana-siyana avo vakasarudza kugadzira mhuri nekuverenga vanowanzoita kuti vaichengetedze kupfuura avo vanoroorana nekuda kwerudo. Maererano nehuwandu, mhuri dzakagara pamwe chete kwemakore mashanu, mikana yekurambana ndeye 10%, uye mhuri nekuda kwerudo - 50%.
Kusakwanisa kudzora . Varume vakawanda, uye vakadziwo zvavo, zvakare, vanorega kudzora nyika yakavapoteredza, vanorega kuva vatenzi vehupenyu hwavo, chero zvidimbu uye misangano neshamwari. Vasikana, vachitya kuva mhandara dzakwegura, vanomhanyira mune dzimwe nguva kuroorana, panguva imwechete varume - pamwe chete nekuda kwezvakaitika zvekare uye chikwereti chakaumbwa pasi pemafungiro evanhu. Muchiitiko ichi, kuitira kuti usabvisa chikonzero chekurambana, mukadzi anofanira kutora zvose mumaoko ake, kureva, kuratidza kushivirira, kugadzikana mupfungwa, kushamwaridzana, anofanira kunge ane chido chekuumba humwe hukama hwekuvimba.
Kushandiswa kwemashoko ebasa . Mukufunga kwechiremba anozivikanwa zvikuru wezvepfungwa, zvinotevera kuti munhu anogona nyore nyore kuona kuwanda kwewanano. Paunenge uchishandisa mazwi ehurumende, urefu hwehupenyu hwemhuri hunopfupiswa. Kutaura kwakashata kunogona kuva chimwe chezvikonzero zvekurambana kwevakaroorana. Aya mazwi anogona kusanganisira kubatana, uye zvinyorwa, uye zvinyorwa, uye zvinyorwa. Dzimwe dzidzo dzakaratidza zvakajeka ukama huri pakati pekushandiswa kwemashoko ehurumende uye kurambana. Vakaroorana vanoshandisa mazwi akadaro vakasvika pakugumisa kuti hukama hwacho hwakaputsika mumwedzi mitatu. Ichi chiitiko chinosanganiswa nekujekesa mitauro yekuzvidzivirira.
Kuramba kuchiita. Mumwe mudzidzi wepfungwa uye nyanzvi yemasvomhu akatora imwe nzira iyo munhu anogona kugona kusara kwehukama hwemhuri. Muenzaniso wakasikwa unopikisana nemakakatanwa mukati meviri, izvo zvinopa kutaura kwakarurama kwema 95%. Vakaroorana venguva refu uye vanofara vanogona kunzi avo avo panguva yekukakavadzana vanogona kuseka uye kuseka. Uye vakaroorana vakaita nenzira yakasiyana, iyo yakatsamwiswa zvikuru pamashoko chero ipi zvayo, nepo vachigadzirisa zvinyanyisa uye vachinyomba, vaitongerwa kurambana.
Chikonzero chiri mumagenjini . Iko kune pfungwa yokuti unzenza uye hazvifariri maitiro muvanhu zvinogona kuwirirana nechitarisiko chavo, uye kubva kune geni revana. Maererano nemafungiro akawanda evasayendisiti vanoita zvidzidzo kune mbongoro (zvichida dzinza revanhu), tsika dzisingagamuchirwi neshamwari dzinobva kune ava vanozvarwa vekare. Maererano nekuedza kwakadaro kwakaratidzwa kuti murume chete ndiye akapona, uyo akanga asingatyi kuzviisa pangozi. Simba netarenda raaiva nazvo nekufamba kwemazuva pasi pesimba rekuvhima. Kunyange zvazvo humwe unhu hwehutano nemafambiro zvinongopfuurirwa kwatiri nefa. Asi zvakadini kana zviito zvakadaro zvichivhiringidza hupenyu hwomunhu hune hupenyu uye hune humwe hwezvinokonzera kurambana? Zvino zvingave zviri nani kuedza kubvisa kana kuti kuderedza simba ravo kuitira kuchengetedza ukama hwakanaka. Hazvina kunaka, zviito zvakadaro zvinogona kuratidza ivo pachavo vakadzi uye varume. Iwe unongoda kuwana nzira yekubuda nayo, uye inonyanya kukosha, simba rekudziparadza.
Kuvengana kweumwe wevakaroorana . Varume vanowanzofunga kuti kupandukira kwepanyama hakugoni kuva chikonzero chikuru chokurambana. Vanongozviona sechifungo, chiduku chiduku, uye havaoni chero chakaipa nekutambudza. Izvozvi izvi hazvina hanya nehafu yenguva dzavo, uye iyi ndiyo maonero evanhu vose. Mukadzi akasarudza pane danho rakadai sehupanduki, tsika dzinoziva kuti anoda zvakadini. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, pasina manzwiro aanoita haafaniri kusarudza panyaya ye rudo kune rumwe rutivi. Uye vakadzi, uye vanenge vose, havagoni kurarama pamativi maviri.
Zvinonzwisisika, zvikonzero zvekurambana mumhuri zvinogona kunge zvakanyanya, uye kwete chaizvoizvo zvichange zvichibva kune zvataurwa pamusoro apa, nokuti mhuri imwe neimwe ndeyega. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti uchinzwisise nguva uye nekuisa pane iyo.