Zvinofungwa nevanhu pamusoro pevanoda

Madzimai ... Zvakawanda sei mupfungwa iyi yekupesana, mafungiro uye nharo. Vatendi havaoni chinhu chitsvene mumadzimai akadaro, vanopomera mhosva yeupfidy and mercantilism, vanodana chikonzero chekuparadzwa kwemitemo yetsika uye muenzaniso wakaipa wekurerwa kwevechidiki. Izvi zvinodzvinyirira vanyengeri here? Kwete. Ndizvo, zvaive uye zvichave. Ko tsika dzakasimba dzevarume dzinomira here? Uyewo kwete. Kune vakawanda vavo, madzimadzi anoiswa "mumashandi", nekuda kwefashoni, nokuda kweku "tsvangira" masimba, nezvimwewo. Mumwe nomumwe ane zvikonzero zvake. Izvo, uye nei vanhu vachiparadzanisa hupenyu hwavo hwega, zviri nani kubvunza zvakananga kubva kwavari. Vanhu vanofungei pamusoro pekunyengera? Vanotsanangura sei kuvapo kwavo muupenyu hwavo?

Varume debunk myths pamusoro pemasaisai

Zvechokwadi, varume vane vanhu vanofarira, uye maonero avo panyaya iyi inonyanya kuzvibata. Zvisinei, chinangwa chekutsvakurudza kwedu hachisi kutsvaga kutsvaga chokwadi semuedzo wekunzwisisa manzwiro evanhu nenzira yekuita zvechisimba. Vanhu vanofungei nezvemagariro evanhu vane hutano pamusoro pekunyengedza? Nhema 1: mudiwa anokanganisa ukama hwakarambidzwa. Varume vazhinji vanobvuma kuti ndivo vakatanga kutanga misangano nemisangano yepamwoyo, nokuti, sezvavanotaura, ivo vanofarira zvikuru izvi. Kana vakasarudza kutsika pamugwagwa wekutengesa (pakarepo kana kuti nemaune - kwete zvakakosha), hazvibviri kumisa iyi "locomotive". Vanoshandisa marudzi ose emanomano, mazano, zvipo, kuchengetedza, kunyengera uye vimbiso. Nhema 2: tenzikadzi ndiye mukadzi wounzenza. Vakadzi, vakatorwa nevarume vakaroora, havawanzoita unzenza uye vane mwoyo wakaoma semafungiro uye mafungiro evanhu anovamanikidza. Chiitiko chega chega ndeche nyaya yakasiyana yemagumo emukadzi. Varume vanovhiringidza kuti maonero evanhu vose vanovatarisa kuti vanyengeri, vanoshandiswa nevakadzi vasinganyengeri. Asi, vari kushandisa huduku hwavo, runako uye vakazvipira kwavari makore ehupenyu.

Nhema 3: tenzikadzi anoda kuvaka pamusoro pavo pachavo mufaro wavo. Madzimai emazuva ano, varume vanocherechedza chido chikuru chekusununguka uye kuzvimirira, kusanganisira. uye kubva kumisungo yemhuri. Havasi vese vanoda kufarira kuparadza mhuri yemurume uye kuvaka pamusoro pemarongo ayo mufaro wavo pachavo. Kakawanda, mbuya wemazuva ano haadi murume. Anoda murume waanonzwa achida, uye asingatungamiri nebhiza mujoko rehupenyu hwemhuri. Nhasi, kuroorana kwave kurasikirwa nekunakidzwa kwayo kare. Nhema 4: madzimambo - mercenary, mercantile uye akangwara. Kunyange vanhu vanobvumirana kuti munguva yedu mukadzi ari nyore kuwana mari pachake pane kuwana munhu akakodzera. Kana munhu akafuma uye "achizvitengera" pachake dhi rakanaka, saka, seimwe ye "chinhu" chake, anoda uye achazoshandisa mari, achiwedzera kukosha kwayo. Uye anozviita panzvimbo yake. Asi nhasi vanhu vakawanda, vachipenya maziso avo, vanobvuma kuti munguva dzino dzakaoma matambudziko haasi kupa zvikuru. Ukama pasina mari, sezvaunoziva, rudo rusina udyire. Nhema 5: ishekadzi haana kuremekedzwa. Nyika ye cinema, mabhuku uye kunyange nhoroondo inokurudzira kunyengedza, kuumba kwakapoteredza ruvara rwekudanana, chakavanzika uye chivi chinotapira. Vatori vechihedheni, hetaera, vanofarira vakasiya nzira yakajeka uye vachayeukwa nokusingaperi. "Vadiwa" madzimai anowanzoonekwa sechinhu chisina kujairika, uye nokuda kwe "kusaremekedza" vatadzi vanoita zviito, pangozi basa, mhuri uye kunyange upenyu.

Varume pamusoro pezvikonzero zvechokwadi zveupombwe hwavo

Chii chiri pamusoro pevaya vanokanganisa, chii chisiri mumadzimai? Chii chavanokumbira? Zvinotaridzika kuti chinyararire chiri pachena, uye chinogona kuratidzwa mune dzimwe nhanho:

• Mutambo usingagumi. Mumwe murume anosvika kumudzimai waanenge ari munharaunda isina basa.
• Kukudzwa kwevanhu kunovimbiswa. Nekadzikadzi, murume igamba uye knight. Pamba iyeye ose uye ane chikwereti chose, uye nokuda kwebasa iri zita rechigamba hachipi.
• Sensation of novelty. Ukama pamwe nakadzikadzi hahuna kuparadzwa nemutoro wehupenyu, tsika uye tsika inotyisa yeupenyu hwemhuri yezuva nezuva.
• Zvepabonde zvepabonde. Rudo rwabiwa runopa kune zvose zvehukama, uye zvepabonde chimwe "chiito" uye adrenaline iyo kwenguva yakareba haisipo nemudzimai anotenderwa.

Zvichakadaro, mukukurukurirana kwechokwadi, varume vanoramba zvose izvi.

• Madzimai anonzwisisa zvinopfuura mudzimai here? Kwete, kana kwete kunyange mudzimai, izvo zvisingaiti imwe nheyo yemunyu inodyiwa, uye iye zvino anonzwa zvose zvese kubva pane hafu-kutarisa, kunyange kana asingabvumi pamwe chete nemafungiro emurume wake. Kukwezva nyore kunenge kusina kunzwisisa uku, uye njodzi dzisingambove nadzo.
• Madzimai ari muduku uye akanaka kudarika mukadzi? Zvinotoshamisa kuti, mukuzvipupurira kwechokwadi, varume vanopikisa kuti maitiro nezera hazvirevi uye zvinowanzorasikirwa nehupombwe nevakadzi. Uye kana munhu ari kuzvirumbidza uye asina maturo, zvino tenzikadzi haasi nyaya yake zvachose, ngaave iye iye Well Beauty Queen. Haakwanise kuzvirumbidza pamusoro pevanhu vose uye hurumende yepamusoro.
• Madzimai asingatsvaki uye anozvinyengera? Uyewo kwete. Kunyorwa kwezvido zvake (kwete kungofanana nezvinhu) zvinowanzopfuura zvinodiwa nemumwe wako, kusanganisira zvinhu zvose, nemhuri, uye mhuri, uye zvido zvemunhu oga. Mudzimai ave achisarudza kurega kugutsikana nehuwandu, haazvifananidza kuva romantic feats uye uchapupu hwezuva nezuva hwerudo.

Saka chii chaicho chikonzero chekusatenda kwevarume? Varume vanogona kuongorora, vakavimbika uye vakatendeseka pamwe chete navo, pamwe chete vanodana kusavapo kwebasa. Nekadzikadzi iwe haugoni kutya matambudziko ane chokuita nehutano hwake, imba nehumba mamiriro ezvinhu, kwete kuve nehanya nekutakura, kuchengeteka uye hupenyu hwevana, kwete kuronga zvirongwa zvemangwana uye kwete kuzvipira. Neye-chirwere chinoramba chiripo uye kusava nekunetseka. Uye kana chimwe chinhu chichienda, iwe unogona kugara uchitaura "shanduro" muChirungu uye wotora mumwe. Icho chichadzorera mamiriro ekusava nehanya. Mhuri - basa, madzimadzi - zorora kubva kwaari. Kazhinji, murume haana hanya nemapikadzi wake (kunaka, huduku, adrenaline - akanaka, asi mabhonasi angasarudza). Iye anonyanya kufarira manzwiro ake, izvo zvaanosangana panguva imwe chete. Uye kana kuzarurwa kwezviitiko zvake zvisiri pamutemo "kuruboshwe" zviri kukura, iye, sekutonga, pasina kutyisidzika kukuru uye kushamisika, achaita sarudzo mukufarira mhuri. Ukama hwakasimba naishesikadzi wake muzvirongwa zvake hazvina kubatanidzwa. Kwete nekuda kweizvi akamutungamirira. Mhandara kubva pashoko shoko rudo. Uye rudo imamiriro ekufunga, zororo risina kugadziriswa nemitoro.