Maererano nevepfungwa dzepfungwa, vanhu vanoroorwazve vanowedzera kufunga. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vangave vasati vaona zvido zveMexico, asi vanoedza kudzidza mitsipa yakaipa neyakanaka yevakasarudzwa vavo kana vakasarudzwa vasati vasarudza kugara pamwe chete. Asi zvakadaro kutya kwevanhu vakadaro hachisi pasina chikonzero uye mukuedza nhamba mbiri dzakawanda dzematanda.
Unfinished romance
Muchato unogona kuparadzaniswa, uye manzwiro anokwanisa kupona. Munyika isina kukodzera, mazano akaita sekuti "usashungurudza" (kupfira, kuukanda kunze kwako), "zviwanire iwe mumwe," inonzwisiswa semutungamiri wekuita, uye inenge zuva rinotevera mushure mekurambana, ikoko kunotanga kudzokera, musangano nemumwe musikana-spy, hang in in chats Dzimwe nguva, kuitira kuti inomesa kushungurudzika, ukama hwakakomba hunosimbiswa nekutanga-"kumupfira, mutengesi."
Maererano nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, izvi hazvina kunaka. Kudzokorora munhu mumwe nomumwe kunozara ne "hupenyu hwevatatu". Iwe unenge uchizvienzanidza nekuenzanisa shamwari - zvechokwadi, kwete muchidimbu chechipiri, chisingadiwi. Mukuwedzera, njodzi yekuendesa mufananidzo wehukama hwekare kune hutano hutsva hwakanaka. Kunyanya kukanganisa kuroora pasina kubatsiva - iwe unongozviita iwe wakaipa. Kunyadziswa kwakavanzika kunowanzokonzera zvirwere zvepfungwa, semuenzaniso, VSD, nyika yekusava nehanya. Rudo runodiwa runoitawo nzira yekudhakwa: kubva kune fodya uye doro, social network kana mitambo yemakombiyuta. Saka tinoedza kubva kune zvinetso mune imwe chokwadi. Ukama hwekupedzisira hunofanira kuva hunoziva kuitira kuti ubvise mafungiro apfuura. Hazvishamisi kuti ivo vanoti: "Kugovana ndekufa zvishomanana." Iwe unofanirwa kupinda nemarwadzo, zvipe iwe mukana wekuve uri woga, kuchema, kutambura. Zvinotora nguva yakareba sei? Mumwe munhu uye mwedzi akakwana, asi mumwe munhu achada makore akawanda. Asi zvakakosha kupedzisa ukama hune hune humwe hwakanaka kuitira kutanga zvitsva. Chinhu chikuru haisi kuteerera (vamwe), asi teerera (iwe pachako). Vana vanoteerera, uye vanhu vakuru vanoita zvisarudzo uye vanoita mabasa avo.
Vanoda rubatsiro
Wechipiri (wechitatu, wechina) murume - uyo anodiwawo kunwa, munyengeri kana mutambo, saiye wokutanga? Iwe zvakare unokwevera zvinhu zvose paimba yako, kunyange mumvuri wewaimbova shamwari yako wakakonzera kurambana? Kazhinji, iwe hauna kurambana matambudziko ehuduku hwako uye mhuri yevabereki vako. Zvinosuruvarisa, hazvikwanisi kuita izvi iwe pachako. Kana mukaro mutsva unodzokorora zviitiko zvehukama hwekare - zvinonzwisisika kutsvaka rubatsiro kubva kune chiremba wepfungwa kana mupfungwa yepfungwa. Pasina nyanzvi, iwe haugoni kuita uye apo manzwiro evanhu vekare haagoni kudzimwa, uyewo kana iwe uchitambudzwa nemhosva, godo kana kutsamwa.
Manzwiro emhosva
Kunyanya kana izvi zvakasara mumhuri, uye uyo akasiyiwa asi haana kuronga hupenyu hwake.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, zvinonzwisisika kusangana nemoyo wekare uye wekutaura nemwoyo. Zvichida kushungurudzika kwake kunongova mafungiro ako, uye haararami zvakanyanya pasina iwe. Asi kana munhu achinzwa asinganzwisisiki nekusurukirwa, munhu anogona kuedza kumukurudzira, somuenzaniso, kumurumbidza, kusimbisa zvakanakisisa zvake (kunze kwokupa tariro yekudzoka kwake). Unoda kumuudza kune mumwe munhu here? Sei zvisingaiti! Kunyange zvakadaro, hausi vaeni kune vamwe vanhu. Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokuisa chero chinhu. Ita chete kana achida kutora rubatsiro kubva kwauri. Zvinonyanya kuoma kana manzwiro eine mhosva ane manzwiro maererano newawakaroorana naye. Iyi manzwiro akasimba zvikuru kana mhuri iine ukama hwakanaka, uye rufu rwakaitika kamwe kamwe. Samoedstvo inotanga kubva kumangorangariro emhuri itsva kana inoverengeka. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinopa mazano ekutanga hukama hwakakomba kwete mberi kwemakore matatu mushure mekurasikirwa. Iro psyche yevanhu yakarongeka zvokuti mugore rekutanga rehurikadzi munhu achiri kunyatsopindirana achiita zvemazuva uye mamiriro ezvinhu anosangana nemudiwa akaenda. Mugore rechipiri marwadzo anodedzwa. Uye chete nokuda kwechiitiko chechitatu chinosuruvarisa chinotanga kuonekwa sechinhu chaicho, icho munhu anofanira kuyananisa. Zvisinei, kana kushungurudzika kwakanyanya kwenguva refu - zvinonzwisisika kutendeukira kumurapa.
Maererano nekutsvakurudza nezvemagariro evanhu, vazhinji vakarambana vanoroora zvakare mumakore mashanu mushure mekurambana. Kana, zvakadaro, uyo akazvisunungura kubva kumisungo yevakaroorana haana kuita izvi, pane zvishoma zvingaita kuti achaumba mhuri mumakumi maviri emakore anotevera.
Ndinoda, asi ndinotya
Iwe unogona kupararira, runza, uye ugoona kurambana kwemakore. Pashure pezvose, izvo zvaive zvakakosha kwauri, zvinoshanduka kuva zvisina maturo. Kungofanana nekapu, yakapararira kuita zviduku zvisingagoni kuiswa pamwechete. Nemhaka yezviitiko izvi, vazhinji vakarambana vave vachitya kupinda muukama hwakakomba.
Kurota kwechinda
Asi kazhinji tinowedzera kukoshesa zvatinoda kune mumwe wako. Kune vakawanda, imba yekutanga haina kudzidzisa pane zvose izvo munhu asina kukwana. Vanoroora zvakare mukutendwa kwakasimba: murume uyu zvechokwadi haakwanisi kuparadzira masokisi asi mukamuri uye haasati apfuurire chikumbaridzo cheimba pasina mhando yemarro!
Sezvo mutemo, kurarama nemutungamiriri, mumwe anofanira kunge ari mukunda pachake. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, mukadzi ane humwe unhu hwakanaka: akachenjera, akanaka, tarenda, akagadzirirwa zvakanaka, uye mudzimaikadzi akanaka kwazvo, uye zvakanakisisa kune zvose kutarisira vana, uye kuita basa, kuwana hupenyu ... Uye izvi zvose panguva imwe chete! Taura zvakavimbika: iwe unofanirwa here? Zvino sei iwe unotarisira izvi kubva kune wakasarudzwa?
Mubvunzo wevana Vana zvichida, chimwe chezviitiko zvinokosha zvekuzoroorana ndezvevana kubva kumudzimai wekutanga. Vakadzi vanowanzoita zvikanganiso zviviri zvakakura. Kutanga, madzimai anonyatsoziva kuti murume mutsva anofanira kuda mwana wavo kunze kwebaba chaiye. Chechipiri, haikwanise kutungamirira ukama hwevana - ivo pachavo nevana vemumwe mutsva - nenzira yakarurama.
Zvakakosha kujekesa kuti iwe nemwana wako vanhu vakasiyana. Saka, usatarisira kuti mumwe wako wawakaroorana naye achange achida mwana wako sekuti iye pachake. Uyewo, munhu haagoni kufunga kuti kana murume mutsva asina simba revana vako, saka haanzwi newe. Varume havawanzodi kuda vamwe vana vavanhu, ndizvo zvavari. Uye naizvozvo mumwe wako mutsva anogona kungova baba vakanaka vevana (verenga: shamwari uye mubatsiri). Uye zvose zvaunogona kukumbira kubva kwaari ndekuremekedza nekuitira mutsa mwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako.
Ladies naGentlemen
Uye kune vamiririri vehafu isina simba yevanhu, uye nokuda kwepabonde yakasimba, yechipiri kuroorana, yechipiri, nhamba yechipiri ... Ndicho chido chemukadzi iye zvino kuti aenzanise neyekare, uye dzimwe nguva anoshuva nguva dzakare, achiyeuka zvinhu zvakanaka mavari yakanga iri. Asi pane kusiyana. Vana, sekutonga, garai naamai vavo. Murume, kuitira kuti ave nekwanisi kutaura nevana vake, anomanikidzwa kutamba nemitemo yeumwe munhu, kugadzirisa kumusarudzo wedare kana pasi pechirongwa cheaimbova mudzimai wake. Vakadzi vanomanikidzwa kurongedza ukama pakati pemwana, baba vake nemurume wake mutsva kuitira kuti mhumhi izere, uye makwai akachengeteka: hakuna munhu anogumburwa, kwete godo kana kusuruvara. Ratidza uchenjeri uye zvinonaka. Kutanga, tongedza zvakajeka nguva yekukurukurirana pakati pewaimbova nemwana uye mwana. Nenguva yekuti iwe uite kuti azive kuti iwe iye zvino une hupenyu hwako pachako, uye panguva imwechete inokudzidzisa kuti ushanyire mwana nguva dzose kuitira kuti asanzwe achirasikirwa nababa. Chechipiri, iwe haufaniri kumubvunza mudzimai wako kuti ave mwanakomana kana mwanasikana wako rwechipiri baba. Zvakakwana kuti akanga ari baba vakanaka.
Kakawanda, pakati pevakatsiva kubva kumhuri yekare, kukwikwidzana kunoputika, kunyanya kana vari yezera rimwe chete. Munhu wose ane shungu nemubereki wake, achitsvaka kuzviisa pachake. Vana vanogona kunyange kutsiva kune umwe neumwe. Mwana akwegurawo anorarama kubva kumuchato wokutanga, apo munin'ina wake kana hanzvadzi inoberekwa. Anogona kunzwa kuti iwe haunzwisisiki, wakagumburwa, kunyanya kana ukama hwake nababa vake vokutanga husati hwagadzwa. (Mirror mamiriro: iwe uri amaikadzi vokurera uye usati wawana mutauro wakafanana nemwana wemurume wako.) Masayendisiti anofunga kuti: asati aberekwa mwana akabatana, tora zvigaro kumwoyo yekukura, unoda kutaura nemwana, zvichida woga, kumupa nguva yakawanda, kuti ave nehanya mune zvaanofarira, mimhanzi yaanoteerera, nezvimwe zvakadaro. Nenzira, zvipo, kunyange zvakadhura zvikuru, usaverengeka! Kana iwe usingakwanisi kuwirirana, zvakanakisisa kutendeukira kumunhu wepfungwa. Uye zvichida nokukurumidza, kusvikira mhirizhonga mumhuri yako yaenda kure.