Muchikamu chino ndichaedza kujekesa mafungiro angu pamusoro pezvandinofunga nezvekutenga. Iro psychology ye "shop maniac" haina kusagadzikana, kufanana nemushonga wezvinodhaka, haaone chinhu kunze kwekutengesa uye kutengesa. Munguva yekutengeswa kwemwaka, vanogona kunyange kusiya mabasa avo kuti vaite bhizimusi ravo ravanofarira nokuzvitsaurira zvizere: kutenga. Taura zvakanaka, shandisa mari yakawanda. Havagoni kumira, vane maziso anopfuta, zviso zvinotarisana, zvinokonzera kushushikana uye kuwedzera kubva pakutenga.
Anozivikanwa "shopu maniacs." Vanosanganisira Princess Diana, uyo akashandisa mari kwete kwete chete rudo, asiwo nokuda kwake. Muchengetwa rake mune mazana matatu machena emuchena. Mumiririri akakurumbira Cameron Diaz haavanze rudo rwake rwekutenga, anotenga zvose zvinouya kumeso ake asingafungi kuti chinhu ichi chingave chave chiri mumucheka waro. Muimbi mukuru weElton John anoshandisa mari inoshamisa yekutenga. Zvinyorwa zvake zvemamiriyoni emadhora muzuva rimwe zvaive nekunzwa kwevatapi venhau.
Kurapa chirwere chinonzi - kutenga, muAmerica, makambani akawanda anovhurwa asingazivikanwi spender. Kazhinji kacho, "vatengesi vezvitoro" vanotenga zvipfeko zvavo kuti vaone sezvifananidzo zvavo, kana kuti vasati vaone sevana vemakwai mumusangano wepamusoro. Nokuda kwemaitiro avo, vanhu vanopedza mari vasina kufunga.
Kana iwe uri kubva munyaya idzi dze "shop maniacs", uye iwe unoda kuzvidzivirira, asi usazviwana, teerera mazano evanoongorora. Usati wasvika kuchitoro, nyora pasi papepa chii chaunoda kutenga. Paunosvika muchitoro, shandisa chete urongwa, uye uise mubhasikiti, zvinhu zvakanaka uye zvokudya. Kana iwe usingakwanisi kutarisana nechishuwo chako chekutenga chimwe chinhu, iwe unobva kune mashefu uye mahwendefa, kufema zvikuru uye kubudisa, iwe unogona kunyange kutarisa meso ako. Vhura maziso ako, tarisa chinhu chaunoda kutenga uye iwe haungadi kuchitenga, nokuti panguva iyo iwe haunzwi kunzwa kukurumidza mauri.
Kazhinji zvinowanzoitika kuti munhu anouya kune mumwe munhu kuti ashanyire, uye achiona varidzi chigamba chitsva, anonyatsoda kutenga zvakafanana. Asi iwe unovhara maziso ako uye fungidzira kwekanguva imba yako, kuti chinhu ichi chichabatanidzwa sei mukati mako. Zvichida kwete zvikuru kuti achafanirwa ipapo, uye pakarepo utange kuyeuka kuti iwe wakasarudza kubvisa kukanganisa uku.
Iye zvino murairo wekutanga, ndeyevaya. Ndiani asingagoni kurwisa kuda kwevatengesi kutenga ichi kana icho chigadzirwa. Izvi zvichabatsira mudiwa wako uyo anogona kukudzivisa pfuma isina kukodzera yemari, kana kuti kubatsira kuita sarudzo yakarurama. Uye zvakadaro, iva nechokwadi chekubvisa zvipfeko zvekunze usati waenda kuchitoro, zvisinei kana kupisa kusina kuchinja hutano hwevanhu. Uye iwe uchapedza mari yakawanda kupfuura yaunotarisira.
Varume nevakadzi vanosiyana kubva kune mumwe kune zvavanoda pakutsvaga uye mano. Vose pamwe chete vanowanzoenda kunotenga, murume anoneta nokutengesa zvakanyanya kupfuura mukadzi. Mushure meawa nehafu yekugara-muchitoro, zviri nani kutumira munhu pane imwe nzvimbo kugara mu cafe, kuitira kuti akamirira iwe ipapo, zvisinei iwe unogona kukakavara naye. Zviri nani kuti iwe uwane mari yekutenga kwako, uye iwe unodzipedza uchidzidzira pasina kumumanikidza kuenda kundotenga newe.
Kubva pano, unotofanira kutsungirira zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvehutano: usati waenda kuchitoro, nyora urongwa hwekutenga; kuuya kunhare, kufema uye kunyora; kare. Pane kutenga chinhu chakadikanwa chiri shamwari, fungisisa, uye kana zvichidikanwa kwauri; usapfeka ushamwari muchitoro; kana zvichibvira, enda kuchitoro pasina varume.
Ndinoshuva iwe kutengesa zvakabudirira!