Vakadzi uye zvepabonde

Mumutauro wemurume - ndiani akasununguka, uyo asingabatsiri - vakadzi vanokonzerwa nemudzimai kanakadzikadzi pamwe nekuwedzerwa kwepithet inotyisa "yekusingaperi".

Kuziva kunotora muchirangaridzo rudzi rwakanyatsojeka, uye kune umwe neumwe munzira yehupenyu zviviri zvakanyanya zvevakadzi zvakange zvisingabvumirwi kusangana: zvinogona kudanwa nenzira dzose: mudzimai asingagumi nemadzimai asingagumi, mukadzi anouraya uye akatendeka shure, "amai" uye "hufeve," sezvinotsanangurwa navo Otto Weininger, uyo pakutanga kwezana remakore akapfuura bhuku rakashata "Sex and Character", izvo zvichiri kukonzera nharo huru.
Hazvisi izvo kuti mukadzi wese ndewemhando kana mudzimai asingagumi, kana kuti madzimambo asingagumi.

Nei zvishoma kudaro? Kunyange mukadzi anonyatsobatanidza zvose, kunyange zvishoma, asi anotarisa zvishoma kune imwe yematanda aya. Kwete kutaura nezvevanyori vanopenya.

KUZIVA KUNA KUTI UYE KUFANIRA

Mamwe manheru echando ezhizha pane imwe dacha mutori wenhau wechidiki akaunganidza kambani yevechiremekedzwa vechidiki. Vasikana vechidiki vainge vakapfekedzwa ma jeans ane mwero uye T-shirts, asi kutarisa kwenguva refu kwaizoona kuti mari yezvinhu iri kure kumashure kwechekare "chic" mbatya kubva pamisika yezvokupfeka. Vechidiki, vachiedza kusasara shure kwevasikana mukunatsiridza tsika, vanonwa zvine mwero uye vakakwikwidzana mune erudition. Chic mumhepo yepikiniki yakashungurudzika nekuonekwa kusatarisirwe kwehama yeiyo dacha. Aive nemakore gumi okure kupfuura vasikana varipo, avo maonero avo vakaenzana naye kusvika kumakore akafanana naClara Zetkin. Akanga akapfeka zvigaro zvehove, zvitsitsinho zvitsvene, mini isingadi Mwari uye miromo yakajeka. Apo vasikana vacho vakacherechedza vasina kuonekwa nekutaura kwekusemesa kusabatanidzwa kwezvakaipa zvakashata, zviso zvemasangano avo aifungisisa zvakawana zvakasiyana zvakasiyana. Muchizhenje cheziso, kukanganisa hurukuro dzakanatswa pamusoro peBorges nevasikana vake, vakachena nemeso akajeka pedyo nevakadzi vasati vasvika, vachitsvaka kutaura zvinyorwa zvisinganzwisisiki uye vachidziya moto negirazi seri kwegirazi. Mangwanani, zvakaonekwa kuti mukadzi wacho akanga atadza. Pamwe chete naye, mumwe wevaduku, avo vakanga vasingagoni kuwanikwa mune rimwe zuva kana mumazuva mashomanana, vakanga vasisipo. Apo vabereki, vachishungurudzika nemufaro, vakanga vatotanga kuenda kumapurisa, jaya racho rakaonekwa nemakakatanwa akawandisa pasi pemaziso ake uye nemari yakashata mari. Zvakazoitika kuti ivo, nemunhu anotsanangurwa pamusoro apa, vakatora rwendo rwusinganzwisisiki rwekuSt. Petersburg nekumira pane zvese zvekudya. Apo, mukuzvidzivirira kwake, jaya rakaratidza kuti rakanga rasangana nemukadzi chaiye uye, zvichida, rakaroora iye, ndiyo yakanga iri nguva yevabereki yekuunganidza pamwe mapurisa ezvokuchengetedza mari dzedzimwe nyika uye nokukurumidza kutora mwana anoparara kunze kwenyika.
Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvinonyanya kukosha zvekuguma kwemudiwa wekusingaperi. Kunyange kana mumwe wevanhu vane rusununguko-vanoda kumuroora, pane nguva dzose mamiriro ezvinhu anomudzivisa kuti asaite. Ichokwadi, hazvidikanwi kuti vadikanwi vese vasingawanani. Zvakangoti kunyange kana vachiedza kutanga hupenyu hwemhuri, vanozvivaka zvakare maererano nemitemo ye "marudzi anopona". Kana iwe uchiteerera nyaya yemukadzi akadaro anonzi "Nhau yeHupenyu Hwangu i ...", ipapo mweya unotora kubva kuhuwandu hwevanhu vane mwoyo yakaputsika. Munhu asina ruzivo anoteerera angafungidzira kuti izvi zvose zvakagadzirwa. Kunze kwaro: zvose ndezvechokwadi. Kutaura chete pamusoro pechesi iyo iyo yakaenda kumarara, nokuda kwake haina kuuya kumurangariro wayo kuti iyi knight is loader kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yekutengesa, uye "dongo" yose iri mubhokisi rakabiwa revodka. Muchiri "herbarium" hapana nzvimbo yekusarudzwa kwechisikigo. Chero humwe hutungamiri hwemurume hunoiswa munyaya, zvisinei kuti ndiani ari pamberi payo: munhu anotya kumabvazuva anotengesa kana scientist akaoma. Zvichida kunyanya kunakidza kwevarume ndekuti vakadzi ava havavatambudzi. Munhu chero upi zvake nokuda kwake chinhu chinonyadzisa pane iyo nyore nyore kuti iye murume.

NOMINATION: WIFE

Kusiyana nemambokadzi asingagumi, asangana munzira yake mukadzi, uyo "kunzwa kwemashure" kunouya, murume wacho nekukurumidza anoziva kuti achava mudzimai wake. Zvisinei, nemuchato inonoka. Chimwe chinhu chinomumisa, asi anomirira nemwoyo murefu. Zvinonzwisisikawo kwaari kuti murume uyu akasarudza kuva murume wake, uye kubvira panguva yaakazviziva, vamwe varume vose vanorega kuvapo nokuda kwake. Mudzimai Wokusingaperi haasi kupa chikonzero chokusahadzika kusakwanisa. Haana hanya nezvasarudzwa nomumwe wake paanomirira. Maonero ekutanga anowanikwa mumadzimai asingagumi mafungiro ekuti, kuburikidza nenjere yakachenjera yenziyo, "inomutsa kubva mangwanani" - pfungwa yekuita basa. Izvo zvakagadziridzwa mukati mazvo zvokuti mamwe manzwiro ose ari munharaunda yakatorwa. Kusanganisira zvepabonde. Vanofungidzira kufungidzira nenzira inoshamisa: kana semafungiro emabasa, kana semubairo kumunhu nokuda kwekuita kwakanaka. Kunyange zvakadaro, kuroora uye kusazvidza izvi zvehupenyu hwemhuri, vanofarira kurota kwemaitiro akanaka.