Yakagara ichizivikanwa kuti pfungwa dzakachenjera dzinouya mupfungwa mushure mezvokwadi. Semuenzaniso, munhu wese anoita seanoziva chirevo "Ushamwari ishamwari, uye kushanda ibasa," asi anenge wese wedu aifanira kutarisana nomuedzo wokuunza mumwe munhu kushanda somushandi mutsva. Kana, pane zvakasiyana, enda kunoshanda kune kambani apo imwe yehama kana hama iko iko kushanda. Uye nguva dzose patinonyatsofunga nezvechirevo ichi, panzvimbo pokuti tisiye pakarepo ...
MUNYAYA YEMAGWARO
Ngatifungei, sei pfungwa yekubatana nevamwe vanhu vanoziva ingasvika mupfungwa? Zvichida nokuti urongwa hwakadaro hunoratidzika huri kutongwa uye hunofanotaurwa. Kana uine unhu hwemunhu, mano ake anozivikanwa uye tinogutsikana, zvinoreva kuti zvichava nyore kushanda naye. Nhamo, inowanzosiyana zvakasiyana.
* Kana tisina kushanda pamwe chete neshamwari yedu, saka tinoziva nezvekugona kwake kwekusika uye unyanzvi hwemhizha, kwete dzose. Pashure pezvose, pfungwa dzedu pamusoro pake dzinoumbwa zvikuru kubva pakukurukurirana nemunhu uyu. Asi vanhu havasi nguva dzose vanogona kuzvipa chinangwa chekuongorora. Mumwe munhu anozvirumbidza, achiedza kuwedzera kuzvikudza uye (kana) "kukwirira kwake" mumaziso evamwe. Uye mumwe munhu anonyoresa mano avo, nokuti vanotambura nehutsika hwakaoma. Hongu, uye isu pachedu, takawira pasi pechirongwa cheunhu hunofadza, dzimwe nguva isu tiri o, sevasina hanya.
* Izvo zvose unhu hu "huna" huri mukukurukurirana (mutoro, kutsungirira, kubudirira, nezvimwewo), pakutanga, haisi pasi pekusahadzika. Asi, kutanga, munhu mumwe chete ari kubasa uye kunze kwebasa anogona kuita zvakasiyana zvachose, kunyanya murume. Chechipiri, maererano newe iwe shamwari inogona kuratidzira zvakanaka kwazvo kwete nokuti iye munhu wegoridhe, asi nokuti iwe pachako unomuda. Kana iwe une zvibvumirano zvekuyanana, asi zvishoma ... Mukupfupi, nevanhu vane ruzivo uye vasina kujaira, isu tose zvedu tinoita zvakasiyana. Ushamwari hunobata.
Nokudaro maitiro: zvichida kuti vatungamiri venyu kana vaunoshanda navo havazogoverane maonero ako neunhu hwehukama nekuziva naye. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unogona kutyisa hukama hwako hwepamutemo uye simba rako. Pashure pezvose, kutarisa kunoitwa nemushandi mutsva wawakataura iwe pachako kuchaongororwa semhosva yako. Iwe wakaunza chimwe chinhu, iwe unopindura. Uyu mutemo usingatauri, asi vanhu vazhinji vanofunga vasingazivi.
PAMUSORO NEMIMWE
Mukuwedzera kune kusawirirana mune maonero emapoka ose anobatanidzwa mumamiriro acho ezvinhu, kune rimwe dambudziko rinowanzoitika mukumirira kune avo vakasarudza "kufadza munhu wekuzvarwa".
* Nokuunza shamwari kune kambani yako kana kambani, tinorasikirwa nedzimwe serusununguko, kunze kwekuti, chokwadi, zvakasikwa zvakakupa 100% pofigism. Kwete chete kuti pakutanga iwe, kunze kwebasa rako rezvemhizha, unofanirawo kushanda se "mutungamiri" -kuzivisa munhu mutsva kune vanhu vose vanodiwa nenzvimbo, iwe unofanirwa kuita zvisarudzo maminitsi ose: naiye unofanirwa kunwa kofi kana kudya, sekunge Unogona kutaura. Mushure mezvose, kana shamwari ishamwari yeimba yako, iwe unofungisisa kuti mhuri dzako dzakavanzika hazvi "famba" mubasa racho, uye hofisi - kumba.
* Kana mumwe wewaunoshanda navo nenguva iyo mushandi mutsva asvika akashandisa nzvimbo yako inokosha, saka kuputika kwe "godo" kunokwanisika, kurwisana kwako pakati pehama mbiri - "aborigine" uye "kuunganidza".
* Gadzirira kuti iwe unofanira kubudisa "biography mapeji" uye maitiro mashomanana kune vamwe sendivi rumwe, uye imwe. Uye, kana usasarudze shoko rimwe nerimwe zvakanyatsojeka, vanogona-mune imwe nzira - "kushambira" mune zvakanyanya kusina kukodzera.
Hazvikwanisi kutaurirwa kuti nguva dzose dzepamusoro dzinotsvedza hadzigone kukundwa. Iwe unogona, hongu, semamwe ose muupenyu hwedu. Kunyange zvakadaro, mahuances anogona kutyisa huripo mumamiriro ekubatana neshamwari kana hama, simukai kakawanda kupfuura mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu.
VAMWE VAMWE VANHU VANOFANIRA KUTI VANHU VANHU VANHU VANHU VANHU VANOBATSIRA ...
Asi, zvichida, kurasikirwa kwakanyanya kunogona kumira mukuraira iyi ndiko kurasikirwa neshamwari. Zvinogona kuitika nenzira dzakawanda.
* Mune zvimwe zviitiko, ukama hunobatana hunopera zvishoma nezvishoma uye husingaoneki. Kupinda mumamiriro ezvinhu apo kukurukurirana hakuiti zvisingaiti, asi kunogadziriswa nemamwe miganhu - zvido zvekambani (izvo zvingave zvisingaenderani nemunhu oga), tsika dzepamutemo, nezvimwewo - mumwe nomumwe wevaimbova neshamwari ane zvingangoita zviduku uye zvichemo kune mumwe nomumwe kune shamwari. Ipapo imwe yeimwe haina kutsigira pamakumbo kubva kune zviremera, ipapo mumwe akati nezvezvinetso zvemhuri zveumwe nehafu yemashoko kupfuura zvatinoda. Uyewo yaenda. Uye akaenda ... Zvishoma nezvishoma ukama hunotanga kunotonhorera uye kubva pakudanana kwepamweya mune zvepamweya hakuna kutevera. Neushamwari kunokosha kubva.
* Chipiri chechiitiko chinokonzera kuparara uku kusarudzwa kusingatarisirwi kweunhu husingazivikanwi hwevanhu vaimboziva. Nenguva isipi imwe yevadzidzi inokunda kamwe pacho chido chekunzwira tsitsi nevakuru vake, kukwira pabasa, kuwana mari yakawanda, nezvimwewo. Uye anotanga kuita zvese pamutengo wehukama hwemweya neshamwari yezuro. Zviri pachena kuti munhu wose anofanira kutarisira hupenyu hwake pachake pachake. Asi chinhu chimwe chete kana iwe uchikwikwidzana nevanhu vasingaswedere pedyo, avo vanewe pasi pemamiriro akafanana. Uyezve chimwe chinhu, kana iwe uchikwikwidzana neshamwari yepedyo, mukoma kana wechipiri shamwari, wavakakwanisa kurichiki pamwe pamwe mubhokisi rejecha ...
* Nzira yechitatu iri mumamiriro ezvinhu apo shamwari dziri pamatanho akasiyana-siyana ematanho, anonzi "service" - pakutanga kana kupfuura nguva. Nechepfungwa, zvinhu zvose zvakajeka: pamabasa iwe uri mubati uye pasi, kumba - shamwari. Uye kunyanya kuponesa kunyorera kwakadaro kunenge kusingaiti. Ukama newaimbova neshamwari inobatwawo negodo, kusvetuka mukati memwoyo nerima runyararire, uye kutsamwa pawe. Mumwe anotsamwa kuti wechipiri muhomwe yakakwirira uye basa rakachena, rechipiri rinotsamwa kuti rokutanga rinoda mukubatana naye pachake dzimwe ropafadzo dzakanaka uye kunyatsoteerera mafungiro.
Mune shoko, kukumbira shamwari shamwari kune vamwe vake, imwe kana imwe ichaita kuti kurashikirwa kuve zvakadaro. Uye kazhinji kurasikirwa uku hakuna zvakakwana. Saka, zvakakodzera kukanda miedzo yakadaro. Zviri nani kumupa mari pachikwereti kana mazano akanaka, kwaunogona kutsvaga basa idzva! Uye ushamwari ihwo hukama, uye kushanda kumusangano hakuzovi chipingamupinyi.