Makore makumi maviri apfuura apfuura avo vasina kushanda, zvaive tsika yekudana maharasi. Nhasi, nerufaro, hakuna munhu achafunga nezvokupa mhosva mukadzi anogara ari pamba. Uye zvikonzero izvi zvinogona kunge zvakasiyana chaizvo. Asi pasinei nemamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo, vose vasaimba, munguva pfupi kana kuti gare gare, vanotarisana nezvinetso zvinosangana nekukurukurirana, kurasikirwa kweunyanzvi hwemhizha, mafungiro akaderera.
Pink-cheeked mwana
Ichi chinyoro-cheeked chinyorwa chinyorwa, chinokanganisa kufungidzira nemakumbo uye mapeni, yava chinhu chikuru chekuvapo kwako. Nguva dzose unogunun'una mukunetseka kusingaperi pamusoro pake. Somugumisiro, mutsara wenyu wega, wakataurwa pamusoro pezuva racho, inokukwazisa kwenguva pfupi kune murume achidzoka kubva kubasa. Mushure megore rehupenyu hwakadai, unoona kuti izwi rako rakanyatsooma uye rinoshandura kune mazwi chaiwo se "bu-bu", "a-ta-ta" uye "agu". Munguva yekukurukurirana kwefoni neshamwari, iwe unogumira pamashoko akareruka, uye kunyange mhinduro monosyllabic "hongu-kwete." Uye kubhururuka kusingatarisirwi kunouya apo, mushure mokunge uri mukana unofadza wekambani, iwe neimwe nzira haugoni kutsigira hurukuro. Uye iwe unotya kutaura. Iwe unotya kuvhara chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka uye chinoratidzika chisina maturo.
Chinetso chii: Kurasikirwa nounyanzvi hwekutaura uye kuderedza mazwi echirwere nekuda kwekusakwanisa kukurukurirana.
Solution: Usarega kurasikirwa kwekare kwemashoko kunobatsira kuverenga mabhuku echikoro kana kudzidza mutauro wemumwe mutauro. Kunyange mwana achiri kurara, iwe uchakwanisa kukunda mapeji akawanda ebhuku rinofadza.
Uye zvakadaro, hakuna chinhu chinokwanisa kutora mararamiro ehupenyu. Paunenge uri muchipatara kana paimba yekutamba, tarisa-tarisa. Zvechokwadi pachava nemamimai akawanda akadaro ari pedyo, avo vanozofara kugovana mazwi kune mumwe munhu. Zviri nani kubvumirana nevamwe vavo pamusoro pemubatsiro pamwe chete uye nguva nenguva "kutora" imwe nguva kwemaawa mashomanana emhuka dzose kuitira kuti vamwe vose vagare vakanyarara uye vataure pamusoro pekombe yeiyo. Iyi nzira inokubvumira kuti uuraye shiri mbiri nedombo rimwechete: apo vanaamai vanogovera nhau, vana vavo vanonzwisisa hutano hwekutanga hwekukurukurirana.
Nokuda kwekuguma
Dzimwe nguva munhu anozvibatanidza akasungwa neimba kwete yeavo pachake, asi nekuda kwekuti, somuenzaniso, zvinetso zvehutano. Mamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo: Mukadzi wechidiki akamanikidzwa kupedza mwedzi miviri zvishoma asina kusiya pamba, mushure mokunge agamuchira kugadzirisa zvakanyanya. Chimwe chirevo chakakonzerwa nekuti vanachiremba vakamurambidza kwenguva pfupi kubva pakuverenga nekuona TV. Kubatana chete nekunze kwenyika kwakanga kuri foni uye amai, avo vakauya naye zvokudya shure kwebasa. Kwapera vhiki, akazonzwa asina kufara uye akagura kubva muupenyu.
Chinetso chii: Kukanganiswa kune vamwe uye kusava nekutaurirana.
Solution: Chinhu chekutanga chekuita ndechokuisa pfungwa pakugadzirisa uye kutsvaga pfungwa dzose dzekutambudzika. Ona chirwere ichi semukana wokuzorora uye kuunganidza pfungwa dzako. Kukamanikidzwa "nyore" kunogona kuchinja kukunda. Gadzirira iwe boka rekutsigira. Usanonoka kukumbira shamwari dzako kuti dzibatsirwe. Asi ivo shamwari kuti vave nesu mumufaro uye mukusuwa. Mushure mekunge munyorera shamwari dzenyu dzose, hamuzovi nehana-kubva kune vaenzi. Somugumisiro, iwe uchaenda kuchigadzirisho zvakakurumidza kupfuura zvakagara zvataurwa nachiremba.
Muchienda pasina
"Sei ndisingafaniri kushanda pamba?" - Mubvunzo uyu unowanzobvunzwa nevakagadziri, vatapi venhau, vashanduri nevamiririri vemamwe mabasa "kunze". Uye zvino inouya rusununguko rwakamirira kwenguva refu: iwe unomuka, kana iwe uchida, unoshanda kana pane mafungiro. Zvinoratidzika kuti zuva racho rinogara kwenguva refu uye zvose zvinogona kuitwa. Asi dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvisingazivikanwi zvinowanikwa muhupenyu hwei-freelancer. Somuenzaniso, iwe unogara mangwanani kuti kombiyuta ishande, uye gare gare manheru iwe unoona kuti kuongorora tsamba, kutaurirana ku ICQ uye kupindura kune vamwe vanhu blogs nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero kutora zuva rose. Pedyo kusvika pakati peusiku, iwe unofanirwa kuzviputira nekapu yekofi uye kushanda kusvikira mangwanani, uchipika uye uchitaura kuti "izvi hazvizovi zvakare"!
Imwe iyo yakanyanyisa, iyo inoshandiswa nevashambadzi vemahara, inoshanda kusina mazuva kubva uye mazororo. Apo mirairo inobatsira inobatanidzwa imwe pashure peimwe, zvingava zvakaoma kutaura "kurega." Uye vanhu vanongowanzo "kukanganwa" nezvekuzorora, kukurukurirana neshamwari nehama. Anonunura kubva kune hupenyu huri kunze, anorega kufarira pane zviri kuitika zvakapoteredza.
Chinetso chii: Kusarudzwa kwezvinhu nokuda kwekupedzisira, kushaya sangano, kunzwa kuti nguva "rubber", kana, zvakare, kukwanisa kukwegura mutambo pakati pebasa uye hupenyu hwose.
Solution: Chinhu chakareruka chaunogona kuita munyaya iyi ndechokuita zvirongwa nenguva. Uye nhamba yematambudziko inofanira kunge iri nguva pfupi (yemangwana, yeChishanu yepedyo) uye nguva refu (inoteerera mirairo yemwedzi kana maviri mberi). Mukuwedzera, zvakakosha kuzviita mutemo wekuita zvinhu zvinokurumidza uye zvinokosha pakutanga kwezvose uye kwete kutanga mamwe asati apera. Izvi zvicharamba basa rose uye kurara usiku. Kazhinji kacho kukurukura neshamwari zvinorarama, saka iwe uchanetseka nekutya musati maita hurukuro.
Vagadziri veimba paanoda
Vanofara vatenzi vakapfuma uye mikana isingashandisi zvachose, zvinoshamisa, kubva kumarudzi ese edzimai vane mafungiro ehupombwe anotambura. Pakutanga hupenyu hunoratidzika sehupenyu hunopfuurira. A beauty salon, kemikati yefitness, chatter ne musikana mu cafe - ndiro zuva rakapfuura. Asi pasina nguva inotanga kubereka. Mifungo pamusoro pekusaziva kwavo pachavo inouya mupfungwa dzangu. Kunyanya kana kutarisa kushanda shamwari, kuzvikudza kwekuita basa. Sezvo kubva pasi pevhu munoita shanje benzi uye kusaderera kwakaoma. Mushure memazana emakore ehupenyu hwakadaro kune matambudziko ekukurukurirana, hukama hwemhuri hunoderera.
Chinetso chii: Kunyanya kuzviremekedza, kusagutsikana mukati.
Solution: Funga iwe sechimwe chinhu chinofadza, kuitira kuti kana iwe uchitaura nezvazvo, meso ako anopenya uye mafungiro ako anokura. Kune rumwe rutivi, zvichaita kuti iwe ugone kugara iwe kumba uye kuzadza hupenyu hwako nekutora mutsva. Pane imwe - maonero akanaka echokwadi anouya kubva kwauri, achakwezva nekunyengedza murume wako. Iye achanzwisisa kuti hausi kungoita basa rokuchengetedza imba, asi unotungamirira hupfumi, hupenyu hunofadza.
Basa rinokuvadza
Masayendisiti anotaura kuti vakadzi vari pamba nguva dzose vari pangozi yekudzidzira asthma kudarika kushanda. Chikonzero chikuru ndechekusangana nguva dzose nevhu guru nevhudzi remhuka. Uyezve, vakadzi vanogara pamba nevana vane imwe nguva nehafu yenguva yakawanda yekuve nezvinetso zvemwoyo.
Izvi ndizvo chete zvinowanzoitwa mienzaniso yezvinetso nekukurukurirana. Panogona kuva nezvimwe zvakawanda. Asi kuvonga nzira dzokurwisa kutya usati wataurirana, zvinokwanisika kukunda matambudziko ose uye zvakare kuva nhengo yakakwana yevanhu.