Kunyangwe pamutauro wemutauro munyika muno mune musiyano muzita remurume nemudzimai. Zvinotendwa kuti murume wechiJapan anogara kunze kweimba, uye mukadzi ari mumba, iyo inoratidzwa mumashoko okuti "murume kunze, mukadzi mukati." Asi mumakore apfuura, hukama huri pakati pemurume nemudzimai hwakachinja zvikuru muJapan.
Sezvakanga zvakaita kare
Kubva pamazuva ekare, murume wekuJapan akatarirwa mamwe mabasa ehutano kupfuura mukadzi. Mumwe murume wechiJapan anobatanidzwa munharaunda yakakura-mumapoka ezvemhizha, mumhuri, umo maanoita nzvimbo iri nani muhurumende. Nzvimbo yemukadzi iri mumba. Asi kuparadzirwa kwakadaro kwezvinhu hazvirevi hutongi, hunowanzo, semuenzaniso, muChina. Mumhuri dzakawanda nhaka yenhaka yakapfurikidza nevakadzi. Uye dai murume uyu aiva mukuru muguta, iyo nharaunda kana zvishoma pamusangano, ipapo mukadzi wacho ndiye aiva mukuru mumba.
Pakati pemurume nemukadzi muJapan kwemazana emakore akawanda pakanga pane kuparadzana zvakajeka kwezvikamu zvesimba. Iye ndiye tenzi wenyika, ndiye ishekadzi weimba. Pakanga pasina mubvunzo wekuparadzana kwemhosva kune umwe neumwe. Mukadzi akanga asina kodzero yekupindira munyaya dzomumwe wake, uye murume akanga asina kodzero yekuvhota mumba uye kunyange mukupararira kwemari. Uye zvakanyanya hazvirevi kuti munhu aite mabasa epamba - kuchenesa, kubika kana kushamba.
Kuroorana muJapan kwave kwenguva refu yakakamurwa kuva miviri miviri - kuroorana kwevimbiso uye kuroorana nekuda kwe rudo. Imba yekutanga yakagadziriswa nehama dzevakaroorana, yechipiri chichato chinogona kuitika kunze kwekuti murume nemudzimai vakaramba kubvuma kusarudzwa kwevabereki. Kusvikira kuma1950, michato yemvumo muJapan yaiva kanopfuura katatu nhamba yemichato ye rudo.
Zvakadini zvino?
Nzira dzekushingaira kusabatanidzwa kwevakadzi muhupenyu hwepakati pevanhu dzakagadzirisawo Japan. Izvo chete kukurudzirwa kwekuenzana pakati pepabonde kune mamiriro ezvinhu chaiwo, zvakasiyana zvakasiyana neEurope.
Kukura kukuru, izvi zvakagadziriswa zvakakanganisa mhuri uye kuroorana, nharaunda yehukama hwehukama. Basa remabasa riri kuitika zvishoma nezvishoma kuchinja.
Mukadzi uyu aiva nemukana wekushanda uye akawana nzvimbo dzakakwirira mumakambani. Zvisinei, kuitira kuti vavake basa, chiJapane ichiri kuda zvakanyanya kupfurikidza nemaJapan. Semuenzaniso, hapana hutano hwehutano hwevakadzi hunenge huri pamuviri uye mushure mokuberekwa. Kuenda kwemaMaternity kunogona kukuvadza zvakanyanya basa remukadzi, uye haazombogamuchiri mushure mekunge kurega kwenguva yakareba panzvimbo imwe chete. Akabereka mwana, mukadzi anofanira kutanga basa kubva munharaunda, kunyange kana achizviita mukati mekambani imwe chete.
Izvi kusaruramisira kwevanhu kwakakonzera kukura kukuru mukusurukirwa kwekusurukirwa. Kwete muEurope neRussia bedzi, vanhu vakatanga kutamba zvepamutemo uye vakasarudza kurarama vasina mumwe wavo. Ukama hutsva pakati pemurume nemudzimai muJapan vane chimiro chimwechete: chido choga woga uye mararamiro ehupenyu. Varume vakanga vasingafariri kuroorwa nevanoshanda, nokuti havagoni kubata neimba. Mukadzi haadi kuvimbisa murume anotarisira imba uye mwana, kana asina chokwadi kuti anoda kusiya basa iri rakabudirira rakagadzirwa.
Asi sezvo vawana rusununguko rwehama kubva pakufunga kwemajeri, vakadzi vechiJapan neveJapan vakatanga kuroora kakawanda nokuda kwerudo. Kubvira kuma1950, nhamba yemichato ye rudo yakakura zvikuru, uye mumakore ekuma1991 yaive yakapetwa katatu pane zvibvumirano. Paunofunga nezvenyaya yemukati yemuchato, hama uye vabereki vomuchato nemukomba vakatanga kutora zvakanyanya maonero evarume vangakaroorana. Kana murume nemudzimai vasingadikanane, kana mumwe wavo ari murudo kune mumwe, imba yakadaro haisisipo, uye vane kodzero yekusarudza navanofanira kuvaka mhuri.
Zvichave sei?
Kana mamwe maonero pamusoro pehukama pakati pemurume nemudzimai achashandura kubva kumadzitateguru kuenda kune hurumende, ipapo Japan iri kumirira zvinhu zvose zvakafanana izvo zviripo kare muEurope uye neU.S. Nguva yewanano ichawedzera, nhamba yevana mumhuri ichaderera, kuberekwa kwekuberekwa kuchaderera. Pashure pezvose, vasati vasarudza kuroorwa, vakadzi vazhinji vanoedza kuvaka basa uye kuchengeteka ramangwana.
Uye zvakadaro Japan ine ruvara rwayo chaiyo uye tsika yaro, iyo inogona kukanganisa kuti hukama huri pakati pemurume nemudzimai huchava mune ramangwana. Semuenzaniso, zvakaoma kufungidzira mhuri inofanirwa kuve yakakurumbira munyika ino, sezvairi kuEurope. Mhuri yevagari vemhuri - ichi ndicho chimwe umo pasina kujekesana kwakakwana kwemabasa pakati pemurume nemukadzi. Mukadzi anogona kuwana mararamiro apo murume ari kuita musha uye vana, zvino vanochinja mabasa. Utungamiri mukicheni, mumubhedha kana mukugoverwa kwemapfupa emhuri kubva kumurume kuenda kumudzimai, ndokudzoka. Zvichida, Japan ichaenderera mberi nekugadzirisa ikozvino mumhuri umo vaviri vakaroorana vanoshanda. Mudzimai achange achishanda kunze kwekushanda kumba, uye murume wacho acharamba ari "marara makuru mumba," seimwe yeieroglyphs inotsanangura, inoratidza kuti murume ari mumba haafaniri kuita chero chinhu, achipindira uye kuchinetseka pasi petsoka dzemudzimai wake.