Iwe unotarisa Snezhana uye unoshamisika iwe pachako: ichokwadi here amai vane vana vana ?! Vechidiki, vakanaka, vatsva, mumamiriro makuru! Anobvunzwa kubva kune zvinyorwa zvaanowana simba, muiti wechiteresi uye mutereri weTV pasina kupokana: "Muvana vako!"
Snezhana Yegorova naAnton Mukharsky vakangwarira zvikuru kuchengetedza hupenyu hwavo hwega, saka isu hatina kumanikidza kutora mifananidzo nemwanasikana wavo muduku Arina. Panguva yebvunzurudzo, mwana wacho akanga apedza mwedzi. Snezhana, ureurura, unonzwa humwe humwe huri hupenyu huri shure kwekuberekwa kwaArina? Kwakange kusina kadhidheni kuchinja. Apo mwana wekutanga anooneka, zvinoratidzika kuti nyika iri kutendeuka. Uye kana ichi chiri chechina, zvinhu zvakawanda zvatova pachena. Chinhu chimwe chete chinoshamisa ndechokuziva kwekukurumidza kwekunzwa kwedzimwe mwedzi yokutanga yehupenyu hwegomba rakakanganwa. Uye zvakare iwe unotyisidzika: vana vari kunyanya kuduku here? Vanokurumidza kukura sei! Ndinoyeuka apo mwanasikana wangu wokutanga akaberekwa, ndaigara ndichida kuti azarure maziso ake, akagara pasi, akati "aga", akatanga kutaura, akamhanya kuchikoro. Ndaigara ndichikurumidza kukura kwake. Uye zvino, pane zvinopesana, handikurumidza uye kunakidzwa nenguva dzinoshamisa. Ndinotoda mwana achichema! Hazvigumburi ini.
Iwe unonzwa sei mune basa raamai vevana vana? Zvinoratidzika kwandiri, zvinoshamisa! Asi avo vakamupoteredza pane chimwe chikonzero vanoshamiswa nemashoko aya. Zvinosuruvarisa, mazuva ano vanhu vanoziva kuti pane chimwe chikonzero kana chimwe chavasingagoni kuwana vana. Uye mhuri yakakura chinhu chinobva kunze. Iwe unoziva, ndinonamatira vana vaduku, kunyanya vana. Kutendeseka, ndaizoberekazve. Asi mamiriro ezvinhu aripo munyika yedu haana izvi. Haisi chete uye kwete zvikuru munyaya yezvakakosha-ini ndinonyanya kunetseka nezvoutsika. Kunyanya ndine vana, kunyanya kushamwaridzana ini ndinova. Ndiri kufarira kune nyika ipi zvayo yavanokura, izvo vanhu vachava venguva yavo. Ndapota titiudze nezvekuzvarwa. Ndakabereka muchipatara № 1 kuna chiremba, watakamboziva kwemakore gumi namaviri. Arina ndiye mwana wangu wechitatu, waakagamuchira. Mwanasikana wangu wokutanga Stasya, ini ndakabereka, sezvavanotaura, neAmbulensi. Ndakanga ndichiri muduku zvikuru panguva iyoyo, ndaigara kune rimwe guta nemwene vamwene vangu. Uye, kufanana nevevanhu vakawanda vanogara, ini handina kunyanya kufunga pamusoro pekudiwa kwekuwana chiremba zvisati zvaitika uye kubvuma kuti aizotungamirira pamuviri wako. Saka, ndine mukana wekuenzanisa chiitiko ichocho chokutanga nekuberekwa kwakanyatsozivikanwa nachiremba wawakatarirwa. Kusiyana kwakakura - zvose mukutora pachedu, uye nekuremekedza, uye, nekudzika, semugumisiro.
Nokudaro, kana mukadzi ari kunyanya kufunga nezvekubereka uye achida kufara mberi nekukurukura nemwana (kuitira kuti mwana anounza mufaro, akarara zvakanaka, ane utano uye haanetseka), mumwe anofanira kutora chisarudzo chechiremba zvakanyanyisa. Hakusi vazhinji vanachiremba vakanaka, asi ivo. Nokudaro, ndinogara ndichitaura nekufara kukuru nekuonga kwachiremba wangu, uyo kwandiri ari guru guru, mwari mubasa rake. Gore rino ndakavezve ndakagutsikana neizvi. Ichokwadi chokuti kuberekwa kwaiva nemaminitsi gumi namashanu pasina kuputika uye mamwe matambudziko, uye ipapo handina kureva nhema kwemazuva masere asingakanganwiki uye haana kuonana nekudengenyeka kwepaspartum, kungofanirwa chete.
Kuberekwa kwemwana mumwe nomumwe kwakasiyana. Chii chisina kujairika pamusoro penyaya yaSnezhana Yegorova naAnton Mukharsky? Snezhana akazviwanira pachake chinhu chimwe: mishonga yedu yemagariro nemafungiro akazara kumubereki ari pamwero weMiddle Ages. Semuenzaniso, mune dzimwe nyika dzakasimudzika dzekuMadokero dzine hupenyu hwepamusoro hwehupenyu nemishonga, nguva yakakodzera yekuberekwa kwemwana wekutanga makore 34. Uye zvakadini nesu? Pamadzimai ane pamuviri mushure memakore makumi maviri nemaviri ane zita re "kare-timer" rakanamatira. Zvinonzwisisika, vanaamai vakadaro vanoda kurapwa kwakanakira ivo pachavo. Iko ndiko kuti, vanachiremba uye yose hurongwa hwehutano hwakarongedza mukadzi uyu nokuda kwezvose, zvakakwana kubereka. Saka zvakanga zviri mandiri. Ndinogara ndichifunga nezvekushushikana kwemwana nguva dzose, nokuti amai ndivo maitiro angu chaiwo. Ndinotenda chaizvo vana vangu: hakuna mumwe wavo akandipa zvishamiso zvingadai zvakaremedza hupenyu hwangu. Nokudaro, ndakanga ndakanyarara pamusoro pekuita kwangu pamuviri, kusvikira ndatanga kutaura pamusoro pekudiwa kwemimwe miedzo: vanoti, une makore. Pakazosvika zera rangu pakanga pane mhirizhonga yakadaro zvokuti ini pachake ndakavhiringidzika. Uye, pachena, the Aesculapius zvishoma nezvishoma asi zvechokwadi yakaisa kutya mukati mangu.
Pakutanga imwe duku , asi iyo yakaswededza zuva rekubereka rava, nekuwedzera ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndiri mupfungwa dzisina kunyatsogadzirira kubereka! Paiva nokutya: uye kamwe-kamwe maererano nezera rangu chimwe chinhu chisingaoneki chichaitika (kunyange zvazvo ndainzwa zvakasikwa, ndaive pasi pekucherechedza uye chiremba haana kushungurudza). Ndakanga ndiri muchipatara ndakagoverana kutya kwangu nachiremba wangu: "Unoziva, Dmitry Nikolayevich, ndinotya! Kwenguva yokutanga muupenyu hwangu. Uku ndiko kuberekwa kwechina, asi handina kumbobvira ndichitya. " Uye akapindura kuti: "Snezana, iwe uri kunze kwepfungwa dzako here? Ndiani wamuteerera ikoko? Zvose zvichava zvakanaka, usanetseka. "
Mushure mokuberekwa kwaArina, vazhinji vezvenhau vakasarudza kuzivisa nyika yeyi nhau. Uye ini ndakanyatsoteerera kune imwe nhuti: mabhuku akadhindwa haana kukanganisa kukuyeuchidza vaverengi kuti ndevepi kwandiri nemurume wangu. Zvechokwadi munhu wese asina zvaakanyora akanyora: Snezhana Egorova (37), Anton Mukharsky (41). Ndatsamwa kwete nokuti ndinovanza zera rangu. Zviri pachena izvi zvinoratidza zvakajeka: sangano redu harina kugadzirira kuti vanhu vave vabereki mushure mechimwe chizvarwa. Tichiri kutenda kuti izvi zvakakodzera chete kwezera duku. Nyoka, zvinodiwa kubereka, nepo kune hutano, kuitira kuti uve nenguva yekudzidzisa. Uye kuti murume wepakati-kati angada kuva nevana ?! Mutoro wakadaro! Mune maonero angu, patinowedzera kukura tinova, kukwidziridzwa kwepamusoro kwatinokwanisa kupa mwana wedu, uyewo mumwe, hukuru hwekuratidza nekutarisira. Vabereki vakakura vanoziva, uye mwana wavo anonzwa akadzivirirwa munyika ino. Nokudaro, ndinotenda kuti munyika yedu "makore" mafungiro ekurera vana anenge ava kuda kuchinja.
Kwakanga kune matambudziko panguva yekuberekwa here? Arina ndiye mwana mukuru pane vose vana vangu. Akayera 4 kg 40 g uye kuwedzera kwemasendimita 53. Kuenzanisa: mwanasikana wangu mukuru, wandakabereka makore 17 apfuura, akaberekerwa kuyerwa kwemakirogiramu mazana maviri negumi nemazana matatu g g kusiyana kukuru. Kubvuma, kwaiva nenguva shoma apo ndaifunga kuti ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kubereka, kuti hazvizobviri kukwidza musoro mukuru uyu. Ini ndakatya chaizvo. Zvaiita sekuti nzira yacho inogara kwenguva refu uye haizomboperi. Vakadzi vazhinji havafungi kuti vave mai kuburikidza nekutya kurwadziwa, nokuti nyaya dzinotyisa dzakanzwika mukuratidzwa kwevabereki "vane ruzivo" saiye. Asi ini ndichiri kuedza kutaura pamusoro payo nekunakidza, nokuti ndine chokwadi pamusoro pokubereka mwana. Uye vamwe vane ruzivo rwakashata: mumwe wemadzimai akabereka kwazvo uye haasarudze pane kuwedzera kuwedzera kumhuri. Kubvira pakakwirira kwehupfumi hwangu hwemhuri ndinokwanisa kuvimbisa kuti kurwadziwa kwekuberekwa kunokurumidza kukanganwika uye kunokonzerwa nemufaro uye mufaro wekutaurirana nemwana. Muzhinji, ndiri muenzaniso wakaipa wokutaura pamusoro pokukundikana! Ndinoziva kuti Anton aivepo pakuberekwa kwaArina ... Pakutanga, ndaipikisana nevana vakaroorana, nokuti vasati vambova varume, kwete zvaive mumhuri - havana kundibvumira muimba yekubereka. Makore matatu apfuura ndakabereka Andryusha.
Apo hondo dzairamba dzichienderera mberi , akamirira kutendeuka kwake mucheche asati aberekwa. Masuo ekerekeji akazaruka, uye ndakaona kuberekwa kune imwe nyika kubva pakona yeziso rangu. Izvo zvaiita sezvakangoita zvepanyama kwandiri, zvisingafanirwi nemaziso evanhu. Saka ndakazvisarudzira kuti handingambofi ndakadana murume wangu kuti aberekwe.
Kuvapo kwaAnton kwakange kusina nguva. Ndakanga ndisinganzwisisi: kana ndatova nemimba, kana kudya zvakanyanya. Pakutanga mimba yangu yakanzwa, ndokubva ndatanga kutora musana wangu. Kazhinji, ndakasarudza kudana chiremba chete kana zvichiitika. Uye anoti kwandiri "Kurumidza kuisa zvinhu uye uende." Tiri munzira, ini naAnton takamira kuKiev-Pechersk Lavra kunwa mvura, nokuti hwaiva usiku hwekubhabhatidzwa. Uye ndakamubvunza kuti: "Zvinoratidzika kwandiri, Antosha, kuti ndichazobereka mangwanani. Zvimwe iwe uchagara neni? Zvose zvakafanana, handigone kurara, asi ini ndoga ndoga. " Uye akabvuma. Asi hazvina kutora nguva refu kumirira: mushure mekusvika hondo idzi dzakatanga. Mukuputsa takataura nachiremba, takaseka.
Somugumisiro, Snezhane Egorova naAnton Mukharsky vakafunga kuti kuberekwa ibasa rakaisvonaka. Asi kero yemwana yakanga yatotanga kubuda, ndakabvunza murume wangu kuti aende: zvakaonekwa kwandiri kuti aizorwara, uye panzvimbo pokuisa pfungwa pakubereka mwana, ndaifunga nezvekunzwa kwake kana kuti kutarisa kwandinoita. Sei ndichida izvi? Ndakatotaurira vanachiremba kuti: "Budai kunze!" Uye ivo vanoti kwandiri: "Sei iwe, Snezhana, kune madigiri makumi maviri echando mumugwagwa. Muridzi wembwa haazodzinga kunze kweimba, asi iwe unotungamirira murume! Tichamutumira kuimba inotevera ndokumukumbira kuti asatora. " Asi Arina paakangozvarwa, Anton akakurumidza kudanwa. Paakacheka tambo yombilical, akatanga kutora mwanasikana wake mumaoko ake. Kubva pane zvakaitika kwauri, chii chakanaka pakuva nemhuri huru? Chokutanga, kana munhu ane vana vakawanda, haakanganwi ubwana hwake. Vana vanoita kuti tirambe takamirira chishamiso. Mamwe mazororo mumhuri: Miti yeKrisimasi, ma teyi ari mumba. Muchidimbu, kune mamiriro ayo munhu mukuru anoramba ari mumvura yakadzika semwana.
Vana - zvakanaka chaizvo! Handizivi kunyange zvataizoita nemurume wangu kana tisina Pati, Sasha, Andryusha naArina. Zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti muhupenyu hwedu chinhu chikuru chisingagoneki chingazoita.
Ndinorangarira mbuya vangu, avo vakararama makore 85. Aiva nevanasikana vanomwe uye vazukuru gumi nevatanhatu. Handina kuona munhu anofara! Zvichida, kwandiri mupfungwa iyi tine nyota chaizvo. Handina kumbozvidya mwoyo nekuda kwekufunga kwezvandaizoita nevana vakawanda. Ndakakurira mumhuri umo vana vakanga vasina dambudziko: maitiro avo aitarisira nechido.
Panguva imwe chete, ndinoziva kuti chii chakafanana kuva mwana oga wevabereki. Pasinei nokuti ndine vana vakoma nevanin'ina vatinoshamwaridzana navo, ini ndakanga ndichiri kuda kuti munun'una wangu (kana kuti "hanzvadzi yangu") agare aripo pandakanga ndiri mwana. Iye zvino, pandakakurira, handina huwandu hwemunhu wekuzvarwa angazova "wangu" - pasinei nokuti ndiri akanaka kana akaipa, kubudirira kana kukanganisa. Murume ari akaberekwa neropa, uyo, kana chimwe chinhu chichiitika kwandiri, chinouya uye chinopa chikwereti. Ndicho chikonzero ndakazvara mwana wangu wechipiri: Ndakafunga, regai vasikana vese vave pamwe chete. Ndakanga ndisingazivi ipapo kuti handingamboregi izvozvo. Ndiri kufara kuti vana vanonditevera upenyu hwose hunoziva. Ndinoda kutenda kuti Arina haazokwanisi kukura, sezvatichava nevana vazukuru - vasikana vasikana vashoma. Cool!