Sei tichivanza manzwiro edu uye manzwiro edu?

Kana paiva nechigadziri chinogadzirisa nguva yekutaura mazwi, pakati pevatungamiri chokwadi chekuti "Handina hanya", "kupfira", "hazvina basa" pamwe chete "usanetseka", "uzvikande pamusoro wako" uye "nyundo". Kana iwe wakagumburwa kana kuti mukomana ane bang haasati adzoka, kana kazhinji kacho ari oga uye kazhinji anonyangadza mumoyo make - ivo vanobatsira nguva dzose. Uye iwe unobvisa zvisingabatsiri, "marara", uvhare zvose kuputika mumvura, yeafirivhaesh armor, dhonza huodhu uye "nenzira imwecheteyo" kurarama, tarisa nyaya dzakatevedzana, kumbira kune ani zvake waunoda, enda kunoshanda. Sei iwe uchiita izvi uye kuti usingave sechando chakanyanyisa, kuvhara manzwiro ako nemanzwiro pasi pejeri rinorema? Zvakanaka kuvharwa. Anokanganisa, saLara Croft. Tarisa kubva pakureba kwaro kusakwanisa. Fungidzira iwe wakasimba. Vanaamai vaTurgenev vaduku vane handkerchief yakasviba havaremekedzwi. Vanononoka, ivo vanotambura. Uye isu tinorarama munguva yekufambisa, munguva yeInternet uye makambani ekugadzira foni. Manzwiro haasi e-ergonomic uye nenzira yakakodzera haafaniri kukwanise kuzvinhu zvemazuva ano. Ndezvipi zvino? Dhinda bhokisi re "panze" pasi pezvinyorwa zvinoshungurudza pamusoro pembongoro, kuti ipe ruble zana kune mumwe munhu pabhino mumatare, uyo mufananidzo wake zuva rechitatu rinopenya mumagariro evanhu. Kunyange kutsamwa kunowanzobudiswa zvinyarara, kuomesa minwe yehonye mu aipad. Zvakanaka, usakurumidza kuenda kumahwendefa, izwi rakarurama.

Takava akanaka uye mapurasitiki, takaramba zvose zvinokambaira kunze. Mask-kunyemwerera, takatsiva chirevo chekuda kuziva, panzvimbo yemafungiro ezvisikwa, tinoratidza musi wekutanga seti yemitemo kubva kuNLP. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechokuti: "Usaratidze murume wacho manzwiro echokwadi." Iko kunyadzisa kunotyisa - uye kamwe-kamwe iye achafungidzira kuti iwe unoda kuroora. Kunyangwe zvinotyisa kuratidza kuti uri kusuruvara nhasi. Aiwa, musikana akanaka, mune shangu dzakanaka, ane zvigaro zvepamusoro, anofanira kunge "pane zvakanaka." Uye zvino kamwe-kamwe haugoni kufungira Lara Croft, uye izvozvo, nechekachekete, Turgenev?

Forever green
Tinobva kupi kwatinotya kuzviwana isu chaiye-pasina manzwiro ekufunga, pasina matanho aya? Muongorori wepanhau weCanada Gordon Newfeld akanyora kuti urongwa hwakadaro hwekuchengetedza hunonyanya kukosha hwevechiri kuyaruka.

Paunenge uchitaura pamusoro pekudzidzira, kazhinji zvinoreva maonero akajeka kuhupenyu uye tsika yekushandisa nguva pamakombiyuta. Zvisinei, nehuduku hwedu tine chimwe chinhu chakafanana. Semuenzaniso, kusachena mupfungwa, kutya kwekutya kwemanzwiro, tsika yekukanda "kwandiri" muchimiro chekutsamwa kupi zvako. Pamuenzaniso wevechiri kuyaruka, izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti munhu anoda kushamwaridzana kwakasimba, kutendeseka, kusingaputsiki, sechitubu chendarira kuna Lenin. Apo vabereki vanobva kure nevana vavo, uye vana, ivowo, vasingateereri vabereki vavo, vezera vanotanga kuita sendimba yekambasi, vana vakadaro vanoenda kumafirimu nemwi nhasi, vanoseka pamwe mangwana, uye zuva rinotevera mangwana ivo vanove shamwari neshamwari yakawanda. Muhukama hwevamwe vezera hapana zvibvumirano zvinogona kuvimbwa, hapana gungwa rakachengeteka, hapana manzwiro ekuti iwe unonyatsozivikanwa uye unonzwisiswa. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, hutano hwakanyanya hwehutano hunozvidzivirira, hutsinye, kutya kwekukuvara, kusingapindirani nehupenyu. Willy-nilly zvakakosha kuva glacier nekudzokorora kusakundikana kwekutaura kwebhuramu. NeNewfeld, nenzira, zvinowanzoitika kuti vazhinji vedu kunyange mushure memakore uye tichiri tichiri kuyaruka, tichitya kutora kunzwisisika kwavo, zvichinyorwa mumugariro wekare wepfungwa. Asi kukura mupfungwa ndikowo kukwanisa kubvuma kutambudzwa kwako, dzimwe nguva uchiti "hongu, kunondishungurudza," "hungu, ini ndinonetseka," uye haisi kutaridzika seyemu.

Kutamba kudzivirira
Kuvapo pasina kushungurudzika, zvechokwadi, nhau yekare ye "murume ari munyaya". Pane imwe nguva paiva nehosi: magirazi emaziso pamhino, boka mumusoro wake, achivaka munhu wese mumutsara, asingambotauri kubasa, uye kazhinji achiisa zvose zviratidzo zvechinhu chesangano chesimbi. Uye ipapo ndakawira murudo-uye vakashamisika vaishanda navo vakacherechedza kuti bundle yakange ichinetseka, magirazi akabuda, uye pamushumo wegore negore, mumwe munhu akatora mwoyo. Pano ndihwo: upenyu, nemisodzi, uye rudo.

Iyowo nyaya yekurara kwekunaka, yechando nemafungiro mubhokisi, mubako uye murima. Kutanga ukama, zvichave zvakakosha kuparadzanisa ichando, uye izvi hazviiti nguva dzose nekutsvoda kamwe - pane dzimwe nguva unofanira kushanda pamwe nekusarudza. Uye zvino kunaka uku, ndiko kuti, mutariri, akaremerwa nemafungu ehomoni, anoshamiswa kuona nyika itsva ine ushingi. Anodzidza kuti mheni isati yatinhira-dutu inotonhora zvikuru uye inoita zvimwe zvinhu zvisingatarisirwi. Uyezve kushanduka kutsva muchibvumirano: muchinda anongotaridzika kuti asati ari muchinda, asi saka ... mhando chaiyo yakapfuura. Irosi inosvava, mwoyo inoenda ku urn, uye Lyudmila Prokofievna pakupedzisira anova satani. Zvaunofanira kuita, kudzivirirwa kuita. Rimwe nguva, haazoregi nyore nyore. Anokunda anotevera wemwoyo kunze kwekutsvaga achada mamwe matatu mabhururi, uye iyo haisi chokwadi icho chichashanda.

Murume uyu ari mumasikisi esimbi
Chinhu chisingafadzi zvikuru ndechekuti vashomanana vanhu vanozvingoita sezvifananidzo, ivo chaizvoizvo zviri nyore kuva. Kushanda nevana vakaoma vechidiki Newfeld vakaona kuti kusava netsitsi, kukwanisa kunzwisa tsitsi, mamiriro emuti wakaoma-mumatambudziko akawanda haasi mutambo wevanhu vose. Ndizvo chete kuti uropi hwakanyatsozvidziviririra pachako pamusoro pemhosva kuti yakabvisa tsitsi, kutya, uye chimwe chinhu zvakadzama. Mushure mekutambudzika kukuru kwepfungwa, tinova nekudzivirirwa kumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro munguva yemberi. Kubva pakakuvadzwa kutsva, uropi, hongu, hahudziviriri, asi inogona kumubatsira kuti arege kunzwa. Dzimwe nguva kushamwaridzana kwehukama kunoshanduka kuva nyika yakagadzikana. Kana uchinge wawira mukati maro, munhu haazorevi kunyengera sekuti "manzwiro akafa" kana kunyora ndima "pakati pedu makiromita okunyarara ..." Yakasimbiswa uye yakasungwa, mazino akavharwa. Nzira ipi yekucherechedza kuti denga riri pamusoro rave rava grey zvishoma? Kuti kunyemwerera kwomunhu hakugoni kubatazve? Ndiani anowanzozvidya mwoyo pamusoro pezvinyorwa zvakadaro? Izvo zvinokonzera kusakanganiswa chinhu chisingazwisisiki.

Tsitsi pamusoro pokusava nehanya
Zvisinei, pasina manzwiro, hupenyu hwevanhu hunongoderera. Ihwo hwose unyanzvi hunobva kuBeethoven's symphonies kusvika kumagadzirirwo emazuva ano nenzira yezvakaipisisa phalluses inonyanya kuratidza manzwiro. Bvisa hupenyu hwekunzwa - uye chii chichasara? Chimwe chinhu chisinganyatsozivikanwi chiripo.

Asi zviri nyore kupa mazano: "Zvibvumira kuva nemanzwiro," iwe unoti. Uye kamwe-kamwe vanhu vanopoteredza havanganzwisisi? Tinorarama mune tsika dzisingagamuchiri zvakasununguka kutaura kwemanzwiro, kunyanya munharaunda. Hazvina kufadza, kana ari mubhasi kwauri kune shure achapotsera: "Hei, mukadzi anonyadzisa, famba rwendo!" Zvisinei, pakudzivirira mafungiro matsva enyika uye maitiro ake, mumwe anofanira kunge achirwadziwa nemanzwiro.

Ita kuti pfungwa dzemuviri dzisvike hazviitike mu Museum of Fine Arts chete. Zvinobatsira kubhadhara kune nyika yakapoteredza: chii chakashambira nemakore, sei, kupoteredzwa, mapepa akatenderera kubva kubhurch, kuti mvura inonakidza inokwira sei munzira. Kune hukomba hwakawanda munyika. Yeuka chikoro chechikoro chemashoko - kune ma heroes ane ruzha kakawanda pakuona mifananidzo yemunhu wekuzvarwa uye vamwe vachikurumidza oaks vakamhanyira kundogamuchira nyika yeRussia, kutamba Kamarinsky kana kufungidzira. Zvakanaka, kazhinji, iwe unonzwisisa.

Usavhara muhukama. Kana varume vaidiwa kuitira kuti vamire pamberi pavo nguva dzose pachigadziko che "Smirno., Heel., Napra-a-in!", Zvingava zviri nani dai vakanga vasiri muupenyu hwedu zvachose. Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinofunga kuti iyi ndiyo mushonga wakanakisisa wekuteerera kune zvakasungirirwa. Iko kureva, ukama hwaunogona kusununguka, kuchema, kukumbira kunyaradzwa uye kugamuchira. (Nenzira iyo, kana murume wako akasimba epafudzi achida kuchema, iwe unofanira kuitora nemufaro.) Saka anovimba newe.)