Uye nhasi ndiyo tsika yekupa maruva kune vasikana pane imwe nguva, ingava zuva rokuzvarwa, zuva rekuyeuka, zuva kana kungova nechido chekuita kushamisika kunofadza musikana. Kazhinji, iyo hovha inobata isina ruvara rwemaruva. Kana munhu ari murudo, pakutanga kwehukama hwepabonde, zvakaoma kufungidzira kuti misangano yaiitwa pasina zvipo uye ... maruva. Munhu wose anoziva mazwi: "candy-buketny nguva." Kunyange rimwe ruva rimwe chete rinogona kuzviratidza zvakanyatsonaka pamusoro pemanzwiro kunze kwemhando yakawanda isinganyatsoenderana nemaoko. Maruva - izvi zvinonyanya kuva chiratidzo chekucherechedza uye vanenge vose vakadzi vanofara navo. Hazvigoneki kuti pachava nemusikana mumwechete uyo asina kubvumirwa kugamuchira mhuka sechipo. Asi vasikana vose vanoda maruva here?
Pasina mubvunzo, musika wemazuva ano unopa nhamba yakawanda yemaruva, marudzi akasiyana-siyana, maumbirwo, mhando, maruva emhando dzakasiyana-siyana uye zvirongwa zvinogadzirwa. Mabasa akadaro anowanika muguta rimwe nerimwe. Munzvimbo ipi neipi yekutengesa mapurisa unogona nyore kusarudza maruva akakodzera iwe zvose mukugadzira uye mutengo. Kunyangwe, rimwe ruvara, ruvara-rusingararamiro rwakanga rwakabvaruka kubva pamaruvabvu munzira inoenda kune rimwe zuva rinotonzera kutengesa uye mweya wekuda mumweya wemusikana. Murume akapa maruva kumusikana anokwanisa kutarisa kufarirwa uye maitiro akanaka emweya womunhu uyu. Kufungisisa pamusoro pezvose zvakaratidzwa, iwe unofungidzira uchiuya kumhedziso: hungu, vasikana vanoda maruva.
Asi pane zvakawanda zvevasikana uye mumwe nomumwe wavo ane maonero ake, anoshamiswa. Ngatiteerere kuti kusarudzwa kwemuti kunofanira kutorwawo zvakanyanya. Kana ukasarudza kupa mhandara musikana kwekutanga, zvino kana zvichibvira mubvunze kana anonzwa maruva. Izvi zvinoitika kuti mamwe emaruva musikana ane chirwere, uye zuva rorudo ruchava risina tariro. Kunewo vasikana vasina rudo rwemunhu muhupenyu hwavo. Vasikana vakadaro havana hanya nemaruva, zvidhori zviduku, zviyeuchidzo, mhuka nezvimwewo zve "zvinhu zvinotapira". Kune chikamu chikuru, ava ndivo vasikana vemabasa, asi ivo vachafadzwa nefoni itsva, peni yakashongedzerwa, nezvimwe zvakadaro, asi kwete kubva pamaruva emaruva pasina mubvunzo. Kune vasikana vanobudirira vanosarudza kugamuchira chipo, panzvimbo yeguruva foni itsva, zvipfeko zvepfeko kana chikwama chemafashoni, kana kuti zviri nani kune mumwe mushandi wekofi uyo achashandira mbuya wake akatendeka kwemakore anopfuura. Vasikana vakadaro vanowanzofunga kuti hapana chimwe chinhu chisina maturo kupfuura maruva achaoma nokukurumidza uye pasina chiyeuchidzo hapana chichasara. Asi isu hatifaniri kukanganwa kuti vasikana havadi maruva nezvipo, asi nokuda kwekuzviremekedza ivo pachavo, nokuda kwekutarisira uye kutarisirwa.
Zvakaoma kufungidzira zvimwe, kunze kwemaruva, unogona kupa musikana uye kunzwisiswa. Hazvina mhosva kuti vasikana vangani, zvisinei kuti maonero akawanda, maonero, mazano, maruva akapiwa vasikana, anopiwa, uye anogara achipiwa. Uye zvachose, hazvibatsiri kana iine mabhanji anokosha kana maruva emusango anowanzo, kana zvichida ichava ruva rimwe chete, richiripo, rinenge nzira chete yekuita kuti musikana ave akanaka, teerera, kugadzirisa kuva nemanzwiro ekudanana. Uye hazvina mhosva kuti vasikana vacho havana kubata sei zvipo, chero zvavanotaura, vanoramba vachida maruva uye ichi ndicho chipo chakanakisisa chevakawanda vavo. Varume, noushingi kupa vana vavo maruva, nokuti chinhu chikuru hachisi chipo, asi tarisa.