Iyo yakanaka sei mitsetse iyi, haisi ichokwadi: "Ah, Romeo, mudiwa Romeo"? Hazvizivikanwi kuti nei shuma yeShakespeare ichiratidza manzwiro ake zvakanyanya, zvichida nokuti achiri achiri muduku, kana kuti kushingaira kwemanzwiro ake kunomutadzisa nguva dzose zuva nezuva.
Mukadzi wese munyika muno anoda mudzimai wake kuti ataure mazwi ake ane rudo kakawanda. Zvakakodzera kuti munhu ataure mazwi "akanaka, anodikamwa, anodikamwa uye anodiwa", semukadzi anonyunguduka sechando chechando mukati megore, mumaoko ake. Asi zvakadaro vakadzi vari kunyanya kufarira kuti sei asingaiti izvi "Ndinoda".
Mukupindura kumubvunzo: "Unondida here," akataura chimwe chinhu chisina kuitika kwaari uye akaramba achiita bhizinesi rake pachake. Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa nyaya iyi. Kana kuti zvichida varume chete vane mutauro wavo, vanoidzaidza kuti "murume"?
Taura mhinduro: unoda kana kwete?
Vadiwa vedu vakaita semagandaralas: cherechedzai, haazombotauri nezvematambudziko ake kusvikira asvika pakabikira. Uye mazwi erudo? Ivo ndeyevanhu semisungo - ingozvitaura, uye yakatove-yakavimbiswa chimwe chinhu, pakanga pane kugadzikana - zvose zvakakundikana, uye iwe haudi kutarisa semunhu anotaura. Heino ivo vanyarara.
Anoda, asi akanyarara?
Munyika yedu yemazuva ano, mukadzi anoramba ari mukadzi, pasinei nokuti haana kuva muchengeti weimba chete, asiwo munhu anopa zvokudya. Asi dzimwe nguva chikamu chisina simba chevanhu chinokanganwa pamusoro pekutanga kwaro kuenda uye naizvozvo matambudziko anotanga. Kuti iwe udiwe, uye hongu kunyange kutaura pamusoro peizvi, kamwechete kamwe kwemavhiki matatu unofanira kuzvida. Zvakanaka, murambe, mumuchengete, uye muwane chete asingabvumirwi kune imwe pamba uye pasina kupupura kupisa, chii ichocho?
Kutaura kwokuti munhu anongoratidzira pfungwa dzangu ndinoda mazwi anoratidza rudo, anongotaura chete nemanzwiro emabasa: "Ndinovimbisa kukubatsira iwe pazvinhu zvose, ndichakutarisira iwe, ndicharegerera hama yako." Ngatisakanganwe kuti kune ma heroes epanguva yedu, zvakaoma kuziva chero manzwiro zvachose. Pashure pezvose, vanoisa kufungisisa kwavo mukati mavo: "Handichazombokupengai, musambochinja." Ivo pachavo vanoziva kuti kana vakasachengeta shoko ravo, vachakuvadza avo vanovatarisira. Asi chinhu chinonyanya kufadza ndechokuti varume pachavo havangave vakanaka kubva pairi sezvavanoita, nokuti vacharasikirwa nehupfumi hwavo, ivo vachangoerekana vawira mumaziso emukadzi. Saka chii chandinofanira kuita? Ingove wakanyarara, saka tichazoita kunze kwematambudziko kumativi ose maviri.
Uye ndiani anofara zvikuru? Pupa kana mukadzi?
Kazhinji tinosangana neAmerican romantic comedies uye tione kuti protagonist weanoda wake anopa chipo chinokosha kwazvo, nokudaro anoratidza rudo rwake. Saka kusagadzikana kunokura mupfungwa dzevakadzi: kana achida, ipapo achandipa zvipo zvinodhura. Asi ndizvo zvakadaro?
Fungidzira iyi mamiriro ezvinhu, zvisingatauri kutaura, tichacherechedza: vakadzi vaviri, mumwe anosangana nemurume ane mari yakanaka, uye mumwewo wepamusoro. Wekutanga ari kukumbira mudiwa wake zvinhu zvose, chero chinhu, kutanga nehomwe yePrada uye kupedzisa nemutsipa wedhaimani weTiffany, asi anonyanya kuda, sekunge kuti zvipo zvose zvinoti kwaari: "Une chikwereti kwandiri." Imwe inounza maruva emaruva kwezuva uye inoronga kudya kwepabonde, asi inobata mukadzi ane njere, asingatsvaki chinhu mukudzoka. Uye ndiani anofara zvikuru? Pupa kana mukadzi?
Zvechokwadi, ndinoda kufarira mukadzi wese munyika ino kuti awane murume ane njere, akanaka, ane hanya, uye anobudirira. Asi upenyu chinhu chinonakidza zvakadaro. Ngatitorei mhedziso: hazvina basa kuti chipo ichocho chichabhadhara sei, chinhu chikuru ndechokuti aizopa chiratidzo chekucherechedza, uye iri ndiro rimwe shoko randinoda, chete mumutauro we "murume". Yeuka, kana munhu wako anodiwa achikurumidza kubva kubasa kwauri, rega musangano unokosha bedzi nokuti iwe waunoda imbwa inorwara, uye paanenge ari mubhizimusi, anodana katatu pazuva - unogona kushamisika nei. Zvichida mazwi haazove akakosha zvikuru?
Nhasi iwe wakamuona zvakare, uye haana kukusiya iwe kweminiti, akabata ruoko rwake, akakubata, uye iwe wakanzwa wakachengetedzwa uye uchida, nokuti akanga ava pedyo. Nokudaro, zvakare anokuudza kuti anokuda iwe. Kubata kwake, kunyaradza, kutarisira izvi zvose zvinofanira kukuyeuchidza zvaanoda. Hazvina kunaka kubata munhu asina hanya newe, uye kunyange kubata ruoko rwako rose manheru, sekuita kwegoridhe.
Hazvina basa kuti chipo ichocho chichabhadhara sei, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti anopa chiratidzo chekucherechedza, uye ichi ndiro rimwe shoko randinoda, kunze kwe "mutauro wevarume".
Asi izvi zvose zvingaita sechinhu chiduku chinofananidzwa nechikamu chehupenyu hwake hwaunotora. Kana akakutaurira kuvanhu vake vepedyo, shamwari, anopa makii eimba zvinoreva kuti anoda. Anokuudza nezvebasa, iwe unoshanyira maonesheni pamwe chete, usatsauka kubva kwauri-iyo nzvimbo dzakawanda dzehupenyu iyo munhu waunoda anobvuma kwauri, kana achikuda. Imwe nyanzvi yakareruka, handizvo here? Kana chete iye asina kunyanya kunetseka.