Chii chinonyanya kukwezva varume kune vakadzi?

Varume, nokuda kwechikamu chikuru, havazive ivo pachavo. Vakawanda vanoedza kuvanza izvi mushure mekurwa kwekunze, kuenda kuimba, vachiputira mishonga kuti vatarisire yakasimba ... Asi dzimwe nguva vanozvibvumira kutaura kwakanyarara "kubva kuna Renata Litvinova": "Mwari, zvinotyisa sei kurarama!" Hapana anozopikisana nazvo, kuti chinhu chikuru mumunhu mweya. Uye ndinofunga kuti muviri ndiwo muganhu unooneka wemweya. Hapana sero remuviri uyu rinorarama risina kuzadza hupenyu hwemweya. Chimwe chinhu ndechokuti munhu wose ane hanya yake, nzira yekufambisa uye zvibvumirano zvake zvepalence nemumwe munhu. Chii chakanaka kune imwe, nokuti imwe yakaipa.

Ndinofarira vakadzi vakanaka uye vakanaka chaizvo. Vanogara vachigara mupfungwa dzangu, uye ini ndinoda izvi zvinodhaka. Zvakakosha kuti ini ndive ndasuwa mukadzi zuva rega rehupenyu hwangu. Mumwe munhu ane hanya nehukuru hwezamu, asi ini nguva dzose ndinoda zvose mumukadzi. Kunyangwe ini, zvakare, ndinogona kuwira mukudanana nemakumbo akanaka, uye izvi zvichava zvakakosha kwandiri kupfuura unhu hunyengeri uye unyanzvi husinganzwisisiki. Chinonyanya kukwezva varume muvakadzi - izvi zvichakurukurwa munyaya yacho.

Rudo rukuru kwazvo "nzira" kupfuura we analyzer yedu kana uropi, hunosarudza kuti chii chaunofanira kuita. Kukanganwira kana kusaregerera kukanganisa chinhu cheupenzi. Kuongorora kwedu kwezviito zvemudiwa - sekivha pamusuo weimba yechic. Ne maoko edu pachedu, tinogona kuvhara suo imomo. Uropi hwedu hunoita basa reimba iyi. Uye kana mudzimai wako anodikanwa, aneta nekudzivisa, anosarudza kubva, iwe unodanidzira shure kwake: "Kupi? Sei? Takabvumirana newe here? "Uye wakabvumirana nei? Kuti iwe uchamuchengeta pane nyundo yesimbi, uye iye achakufudza iwe nokuda kweizvi? Hapana chakaipa nechokuti mumwe munhu ari kushandisa mumwe munhu muviri. Hongu, isu tose tinofara apo mumwe munhu anobatsira. Uye asingafari, apo pasina munhu anoda. Mukadzi ari kunyanya ruzivo murudo kupfuura munhu. Uye zvakanyanya kugadzirirwa kuda. Mukadzi ari mberi kwomurume uyu zvose musimba rekushuva kweganda uye mune zvakanyanya kufarirwa ... Ane simba shoma, asi ane nyasha, nyasha ... Anorarama mumanzwiro emitemo yeumwe, asingazivi kuvanhu, mafungiro. Uye kana mukadzi anodikanwa asinganzwisisi iwe, ipapo mhosva yake haisipo. Muvanhu, kutya kwezera kwakawanda kwazvo kupfuura kwevakadzi. Asi kupfuura kwezera, murume anotya mudzimai asingakanganisi uye kukwikwidza. Nokudaro, kana izvi zvikaitika, tinokurumidza kuuraya mhuri, kukura mimba uye kuvakazve nyika yose. Tinoronga nyaya dzezvifaro zvinosanganiswa nezera - "Ndinofara pamba rokubata hove, zvakanaka nevazukuru vangu vari munyika" ... Tiri kurarama mune izvi hazvina ngozi kune isu takagadziriswa, nyika yakanaka uye takamirira kusvikira tavigwa nemitemo uye nekutenderwa kwevanhu vakadaro .

Pane chikonzero chekuti vanhu vashoma pamwe chete, zvinotapira zvepabonde. Ndinobvumirana, asi pane chimwe chinhu - kana pane rudo muhukama. Pasina rudo, muviri unotengesa, haugoni kushanda. Mari uye doro dzimwe nguva dzinoedza kugadzirisa dambudziko racho. Kazhinji kubudirira. Sezvo muhoke iyo. Ndiwo murume ari pamberi pegirazi-mhuka chaiye: dumbu rinosungirira, bvudzi rinobva kumativi ose, risina kugadzikana nehangover, kutora chimwe chinhu zuro kubva kumazino, chakwegura zvakanyanya, asi chiitiko chikuru chemafuta pamapfudzi. Uye mugirazi unoratidza kunaka kunoshamisa musikana ane makore 20 avete pamubhedha - ngirozi yakachena. Anotarisa paanofungisisa uye anoti: "Zvakakosha kuda mari! .." Varume-shamwari kwandiri pfungwa yakaoma kunzwisisa. Asi, pakati pevarume, kubatana, kubatana, uye ushamwari - hazviwanzoitiki. Ndine zvipfuva zvishanu, shamwari dzinodiwa, shamwari dzakazvipira. Kuti vavada, ini handifaniri kushungurudza pamwe chete muusiku kana kuenda kunobata hove kana kuenda kunoshamba. Shamwari yangu, pane imwe nguva musangano pamwe neshoko rangu "Nyika iri duku!" Yakapindura kuti: "Iwe uri chii! Kwete! Iyo yakatetepa yakaonda! "Zvechokwadi. Nzvimbo ye "vanhu" yavo yakasiyana.

Rudo harukwegura - runobereka zvakare. Kuti udzokezve, unogona kukwanisa "kumhanyira kuruboshwe." Iwe haugoni kuramba! Kana paive nemafungiro akadaro - zvakakosha kumhanyira ikoko nokukurumidza! Izvi zvinoreva kuti pane "zvakanaka" -zvose hazvina chinhu uye rima. Zvose zvapera! Ndizvo chete chivharo chakazara! Imwe nzira: iyi "yakasara" inogona kupedza awa kana zuva, mushure mokunge iwe uchaona kuti iwe wakange uri bofu, uye dzokera kune chaicho chaunoda iwe. Zvakanaka, iwe haungadzoki, kunyange iwe ukasununguka mukadzi. Zvose zvakanaka! Ini ndinonyanya kukoshesa kutaurirana kwevanhu vasina mhosva mune zvepabonde muupenyu. Ini, hongu, ndinoziva kuti mufaro werudo hausi mukutora chete, asiwo mukufadzwa nemanzwiro, kuratidzira ... Asi kusvikira ndafa, ndichaedza kuchengeta pfungwa yekuve yehutano hwangu. Icho chinangwa chinofadza.