Uye matanho anobva -sekunge kuti tangi rakapfuura. Sei vamwe vanhu vachirarama nyore uye vamwe vakaoma? Nokuti ndiani ane tsvina iyo inobva mumotokari? Nzira yekubvisa kusangana kwemufaro usina kukodzera kuwanwa, nokuti miviri yakaoma uye ine chiedza yevanhu nguva dzose iripo.
Uye munharaunda yangu, uye munharaunda yako, pane vanhu vane chiedza uye vane nzara. Pakutanga, zvinoratidzika, hapana matambudziko, havatakudzi munhu chero upi zvake ane matambudziko, vanofara kurondedzera hupenyu, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - vose vanozviwana. Uye kune vanhu vasingawanzogunun'una nguva dzose, asi nenzira imwe neimwe zvinhu zvose zvinoitika kwavari zvinonzwisiswa semutoro. Havasi vanyengeri uye vane tariro, asi, sezvandinonzwisisa, vanhu vanonzwa hupenyu hwakasiyana: vamwe sechipo chaMwari, sechikonzero chemufaro, vamwe semuedzo, uye kunyange basa. Ndinodana vanhu ava "Mozart naSalieri" kana kuti "butterflies nenjodzi". Nhamba yangu yakasiyana sei nesayenzi? Uye sei, kubva pakuona kwekufunga kwepfungwa, ndiyo yakanyanya kururamisa kurarama-yakafanana neflyfly kana nzou?
Nenzira yakanaka, sezvinodiwa nemweya yevanhu, sayenzi hairevi mitemo yakasimba yezviremera zvakaoma uye zviri nyore zvevanhu. Kunaka kana kuoma kwemunhu kunoenderana nezvinhu zvitatu: zvinhu zvehupenyu hwake, rudzi rwehutano uye huzivi hwehupenyu. Hazvibviri kutaura kuti rudzi rwehupi uye chimiro chenyika inoona chakarurama. Nzira imwe neimwe yekushamwaridzana nenyika ndeyechokwadi, nokuti inofananidzwa nemhando yemumwe munhu, kune yake psychophysiological maitiro. Saka usatarisira kubva kune vanoona nezvepfungwa kuti mhinduro isinganzwisisi kumubvunzo. Asi mafilosofi akaparadzaniswa mumapoka maviri. Vamwe vanodavira kuti hupenyu huri nyore, dzimwe dzakaoma. Somuenzaniso, vazivi vechiGiriki vekare vakati:
"Mwari vanorarama zviri nyore." Zvinoreva kuti vanhu nyore nyore vanobudirira, uye vanosvika Olympus. Friedrich Nietzsche, zvakasiyana, akati: "Avo chete vanotakura mhirizhonga, vanogona kubereka nyeredzi yekutamba" -kufunga kwake, munhu akaoma chete anogona kugadzira chimwe chinhu chinokosha. Pano pane zvakasiyana zvachose mafirosofi maonero ehupenyu.
Uye nemugariro wehupenyu hunoguma - hupi uzivi huri kubudirira?
Mozart - murume akajeka akanga ari! Uye mimhanzi yake yakafanana - chiedza, chikanaka. Uye yeuka mabasa aSchnittke - pakati pedu tichitaura, kwete vanhu vose vachamira mimhanzi yakaoma, yakaoma. Asi vose vari masimba. Kana kuti vanyori vanyori Yesenin naPasternak. Tinoziva kuti Boris Leonidovich, kukopa magwaro ake makumi mashanu kudarika, aitambudzwa nemashoko ose. SaLeo Tolstoy, nenzira. Yesenin akanyora nyore nyore, nokukurumidza, anenge asina mahwendefa. Vanababa vokutanga veSoviet psychology, Alexander Luria naAlexei Leontiev, ndivowo muenzaniso wakanaka. Ndakanga ndichiri kuwana, ndakawana mukana wekupinda misangano yavo kuMoscow State University uye ndakashamisika kuti ivo vakasiyana zvakadini uye panguva imwechete vakapiwa chipo. Luria waiva munhu akajeka, anofara, kuisa pfungwa. Leontief, munhu wose aimuziva, aive akajeka muchidimbu: murume ane simba. Vose vakakura masayendisiti. Zvisinei, maererano nekufungidzira kwenyika uye maererano noupenyu - zvachose polar. Kune mumwe nomumwe wevanhu ava zvaiva zvakasikwa kurarama zvakadai, uye zvisingaiti. Mushure mezvose, kune unyanzvi hwokukunda, uye kune unhu hwekufamba. Avo avo vanoda kukunda chimwe chinhu nguva yose yekufuridzira, zvichida, vanhu vane nzara. Avo vari kutsigira pfungwa kunze kwekunetseka kwekunze kwekunze kunogona kunzi mapapu evanhu. Zvichida kutaura, imwe mutsara yakaita se-bulldozers, vamwe vanobhururuka sezvimharapfe, zvose zvinotyisa nezvemhando dzakaoma uye dziri nyore dzevanhu.
Munhu anogomera , anotanga kupera muvhiki yake yose, anotaura kuti ane hukama hwakashata, kuti hupenyu hwakaoma uye hakuna hurumende munyika - uye kukurukurirana naye kunoshanduka kuva masaha. Iwe unotanga uye uzvinetseke iwe: Mwari wangu, chinangwa chakaoma sei chandinazvo naye, chinangwa chekuita zvakadini, sei zvipingamupinyi munzira yedu ...
Iwe unoziva kuti mukurapa kune mutemo wakadai - mishonga yemisha. Saka, munyori wemuAmerican Philip Bailey mubhuku rake, iro rinonzi "Homoeopathic Psychology", anonyora kuti mumazuva ano hupfumi, kune huwandu huwandu hwevanhu vakaita seNuksvomika: vakaremara, vakanamatira pamatambudziko vanhu vanofarira kuverenga zvinhu zvose zvisati zvaitika uye anotya kwazvo, kana chimwe chinhu chichienda. Vane huwandu kupfuura vamwe vanotambura nehutano nehutachiona husingaperi. Uye sezvo Firipi Bailey achicherechedza, hazvigoneki kugadzirisa rudzi rwemunhu, zvakaita saizvozvo. Saka iwe, zvakanyatsocherechedza: vanhu vane simba mukukurukurirana haisi nyore, vanodzvinyirira uye dzimwe nguva vanotsamwisa. Asi pane zvakare kusakanganisika: vanogona kuita chiito uye nguva yakareba basa, nepo chiedza chichivenga.
Kune marudzi akasiyana ekukurudzira. Semuenzaniso, kukurudzirwa kwegadziriro uye kushandiswa kwechigumisiro. Kana kuti chikonzero chekutya uye chikonzero chekufara. Heino zvisiri nyore, zvisinei nemamiriro ezvinhu, muenzaniso. Kana munhu ari nyore achiita segucker, anofarira mumugwagwa, anofarira zvinhu zvishoma: pane imbwa inonakidza pachiteshi chemotokari, uye heino kafi inotapira mumugwagwa wegwagwa. Kana mutyairi ari murume akaremara, haazvioni zvose izvi, nokuti iye chinhu chikuru ndechokusvika nenguva. Chinangwa chake hachifadzi, asi pane, kugutsikana nechokuti zvinhu zvose zviri maererano neurongwa. Nekukurudzirwa nemufaro, inofanirwa kuva nevanhu vari nyore: ivo vakagadzirira kuita zvavanoda, nekuda kwekunakidzwa kwegadziriro yacho pachayo. Asi chikonzero chekutya chinodikanwa kuti vanhu vaoneke, vakaremera: vanokurudzirwa nechido chekudzivisa dambudziko, dambudziko. Kana tikatendeukira kuMozart archetype, zvino tinoyeuka kuti Mozart akanga asina kutambudzwa pamusoro pekuti: "Ndingaita seiko kunyora symphony, ndingakwanisa sei kuipedzisa?" Akafarira mufaro unofadza hwekugadzirisa apo rwiyo rwaiyerera, sezvarwo.
Pano! Mashoko ekuti - "sekunge ari oga." Kazhinji ndinocherechedza: kukosha kwechigumisiro kunotsanangurira (kana, zvishoma, zvakakonzerwa zvakanamatira) ne "kushaya ropa" kwevanhu vane simba uye vakareruka. Uye kana munhu akaita zvose mukuvhima, zviri nyore uye anofara? Ndezvipi, migumisiro yake haina kukosha kudarika migumisiro yeavo vakazununguka kuti vashise?
Iwe unonzwisisa chii chiri kurongeka kwepfungwa pano? Chokutanga, munhu uyo zvinhu zvose zvinopiwa nyore nyore, zvakakwirira, zvinokonzera kushuva kubva kune avo vanoremekedzwa. Iwe hausi kufunga here kuti, nenzira yokufananidzira, "nhovu" ichakwanisa kutarisa zvinyararire kuti "butterfly" iri kutamba sei mutambo, iyo yakaoma zvikuru kwaari, "nzou"? Chechipiri, vanhu vane simba vanowanzoda zvipingamupinyi - saka kuti: "Kwaive kwakaoma, asi takazviita!" - zvichiwedzera kukosha kwayo.
Matambudziko, kuputsa sarudzo, mhirizhonga - rudzi rwekukurudzira, nzvimbo inobereka yevanhu vane nzara. Uye kana vasina ruzivo, vanozviumba ivo pachavo. Pandakatsanangurira Vasily kuti vashandi vake vaida "ropa", sezvavanotaura ivo pachavo, kuzvipira kwemapurogiramu, akabatanidza musoro wake: iye pachake munhu ari nyore, haadi zvimwe zvinetso.
Isu tose taifanira kurapwa mu polyclinics uye nezvipatara, isu tose takapiwa majekiseni. Yeuka kusiyana kwakadini nevanoti vanorwara. Mumwe achasveta, kuseka-joke - uye nyore nyore kupa jekisi, usatombofunga kuti akakurumidza sei kuzviita. Chimwe chinyenyeri, chinodzungudza musoro wake: "Uh, ndedzipi mitsipa yakaipa ... Zvakaoma kuwana!" Uye iwe watotanga kushungurudzika, kunetseka - chaizvoizvo, sei nemakumbo asina kunaka akadaro kune chimwe chinhu chakanaka kutarisira? Ndine ruremekedzo rukuru kune vanamukoti uye vanachiremba, uye panguva imwechete ndinonzwisisa kuti vanhu vane nzara mumishonga ndeyekuwedzererwa kwevanorwara. Vanogona, ndinosimbisa izvi, nenzira inokonzera kukonzera kusagadzikana kwekutadza mutsika kumunhu. Nokudaro, nenzira, kutaura uku "ruoko" uye "rinorema" ruoko. Zvechokwadi, tsanangudzo idzi hadzisi vesayenzi. Asi isu tose tinobata nguva apo patinofanira kutarisana ne "vanhu vane simba" vakadaro - kana vari chiremba kana vabatiri vemaoko. Uye isu tinoedza nemaune kudzivisa vanyori vakadaro.
Sezvandinoyeuka , maererano naFrud, mufaro unovuya mushure mokutambudzika. Ndizvo, mufaro ndiwo mubayiro unofanirwa kuwanikwa. Uye neimwe nzira hazvibviri here? Icho hachisi chinonzi "soviet" chakakomba chemufaro usina kufanirwa uyo munhu anonzwa asingakodzeri chimwe chinhu chakanaka here?
Zvimwe zvikonzero zvinogona kunge zvakangoita mupfungwa (kusazviremekedza, kusazvigadzirira kuzvigamuchirwa), uye shanduko (muviri werudzi uye rudzi rwehutachiona hwehurumende), hormonal, uye sociocultural. Mark Burno, anonyanya kuzivikanwa wepfungwa dzeRussia, akanyora kuti: vanhu vokuchamhembe vane nzara mupfungwa, maodzanyemba ari chiedza. Hazvingave zvakakosha here isu kutarisa kuKubans, Italians, Greeks kuti tinzwisise: zvinoreva hupenyu hazvisi kutambura, zvinoreva hupenyu huri muhupenyu pachahwo? Sezvechiremba wepfungwa ndinogona kutaura pamusoro pemhedziso yakagadzirwa naFrud: kune rumwe rudzi rwevanhu, mufaro unoyera muhuwandu hwemashandira anoshandiswa pakuwana chigumisiro. Asi iyi haisi mutemo wevanhu vose. Ichi ndicho chirevo chezvizvarwa.
Reversibility ndiyo kukwanisa kwomunhu kutamisa chinangwa chemuitiro kubva pane imwe nzira kusvika kune chigumisiro uye pamwe chete. Munhu akadzoka anogona kuvaka zvakare zvirongwa zvake, kuongorora purogiramu yake uye kusambofa wakamira ipapo. Kunetesa imwe musoro muhupenyu, anowana zvimwe zvakasiyana, zvinoreva zvakasiyana. Iyo yakasimba, iyo, yakasimba, isina kugadzikana, inoputira mune imwe nzira, seyo muumbi wejini inogara nokusingaperi. Kana, kana asvika pane chinangwa chakatarwa, anonzwa kusina maturo uye kusava nehupenyu muupenyu, sezvo pane zvaanofunga hapana chimwezve chingaita.
Uye pano mubvunzo unonakidza. Kana pane imwe chete "nhovu" mukati kana mumhuri, uye yechipiri "butterfly"? Saka chii?
Dzidzira kuratidza: kana murume akaremara uye mudzimai wake ari chiedza, mudzimai achakwanisa kuchinja. Sezvo mudzimai wemudzimai akadaro akambonditaurira mukupindura kumashoko angu kuti mukadzi anogona kungoita sokuti akaroorwa kusvika kumakore mashanu: "Hongu, ndave ndinyepedzera kuva katatu kaviri!" Saka, mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, basa remukadzi ndekudzikama, "kuronga" munhu anodikanwa, kuti abvise kukanganiswa. Asi kana munhu ari munhu ari nyore, uye mukadzi akaremera, vaviri vacho vanowira muboka risina ngozi. Ichokwadi ndechokuti mumhuri yemafungiro ayo mukadzi anotamba basa rinotungamirira. Uye mukomana "butterfly" kazhinji haakwanisi kumira kukanganiswa kunoitwa nemukadzi ane simba, akasimba. Iye, zvakare, anoita seanononoka, anononoka, asina hanya ...
Iniwo ndakabhadhara kune izvi. Vanhu vatsva vari kukurukurirana nezvegadzirisa dambudziko racho, uye zvakaoma ndiro dambudziko racho pacharo. Ndine shamwari dzinofarira chaizvo kutsanangura chikonzero nei dzisina kubudirira, nei chimwe chinhu chisingakwanisi kuitwa - panzvimbo yekukurukurirana kuti ingashandiswa sei.
Ndinonzwisisa zvauri kutaura nezvazvo. Vamwe vanokurukura matambudziko uye kusagona kugadzirisa, asi vamwe vari kutsvaga nzira nemikana, vakarurama? Yeuka, pakutanga kwekukurukurirana takataura nezvehupenyu hwehupenyu?
Tinobvuma kutendeseka: mune zvakasikwa, zvose zvinodiwa. Kana zvisina kudaro, mamwe marudzi ezvisikwa akave apera. Asi, kutaura pamusoro pezvakawanda uye zvinotyisa, unogona kushandisa nzira inonzi "hyperbolization." Mune mamwe mazwi, kana hypertrophy yezviratidzo zvemarudzi ose maviri, ipapo pane imwe pfumo - nyore - tinowana kusagadzikana kwepatile psycho, uyo asina hanya nezvinhu zvose. Yeuka, sezvakataurwa naBrorov, akapfura Stolypin: "Ndechipi musiyano, ndichadya zvishoma zvemaduku makumi maviri kana upenyu hwangu huchapera zvino." Uye kana iwe uine hypertrophied nechirwere chakaoma, iwe uchawana zvakanyanya-sachiri kana kuti masochist, ane zvinoreva kurwisana, kutambura, kugadzira matambudziko, kukunda, kubvarura aorta uye kuputsa mapfupa-kune vamwe kana iwe pachako. Sechiremba wepfungwa, zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti kuenda kune zvakanyanyisa kune ngozi. Kana zviri nyore, uye kune munhu anotambudzika, chinhu chikuru ndechokuwana "chikamu chendarama", kubatana, izvo zvichatibvumira kushandisa mativi edu akasimba uye asina simba, seshiri-mapapiro.
Protozoa inoratidzika seyiyi. For butterflies:
1) kuronga urongwa hwakajeka hwekuda kwevhiki, kunyatsoziva kuti hupenyu huri kuchinja, asi tichaita zvakafanana kune zvikamu zveurongwa, zvisinei nekukurumidza;
2) usanonoka kuzivisa vamwe vanhu nezvenguva yemisangano, iyo yakakodzera kwatiri, kwete ivo;
3) nguva nenguva shanduko yekugara uye yezvakatipoteredza kuitira kuti titize kubva kune inowanzogara nyika uye nharaunda;
4) tinotanga kati, tinoedza kuinzwisisa.
Ne "nzou":
1) kukura nguva yekuchengetedza gore negore rakadzama uye nzvimbo dzekugara;
2) tinobvumira vamwe vanhu kuti vave nehuwandu hwekusaziva, nokuti ivo vasina simba, uye isu tine simba;
3) nguva nenguva tinoverenga kusarudzwa kweanecdotes, iyo inonzi isinganzwisisiki pane chimwe chikonzero uye edza kunzwisisa zvinonzwisisika pamusoro pavo;
4) tinotanga imbwa ndoidzidzisa. Pakupedzisira, munaEpril - inguva yekufunga nezvekusununguka kwekuva!