Kubva pakuona kwevana vepfungwa dzepfungwa, mucheche nguva yevana vanoenderera mberi kusvikira vatanga kusemwe, vachiita kune izwi revanhu. Apo pakarepo mwana wacho achinyemwerera, tinogona kufunga kuti danho rokutanga rekugadzirwa kwepfungwa yake - iyo nheyo iyo iyo yose yekufambira mberi kwayo yakavakirwa - iri kupfuura.
Iye zvino mwana anotanga kuteerera nyika yakamupoteredza, uye mukuru wevatungamiri, kudzivirira kubva kune chero njodzi, kupa pfungwa yekuchengeteka, kuchengeteka uye kubatsira kuchinja munyika ino inonakidza inofadza, ndeyecheche, zvirokwazvo, amai vangu.
Kunyanya kukosha ndeyekukurukurirana nguva dzose uye kukurukurirana naamai kumwana wegore. Kuonekwa kwevamwe vepfungwa kwakaratidza kuti kana amai vachitaurirana nemwana wezera iri nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero havakwanisi, izvi zvinoshungurudza zvikuru upenyu hwose hunotevera hwemwana, vachimurambidza kuzvivimba uye nekuumba maari pfungwa yepasi rakapoteredza seusina hanya uye izere nezvinetso zvemarudzi ose. Ndokusaka zvakakosha kuti kune hukama hwakasimba uye hunogara huri pakati pemwana naamai vake. Zvikamu zvikuru zvekubudirira kwekukurukurirana kwevana-vana:
- Kuyamwisa ndiyo yekutanga uye inokosha yekukurukurirana. Mucheche unoshandiswa pamucheto mushure mekuberekwa. Apo mwana anouya munyika, anonzwa kushungurudzika kukuru, uye kuzvidzivirira pachake kubva pakukanganisa kunokonzera kushungurudzika uku pamusoro pepfungwa, zvakakosha kuti iye achinzwa chiitiko chekudziya kwechifuva chaamai uye kunzwa kunzwa kwomwoyo amai vake. Mukuwedzera, zvakaratidza kuti mukaka wemuviri mune zvinhu zvinosimbisa kusununguka kwemwana uye kufarira kushandiswa kwemazuva ose kwehurongwa hwenheyo. Nokuda kwezvikonzero izvi, kuyamwisa hakukurudzirwi kuchinjwa nechinangwa chekuita.
- Bata. Apo mwana wacho asati adzidza kunzwisisa mutauro wevanhu, iye anonyanya kufunga nezvekubata kwaamai. Pavari anosarudza mamiriro uye mafungiro eamai uye kuburikidza navo anonzwa rudo rweamai uye unyoro. Nokudaro, kubata kweamai kumwana kunofanira kugara kuri munyoro, rudo uye kugadzikana. Mwana wacho anofanira kunge akasungirirwa, akumbundirwa uye achitsvoda kakawanda sezvinobvira. Usagunzva mwana wacho nenzira yakaipa, sezvo ichakurumidza kuparidzirwa kwaari, uye mwana, paanonzwa alarm, achatanga kuchema, kuti ave asina chimiro. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzinopa mazano asati anwisa kuderedza mwana, sezvo kubatana kwepanyama hakungogadziri mamiriro ake emagetsi, asi kunobatsirawo kugadzirwa kwemukaka wakanaka kubva kuna amai.
- Kutaura. Kunyange zvazvo vacheche vasati vanzwisise zvinoreva mazwi akataurwa, vanonyatsotevera kutevera kwavanotaura. Nokudaro, hazvikoshi zvakanyanya izvo amai vangati, zvakakosha sei kuti pave nemoyo munyoro, munyoro uye munyoro muzwi rake. Mhemberero dzakaratidza kuti mwana anokwanisa kusiyanisa izwi raamai kubva kune vamwe vakawanda! Mukuwedzera, vana vane amai vavo vanotaura vanoramba vachikura nokukurumidza uye vanozove nemashoko akawanda kupfuura vana vanaamai avo vasina kuwana zvakafanira kutaura navo.
- Eye contact. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzepfungwa dzinofunga kuti amai vanofanira kutarisa mumaziso echecheche yavo kwemaminitsi anenge 15-20 pazuva. Hazvisi zvechinhu icho vanhu vashoma vanonzwisisana pakarepo. Meso omunhu igiratiro remweya wake, saka mwana anogara achiziva izvo amai vake vanoda kumuudza. Chinhu chikuru - mumai vake amai vachaona rudo rusingagumi uye risingaperi. Uye kana, kana achitarisa mwana, mai vachamusemwerera uye vanyemwerera, iye anofanira kumubatsira kuti ave nemafungiro akanaka uye mamiriro emufaro.
- A dream dream. Mhedziso yokuti kurara necheche muchechi imwe chete haiteveri, uye kuti panguva yekurara amai vanogona kukuvadza kana kurova mwana wavo, havana chikonzero uye vakanganisa. Kurota kwaamai kunonakidza, uye kunyange mukurota amai vane rudo vanoteerera kumhando dzose dzomwana wavo uye vanodzora kufamba kwake. Kune rumwe rutivi, kana amai vachiendesa murume kune imwe imba, vachitora mwana kwaari, hapana chakanaka chichagumisa ...
Asi kana mwana wacho asina zororo, kazhinji achichema usiku uye asingakwanisi kurara asina amai, saka hapana chakakanganisika neanobatana hope. Pedyo naamai, vana vaduku vanorara zvakanyarara, nokuti vanonzwa vakachengeteka. Kazhinji vana mushure megore vanotanga kushuva kuzvimiririra, saka kuparadzana kubva kune amai vanorara vanonzwisiswa navo zvishoma zvakanyanya. Pakupedzisira, kuitira kuti arege kurara nemucheche mubhedha rimwechete, mai vanogona kuisa mubhedha wechecheche pamubhedha wake, uye iye acharamba achizvinzwa uye ari kurara.
Masayendisiti eAmerica akaita zvidzidzo zvinonakidza izvo zvakaratidza kuti vana vari pasi pezera vanovata vari voga kubva kuna amai vavo, kanenge ka 50 pausiku, pane kuvhiringidzika mukufema nemwoyo rhythm, nepo muvana vachirara mubhedha rimwe chete naamai vavo, zvakadai hazvina kunyorwa mu kakawanda zvishoma.